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Posted: 3 years ago
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🤗 How I love these deep and sincere discussions and your analysis ☺️

Vanraj shah once a trash always a trash never smells good. You said it right he is still a domestic abuser. We discussed it before this kind of people never acknowledge they did this too and came to give sympathy. And these kind of people need to learn a lesson. Anupama is wiser she chose her happiness her growth over revenge. Seriously if asking me I even dont want revenge but he has to learn a tight lesson. This oportunist and mean man, in future, will taste this by Anu. Bawandar and vidhwans- these two powerful words I really hope will come out for which they are made. I really hope makers will keep this in mind.

Simultaneously Anuj, this man is hero, a true companion. He has guts or rather take as a duty to make Anu realise that she is a victim too, she too deserve a closure, healing, love , support. He is by her side. Even in this whole healing process of mukku, Anu eventually being helped by Anuj and Mukku and by herself too.

In the world of affairs, EMA, the real relations too exist. Thank you makers for giving us one. Anu put peace to his heart about telling her conversation with Vanraj. I kinda like it this whole flashback here. Real relation has appreciation, comfort, transparency, honesty and trust❤️

The whole sanan fiasco for me is not about kavya vanraj malvika or anu. Its a trust of Nandini to Samar, she eventually question his loyalty. It happens to the kids of the parents(one or other) betrayed their partner or having this kind of thinking. Eventually person starts fearing that if something like this or other will happen with me too, after all he is his son. Plus she got push after hearing Kavya's side of story. The truth is both vanya was and is at fault. Let see how it goes. Like in precap, it is true parents fiasco and divorce eventually affects the whole family and kids. Anupama can never be separated from shahs. Sadly She has three kids from the shah. A mother can left everything or can start a fresh with other but she never left her kids.

The circle of four in kapadia house. I feel love is flowing in air, you can smell it everytime you breath.

You said it right G, Anu considered herself outsider as she treated like one from past 25 years. And these made her feel she is the most important person in their lives. How organic the whole protest to stop her❤️ They made her comfortable with the idea of staying here for forever. We all know we are a family and above all we are not dependent on society for our happiness. People have one or other thing to gossip, we have to live the way we want to, which make us happy. Anuj shut up is love, this is so haq, dont you dare call yourself outsider. Its like if you are not from us then even we are also not us.So much love they behold.

MaAn are both fierce in love and moderate by mind. Blooming love, heart is on fire intense now and mind is at peace with belonging to each other, You rightly said G. Anu is lucky life gives her another chance as Anuj, not every one get this. She will have a blissful life ahead. After One destructed marriage one cannot gather courage for another one whether a love one. There will be a whole new contrast seeing in these two marriages in future. Anuj is now noticing her body language. He just need words of confirmation from her. They both will be fire when they will romance for real.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: RainFire125

Soooo, let bygones be bygones!!! Fandom zindabad!! Lets start afresh, shall we and will continue till the writers make their next blunder...hahahahhaah

I did not want to crowd in Sunny's thread as i saw that's already reached 14 pages..so here I am and my is more or less a tad serious analyses and our Sunny's thread is a mix of humor, seriousness and much more 😊😊

Let m start with our MaAn today..there are many many quotes of Nicholas Sparks that make me think of them. One such quote is as follows -

"The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that's what you've given me" - this is true for both isnt it?? They both bring peace to themselves, happiness, and that joy of just being. This is the beauty of a relation that has understanding, compassion, trust, transparency, honesty, and love. I hope this continues with MaAn in every junction of their life and we get to see the stark difference between Anu's past marriage and her current relation and in the future marriage! What i liked the most in today's episode and which total justice to Anu's feelings and healing is that Anuj broached the subject! This man never ceases to amaze me. Him taking that step/courage to address that she is also as much as a victim had my total respect. And Anu addressing this with her ex-husband is what we all wanted since this DV track started. I am glad (what ever be the reason) that writers addressed this and added this MOST IMP clip in the episode. This also created an opportunity for Anu to understand that with Anuj and Mukku, she also has that window to heal, speak, and mourn her trauma and pain that she has faced for 25 years!!!

Coming to Vanraj Shah, the audacity of the MAN to think that an apology, a mere sorry can wash away the humiliation, pain, the destruction that he has bestowed on Anupamaa!! WOW, some MAN he is!!!!

