Alrighty......Better Late than Never..Good Comeback Writers!! - Page 4

When one has a void one can try hard to fiil that Or sense the void in others life and fill it. In the case of MaAn and Mukku they each have the need and the unconditional urge to give. Mukku tried to make Vanya patch up like Kinjal did once.

Mukkus craving for maternal care will be met by Anupama. Anupama will be the bridge that connects the siblings, Mukku the cupid for MaAn and nemesis for Vanraj.

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Bold- the darker the night, the brighter the sun grows. God actually has something or someone good for everyone. And You only get when the time is right. Now is the time for Anu and Anuj. Anuj to have a wholesome love filled life after the loveless 26 years of loneliness. Anu to feel respected, wanted in a family, most important an integral part of the family

Absolutely, totally!!!!❤️ Love and Life at the end of the day are magic!! We just have to know how to live and weave ourselves in that magic ... hahahaha.... you will turn me into a semi-poet girl!!

By the way this also makes me think of the song "oo majhi re.. apna kinara nadiya ki dhara hai".. and a river for me represents life!!

Originally posted by: moonwearer

When one has a void one can try hard to fiil that Or sense the void in others life and fill it. In the case of MaAn and Mukku they each have the need and the unconditional urge to give. Mukku tried to make Vanya patch up like Kinjal did once.

Mukkus craving for maternal care will be met by Anupama. Anupama will be the bridge that connects the siblings, Mukku the cupid for MaAn and nemesis for Vanraj.

Ahhhhh, Vidz your last line nicely weaves the 4 people as such...again the very thought that people come into our lives for a purpose!! Am waiting for that day when Mukku triggers the big bad wolf and becomes the cause for his downfall.

G I am a wilderness soul too. Maximum I can survive is 2 months after which I need time away. The pandemic has deprived me of that fresh air which has left me gasping. My best and worst life experiences have been connected to the mountains.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

So well articulated Ayushi! Anu and Anuj deserve a lot and Kanhaji gives chances or signs to everyone, we just have to recognize that and grab it. Taking that first step is what counts and then you get that courage to finally step fully onto a journey. Anuj took that first step when he decided to go to the reunion and meet his love. Anu took that first step when she really decided to join Anuj as a partner.

I was telling moon/Vidya that I was reading a Romantic Suspense book today and there was this line which said - its in the worst of situations that God gives you one of his best gifts. I wrote the exact line in just a previous post. ANuj was sent by God for Anu when she was in a way in one of her worst period of life!! Life is such a paradox of situations that you never know when something great knocks at your door!! We just have to keep that door open with hope :) :)🤗

Correct, one should never leave hope. Learn from mistakes, be courageous to take leap of faith. You deserve happiness after all you never get another life for this.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Absolutely, totally!!!!❤️ Love and Life at the end of the day are magic!! We just have to know how to live and weave ourselves in that magic ... hahahaha.... you will turn me into a semi-poet girl!!

By the way this also makes me think of the song "oo majhi re.. apna kinara nadiya ki dhara hai".. and a river for me represents life!!

Thank you for the complement. You are love😊

Yep life is river, you have no other option just to understand its flow and act like that to start from one bay of birth to the last bay of life. Like waves there is lots of highs and lows, some are so powerful to make you drown, it is you to find and how you choose your anchor or life saver jacket

Originally posted by: moonwearer

When one has a void one can try hard to fiil that Or sense the void in others life and fill it. In the case of MaAn and Mukku they each have the need and the unconditional urge to give. Mukku tried to make Vanya patch up like Kinjal did once.

Mukkus craving for maternal care will be met by Anupama. Anupama will be the bridge that connects the siblings, Mukku the cupid for MaAn and nemesis for Vanraj.

Right it is upto you how you crab it. A giver is a very responsible person, he / she must be known what the other person in need then only they connect. Here these three become integral in this

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Soooo, let bygones be bygones!!! Fandom zindabad!! Lets start afresh, shall we and will continue till the writers make their next blunder...hahahahhaah

I did not want to crowd in Sunny's thread as i saw that's already reached 14 pages..so here I am and my is more or less a tad serious analyses and our Sunny's thread is a mix of humor, seriousness and much more 😊😊

Let m start with our MaAn today..there are many many quotes of Nicholas Sparks that make me think of them. One such quote is as follows -

"The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that's what you've given me" - this is true for both isnt it?? They both bring peace to themselves, happiness, and that joy of just being. This is the beauty of a relation that has understanding, compassion, trust, transparency, honesty, and love. I hope this continues with MaAn in every junction of their life and we get to see the stark difference between Anu's past marriage and her current relation and in the future marriage! What i liked the most in today's episode and which total justice to Anu's feelings and healing is that Anuj broached the subject! This man never ceases to amaze me. Him taking that step/courage to address that she is also as much as a victim had my total respect. And Anu addressing this with her ex-husband is what we all wanted since this DV track started. I am glad (what ever be the reason) that writers addressed this and added this MOST IMP clip in the episode. This also created an opportunity for Anu to understand that with Anuj and Mukku, she also has that window to heal, speak, and mourn her trauma and pain that she has faced for 25 years!!!