Vanraj Shah was and still is a domestic abuser who feels superior to women!! 25 years of trauma and counting can never be erased. I cannot even imagine the pain Anu probably felt watching her abuser sympathize with Mukku and not acknowledge his own sins. That one expression when he said that men have to change, says it all. I am damn proud that our girl gathered the courage to face the man who ignored his sins and tell him that she will never forget, but she won’t let it hinder her moving forward in life. And I am double proud that she did not let revenge rule her life!! Many a times the need for revenge consumes us so much that we forget to live. There’s something powerful in looking at the individual who abused you and acknowledging them but also showing them that they are NOT IMP enough now to stop moving forward. Vanraj believed he “freed” Anu while Anuj was in the hospital, but in this scene Anu freed herself from the shackles of Vanraj’s superiority complex. When Anu stared at her abuser in the eye and spoke her pain she achieved that one thing that many can never achieve, that she is no longer inferior to her abuser; she is free! This was the moment when Anu confidently made herself realize that she is afterall superior, far superior than Vanraj Shah!!!! Kudos to the dialogs that were part of this confrontation, even if its taken collectively from the fans!!!🤗

The pinky promise scene reminded me of a line from the movie Safe Heaven - "I love you katie, pls stay. I promise that you will be safe, i will be your safe heaven. Pls stay" ❤️❤️

Relationships are more informal in the US then the Indian subcontinent. People are very informal also in the workplace. Friendships develop between various age groups and any boundary is actually rare. However, Vanraj understands the boundaries of India. Multiple times he has claimed that his relationship with Mukku is solely professional and regardless of her temperament, Vanraj has the opportunity to set the dynamics/boundaries. Mukku may not understand or want to acknowledge the norms of the work place or establish boundaries, however, Vanraj as a brother, husband, and father understands her vulnerabilities and can very easily misuse the same. I will still say that Mukku is more than meets the eye. I observe her every expression and at times it feels like she is studying him and saying "haan beta, tera number jaldi aayega...tu khel jo khelna hai, main bhi khel hi rahi hun"!! I want to trust bec of the reason that this girl has stayed 10 years all by herself. She must have faced many morons!! I know the writers again can disappoint, but for now I will believe that Mukku is more than she seems to be. So let me wait and watch!

I understand Nandini’s concern, I agree with some of her thoughts, however I feel the writers are wanting one person to side with Kavya fully as karma is serving a little bit of what she has given to Anu. Kavya is her family and she will always have this relation as an excuse to project her weakness. However, Nandu needs to understand that beyond what Kavya did to Anu; she also personally blamed Samar and that will always be a sore point for Samar. Nandini has to understand that love, acceptance, and affection need to naturally happen and cannot be an automatic response to an individual marrying into a family. And what is this blaming of ANu????? How does it end up being Anu's fault???? This is one thing that I completely disagree with Nandu. Toshu’s advice to Pakhi was very much needed, at this point Pakhi still expects everything to be handed to her on a silver platter. If she truly wants to broaden her horizon/outlook/experiences she needs to show the maturity and preparation to prove that she’s capable of being on her own. Work hard and the results will play out girl!!

Finally, about Anu's wish to move out of the Kapadia house - again totally understandable!! I also will be awkward in her position. And the feel that she wants the siblings to bond well is totally justifiable but part of their growth and coming together as a family again is Anu. Anu has always felt as an “outsider” multiple times by the Shah's that maybe she is subconsciously is holding this true to the Kapadias as well. Even in today’s episode, Baa was hesitant to call Anu about what was happening in Samar’s life, based on Vanraj’s direction. Yet, we know that ANu can never be completely cut off from the Shahs. Because of her marriage to V, and having children she will always be connected. Just that the relation changes - her house has becomes an ex-house. Society is such that it never allows one to completely cut off from the past, mainly marriage! It takes sheer strength to always defend yourself when society asks questions. Mukku and Anu’s, “why do you care?” reminded me of so many conversations I have had with my parents at one point!! I always ask why should i care about what people think!! They are anyways going to comment one thing or the other as thats their timepass....people will gossip regardless, so we better live our life as we want to as its just one life, correct!! And my mother mainly will say “yes yes, but it doesn’t work that way always.” when you grow up in a society where gossip effects your life constantly it’s difficult to completely escape, but I am proud that Anu is taking steps to unchain herself from this chain of society and the kapadias are helping her in this as well!!

Ending with another famous quote - “The woman who survives intact and happy must be at once tender and tough. She must have convinced herself, that she, her values, and her choices are very important” - Maya Angelou

Looking forward to the next plot!! Bhavna mentioned that abb vidhvans hoga!!! hahahah they have moved to the next level of kaands... vidhvans = destruction!!!!

Have a great weekend all!!

Excellent analysis G I love ur quotes, examples aand comparison with perfect metaphors to explain the deepest meaning of every scenes... That's great keep it on... I think u too love reading the books... ☺☺ Ur review is always good to read.. How u manage to do this I need to learn this from all u guys of this forums.. As I'm very poor in writing and explaining things...

I agree with all u n all aspects of ur points of analysis..

Today Anu was great and correct in with pov n her dialogues was very impactfull... Thank god makers realises what mess they have made.. In past days.. Today I really feeled that the returned back with old swag n charm.. I hope that makers will not break trust of their loyal fans .. N not disappoint us in upcoming epi...

Vanraj is bas^°£rd chu^°$aa egoistic person.. Who never have any regrets about his karma.. As Anu said uske karmao ka hisaab kanha ji lenge.. I hope wo din jald hi aye...

Today nandini is correct abt shah family n vanraj.. N concern about massi.. But blaming Anu n expecting she should solve the problem been her massi n that so called v is totally wrong n illogical non sense.. It's their husb wife prob wo un dono ko solve krna hai na Anu kyu ayegi n kis haq se ayegi prob solve krne. Anu ka koi haq nhi banta interfere krna.. Mukku prob she needs understand mukku kiski behen h.. Anuj n Anu will not let's happen this.. N mukku to ghar chod k gyi na what prob now...

I also have guts feelings she playing some mujhe wo itni dumb nhi lagti 10 yr family se dur rhna emwo bhi apne paiso se khrch utha k that makes sense.. May she have done home work on v n testing him..the vanya pic on her phone sayad wo koi isshara ho for us..lets see what makers going to do with her character..we need to wait patiencly..Insecure abt v wo to uski massi..agr mukku nhi to kisi aur aurat se hoti v to kabhi sudhrega nhi.. Bcz jo baya hai wohi paayegi.. And karma is like boomerang whatever u give out will come back to u..

Kapadias nothing to say about them... Their is no blood relation Or lineage but They r package love trust care nd peace family this makes their house home is an ex of perfect family.. Nazar na lage kapadias ko...N shah house is tamashah house there is blood lineage but lack of trust n bonding..

Anu is now lucky to have anuj.. N she getting love care happiness in kapadias house what she truly deserves.. Jo usko shah uski family honke bhi kbhi nhi mila..

On bhavana post vidhvans hoga..means kand ka baap.. Kiska vidhvans hogaa kaise hoga... 🤔🤔🤔

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Awesome objective analysis G. The reason MaAn appear to be lost in each other is that both are getting the attention and romantic love for the first time. Both relish the company and care they exude for the other. Anupama realises that what she concluded as a fairy tale was happening in her life. The prince Charming had entered and what a way he has swept her off her feet.

When you realise your fervent wish is coming true you want to linger in that space. That is the state in which the Kapadias are. Mukhu has never had a maternal presence after losing her mom. She is happy and exuberant in calling Leela Darling, Pakhi her soul sister and it is no surprise she holds on to Anupama and wants her lullaby. Mukku needs people. The way she expresses it maybe startling. There is a certain pining in her which definitely tugs and touches the maternal instincts.

I'm reminded of two things when there is a reference to what will 'they' say.

Kuch to log kahengi, logon ka kam hai kehana and the simpler tale we tell kids. The father and son journeying to the market with the donkey. They have a view about all that the duo do and they p au heed to all that is said.

Once we realise that, that is the nature of people to voice a view solicited or unsolicited on everything. The realisation prompts us to hear smile and walk away. The anxiety prompts us to act in accordance to all that they say of us and leaves us in a sorry state. The life experiences have pushed the Kapadias to the realised state. Anupama on the other hand has been habituated to act in accordance with what others say. She claims what matters is what her family thinks. She will transit to what matters is what I feel. Not because she doesn't care for others POV but because she ceases to be a puppet acting in accordance with others plans.

P1&2 are so alike so she is inclined to listen to him and for once both spoke and acted sensibly.

Sanan however are in no mood to listen from the others stand point though Samar spoke sense but nandini is in no listening mode.

Leela post the baapuji drama is a changed person. She is seen doing things talking sense and acting the elder she never acted as.