Coming to Vanraj Shah, the audacity of the MAN to think that an apology, a mere sorry can wash away the humiliation, pain, the destruction that he has bestowed on Anupamaa!! WOW, some MAN he is!!!!

Vanraj Shah was and still is a domestic abuser who feels superior to women!! 25 years of trauma and counting can never be erased. I cannot even imagine the pain Anu probably felt watching her abuser sympathize with Mukku and not acknowledge his own sins. That one expression when he said that men have to change, says it all. I am damn proud that our girl gathered the courage to face the man who ignored his sins and tell him that she will never forget, but she won’t let it hinder her moving forward in life. And I am double proud that she did not let revenge rule her life!! Many a times the need for revenge consumes us so much that we forget to live. There’s something powerful in looking at the individual who abused you and acknowledging them but also showing them that they are NOT IMP enough now to stop moving forward. Vanraj believed he “freed” Anu while Anuj was in the hospital, but in this scene Anu freed herself from the shackles of Vanraj’s superiority complex. When Anu stared at her abuser in the eye and spoke her pain she achieved that one thing that many can never achieve, that she is no longer inferior to her abuser; she is free! This was the moment when Anu confidently made herself realize that she is afterall superior, far superior than Vanraj Shah!!!! Kudos to the dialogs that were part of this confrontation, even if its taken collectively from the fans!!!🤗

The pinky promise scene reminded me of a line from the movie Safe Heaven - "I love you katie, pls stay. I promise that you will be safe, i will be your safe heaven. Pls stay" ❤️❤️

Relationships are more informal in the US then the Indian subcontinent. People are very informal also in the workplace. Friendships develop between various age groups and any boundary is actually rare. However, Vanraj understands the boundaries of India. Multiple times he has claimed that his relationship with Mukku is solely professional and regardless of her temperament, Vanraj has the opportunity to set the dynamics/boundaries. Mukku may not understand or want to acknowledge the norms of the work place or establish boundaries, however, Vanraj as a brother, husband, and father understands her vulnerabilities and can very easily misuse the same. I will still say that Mukku is more than meets the eye. I observe her every expression and at times it feels like she is studying him and saying "haan beta, tera number jaldi aayega...tu khel jo khelna hai, main bhi khel hi rahi hun"!! I want to trust bec of the reason that this girl has stayed 10 years all by herself. She must have faced many morons!! I know the writers again can disappoint, but for now I will believe that Mukku is more than she seems to be. So let me wait and watch!

I understand Nandini’s concern, I agree with some of her thoughts, however I feel the writers are wanting one person to side with Kavya fully as karma is serving a little bit of what she has given to Anu. Kavya is her family and she will always have this relation as an excuse to project her weakness. However, Nandu needs to understand that beyond what Kavya did to Anu; she also personally blamed Samar and that will always be a sore point for Samar. Nandini has to understand that love, acceptance, and affection need to naturally happen and cannot be an automatic response to an individual marrying into a family. And what is this blaming of ANu????? How does it end up being Anu's fault???? This is one thing that I completely disagree with Nandu. Toshu’s advice to Pakhi was very much needed, at this point Pakhi still expects everything to be handed to her on a silver platter. If she truly wants to broaden her horizon/outlook/experiences she needs to show the maturity and preparation to prove that she’s capable of being on her own. Work hard and the results will play out girl!!

Finally, about Anu's wish to move out of the Kapadia house - again totally understandable!! I also will be awkward in her position. And the feel that she wants the siblings to bond well is totally justifiable but part of their growth and coming together as a family again is Anu. Anu has always felt as an “outsider” multiple times by the Shah's that maybe she is subconsciously is holding this true to the Kapadias as well. Even in today’s episode, Baa was hesitant to call Anu about what was happening in Samar’s life, based on Vanraj’s direction. Yet, we know that ANu can never be completely cut off from the Shahs. Because of her marriage to V, and having children she will always be connected. Just that the relation changes - her house has becomes an ex-house. Society is such that it never allows one to completely cut off from the past, mainly marriage! It takes sheer strength to always defend yourself when society asks questions. Mukku and Anu’s, “why do you care?” reminded me of so many conversations I have had with my parents at one point!! I always ask why should i care about what people think!! They are anyways going to comment one thing or the other as thats their timepass....people will gossip regardless, so we better live our life as we want to as its just one life, correct!! And my mother mainly will say “yes yes, but it doesn’t work that way always.” when you grow up in a society where gossip effects your life constantly it’s difficult to completely escape, but I am proud that Anu is taking steps to unchain herself from this chain of society and the kapadias are helping her in this as well!!