Ladla scene insertion ... There is no reflection, learning from mistakes or thinking of others. The facade we saw of reaching out to others was part of his game plan. As anupama predicted the day is not far off when he will be alienated from all and that will be the karma he faces.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Awesome objective analysis G. The reason MaAn appear to be lost in each other is that both are getting the attention and romantic love for the first time. Both relish the company and care they exude for the other. Anupama realises that what she concluded as a fairy tale was happening in her life. The prince Charming had entered and what a way he has swept her off her feet.

When you realise your fervent wish is coming true you want to linger in that space. That is the state in which the Kapadias are. Mukhu has never had a maternal presence after losing her mom. She is happy and exuberant in calling Leela Darling, Pakhi her soul sister and it is no surprise she holds on to Anupama and wants her lullaby. Mukku needs people. The way she expresses it maybe startling. There is a certain pining in her which definitely tugs and touches the maternal instincts.

I'm reminded of two things when there is a reference to what will 'they' say.

Kuch to log kahengi, logon ka kam hai kehana and the simpler tale we tell kids. The father and son journeying to the market with the donkey. They have a view about all that the duo do and they p au heed to all that is said.

Once we realise that, that is the nature of people to voice a view solicited or unsolicited on everything. The realisation prompts us to hear smile and walk away. The anxiety prompts us to act in accordance to all that they say of us and leaves us in a sorry state. The life experiences have pushed the Kapadias to the realised state. Anupama on the other hand has been habituated to act in accordance with what others say. She claims what matters is what her family thinks. She will transit to what matters is what I feel. Not because she doesn't care for others POV but because she ceases to be a puppet acting in accordance with others plans.

P1&2 are so alike so she is inclined to listen to him and for once both spoke and acted sensibly.

Sanan however are in no mood to listen from the others stand point though Samar spoke sense but nandini is in no listening mode.

Leela post the baapuji drama is a changed person. She is seen doing things talking sense and acting the elder she never acted as.

Ladla scene insertion ... There is no reflection, learning from mistakes or thinking of others. The facade we saw of reaching out to others was part of his game plan. As anupama predicted the day is not far off when he will be alienated from all and that will be the karma he faces.

Mukku feels secure with Anu like a child with mother plus Anuj is at ease dealing with Mukku in Anu's presence. This will eventually bring sibling closer.

Anuj and Anu, both are soaked in love and are blooming❤️

Bold- nothing to add in it

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonwearer

Awesome objective analysis G. The reason MaAn appear to be lost in each other is that both are getting the attention and romantic love for the first time. Both relish the company and care they exude for the other. Anupama realises that what she concluded as a fairy tale was happening in her life. The prince Charming had entered and what a way he has swept her off her feet.

When you realise your fervent wish is coming true you want to linger in that space. That is the state in which the Kapadias are. Mukhu has never had a maternal presence after losing her mom. She is happy and exuberant in calling Leela Darling, Pakhi her soul sister and it is no surprise she holds on to Anupama and wants her lullaby. Mukku needs people. The way she expresses it maybe startling. There is a certain pining in her which definitely tugs and touches the maternal instincts.

I'm reminded of two things when there is a reference to what will 'they' say.

Kuch to log kahengi, logon ka kam hai kehana and the simpler tale we tell kids. The father and son journeying to the market with the donkey. They have a view about all that the duo do and they p au heed to all that is said.

Once we realise that, that is the nature of people to voice a view solicited or unsolicited on everything. The realisation prompts us to hear smile and walk away. The anxiety prompts us to act in accordance to all that they say of us and leaves us in a sorry state. The life experiences have pushed the Kapadias to the realised state. Anupama on the other hand has been habituated to act in accordance with what others say. She claims what matters is what her family thinks. She will transit to what matters is what I feel. Not because she doesn't care for others POV but because she ceases to be a puppet acting in accordance with others plans.

P1&2 are so alike so she is inclined to listen to him and for once both spoke and acted sensibly.

Sanan however are in no mood to listen from the others stand point though Samar spoke sense but nandini is in no listening mode.

Leela post the baapuji drama is a changed person. She is seen doing things talking sense and acting the elder she never acted as.

Ladla scene insertion ... There is no reflection, learning from mistakes or thinking of others. The facade we saw of reaching out to others was part of his game plan. As anupama predicted the day is not far off when he will be alienated from all and that will be the karma he faces.


BOLD -- this is so well put Vidz.. i love this!! You are right, now its time for Anu to understand this perspective and stop being a puppet to society. I hope to see this progress also in her.