Ending with another famous quote - “The woman who survives intact and happy must be at once tender and tough. She must have convinced herself, that she, her values, and her choices are very important” - Maya Angelou

Looking forward to the next plot!! Bhavna mentioned that abb vidhvans hoga!!! hahahah they have moved to the next level of kaands... vidhvans = destruction!!!!

Have a great weekend all!!

Hey G a brilliant insight yet again!! I am glad the show is back on track!! This was the quality writing I missed. The parallels of Anu's life is drawn not just with Anuj but also with the shahs. The treatment dolled out to her for 25 yrs made her suffocate and long for freedom subconsciously! She dint even know she was oppressed in the name of relations, love and society . Today when she is embraced by the kapadias, you can sense the light in her that was always meant to shine. Yesterday Baa had reprimanded SaNan for discussing private matters outsidr the house and 'mohalla wale kya kahenge' theory and today Anuj and Mukku couldnt care less about what others think and say. She has been blessed with a world class apart that has nothing but love to offer. Today this Anu feels and looks different. She is still kind, giving and inclusive but is also assertive. She can slap you without raising her hand just like the conversation with Vanraj.

The less I talk about Vanraj, the better. He is his mother's pride and he is a reflection of her. Raised along a sister, has a daughter and yet his astounding arrogance to consider women inferior is ironic. We all kept saying K and V deserve each other but after the new promo of him trying to manipulate mukku, I can safely say K deserves better than this filth. His audacity to say Vanraj shah kisiki madhadh letha nahi hai dhetha hai, chuptha nahi hai is hilarious coz if my memory serves me right, the cafe idea when he was jobless came from Anu. His cafe ran successfully coz of Anu's signature dish. Anu saved the shah house from Rakhi dave. His contribution to other's lives has only been pain and misery. I want to see him on his knees. As Anu predicted, let life teach him a lesson and let that satisfying visual unfold in front of our eyes!! Anu, mukku and K pls for this one time stand together, look in the eyes of this narcissist and serve him what he truly deserves.

And Nandini- pleas shut the f%$k up!!!!!!!!!🤫

Originally posted by: moonwearer

G I too sense that there are layers to Mukku. Closure does not happen immediately after a traumatic life altering situation or phase. It is like walking in snow in Spiti valley. Sometimes you take one step at a time forward at times you slide several feet back. Confronting Ladla was progress and sharing that with Anuj reveals the trust and comfort they share.

Anupama choosing not to harbour hate as even that connects you to another. By choosing Ladla was not worth even that was her learning from the 26 years of pain. If she had pressed charges and got home convicted her loved ones would have suffered too.

His maksad now will present the monster side of Ladla in front of those that had till now turned a blind eye to his atrocities. He will fall badly and that will be nemesis striking.

I am a true believer that people enter or leave our lives by a predestined plan. We are not aware of it. This surprise element makes life beautiful.

I too feel the character mukku will surprise us. The girl is way more smarter than we think. Her eyes are mysterious. She is keenly observing vanraj. To live alone a person should be very alert and she lived 10 years of her life. I hope makers will surprise us

Beautiful topic Rain and can't agree more with what you said and not only yours. moon's and ayushi too and to all that posted in this topic.

I cant be more grateful to have come across you all all thanks to Anuj. This past and current month when ever I did feel low I always refer to your posts and your outlook towards life be it a fun or serious post it does motivate me.

The writers write so beautifully here like you ,sunny, hinz and others I truly admire you all. I too was once a writer but I lost my touch somewhere and I'm struggling to get it back.

I totally agree with what was mentioned here and what Mukku and Anuj said to Anu about not thinking about what society or people will say if she stays with them. I realized this when I was taunted and made fun of for watching ITV and J-series & anime before this used to hurt me badly and sometimes it even broke me making me feel completely like an outsider with others, but when I actually sit and think about it I realized that if this is a part of my life, then this makes me unique, even if I can't blend well with others it won't matter to me anymore. Like you mentioned Rain that If a person enters your life, then it is for a reason and I completely believe in it and I too stand by it and this is what I always say to my parents whenever I was scolded for this.

I'm totally sorry for my reply it became out of topic, but reading all the post here in this topic made me say all this could not hold my self back. I always want to write more but always end up with loss of words.

This is the reason why I say that you all should make a thread having all these topics under one post for reference and motivation too

And sorry again