I was reading a book today and in that there was a line - In the worst of situations at times God bestows the best of the gift. I loved this line and it made me think that when Anu was in one of her worst (having no sense of self worth), kanhaji sent Anuj in her life. This is what makes me firm in my belief that everything happens for a reason and every person (almost) come into your life also for a reason!!

You are right, Nandini is not at all in that space to listen, I feel she is also falling in that "i am going to be insecure" state. Unless you trust your partner completely there is no point in even thinking of any relation. So they are better off for now!!

Baa for now seems to be talking sense! Have to see what happens when someone hurts her son's ego and everything else!!!

And Mukku is a child inside who is also longing to belong in the real sense!! They look for that affection and love everywhere and when they get it, they do want to keep it to themselves at any cost. I would love to see what happens when Anu at some point tries to exlain to her that what she is doing is not right....if we get such a situation.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: QueeN456

Excellent analysis G I love ur quotes, examples aand comparison with perfect metaphors to explain the deepest meaning of every scenes... That's great keep it on... I think u too love reading the books... ☺☺ Ur review is always good to read.. How u manage to do this I need to learn this from all u guys of this forums.. As I'm very poor in writing and explaining things...

I agree with all u n all aspects of ur points of analysis..

Today Anu was great and correct in with pov n her dialogues was very impactfull... Thank god makers realises what mess they have made.. In past days.. Today I really feeled that the returned back with old swag n charm.. I hope that makers will not break trust of their loyal fans .. N not disappoint us in upcoming epi...

Vanraj is bas^°£rd chu^°$aa egoistic person.. Who never have any regrets about his karma.. As Anu said uske karmao ka hisaab kanha ji lenge.. I hope wo din jald hi aye...

Today nandini is correct abt shah family n vanraj.. N concern about massi.. But blaming Anu n expecting she should solve the problem been her massi n that so called v is totally wrong n illogical non sense.. It's their husb wife prob wo un dono ko solve krna hai na Anu kyu ayegi n kis haq se ayegi prob solve krne. Anu ka koi haq nhi banta interfere krna.. Mukku prob she needs understand mukku kiski behen h.. Anuj n Anu will not let's happen this.. N mukku to ghar chod k gyi na what prob now...

I also have guts feelings she playing some mujhe wo itni dumb nhi lagti 10 yr family se dur rhna emwo bhi apne paiso se khrch utha k that makes sense.. May she have done home work on v n testing him..the vanya pic on her phone sayad wo koi isshara ho for us..lets see what makers going to do with her character..we need to wait patiencly..Insecure abt v wo to uski massi..agr mukku nhi to kisi aur aurat se hoti v to kabhi sudhrega nhi.. Bcz jo baya hai wohi paayegi.. And karma is like boomerang whatever u give out will come back to u..

Kapadias nothing to say about them... Their is no blood relation Or lineage but They r package love trust care nd peace family this makes their house home is an ex of perfect family.. Nazar na lage kapadias ko...N shah house is tamashah house there is blood lineage but lack of trust n bonding..

Anu is now lucky to have anuj.. N she getting love care happiness in kapadias house what she truly deserves.. Jo usko shah uski family honke bhi kbhi nhi mila..

On bhavana post vidhvans hoga..means kand ka baap.. Kiska vidhvans hogaa kaise hoga... 🤔🤔🤔


thank you dear 🤗

You are right, Anu will see a lot lot more how a real family should be. She will get praised for all the tiny winy things she does for this family!! When kanhaji starts to give, he gives in abundance!! And this is just the start!! I am waiting for that day when Anuj Kapdia puts Vanraaj Shah in his place!!

I also hope that Mukku is much more than what she is shown to be. Yeah, lets wait and see what the plots are and how they connect to pave the way for Anu to finally say that she loves Anuj!!

Vanraaj Shah needs to get what he deserves, period.

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Originally posted by: ayushijindal

🤗 How I love these deep and sincere discussions and your analysis ☺️

Vanraj shah once a trash always a trash never smells good. You said it right he is still a domestic abuser. We discussed it before this kind of people never acknowledge they did this too and came to give sympathy. And these kind of people need to learn a lesson. Anupama is wiser she chose her happiness her growth over revenge. Seriously if asking me I even dont want revenge but he has to learn a tight lesson. This oportunist and mean man, in future, will taste this by Anu. Bawandar and vidhwans- these two powerful words I really hope will come out for which they are made. I really hope makers will keep this in mind.

Simultaneously Anuj, this man is hero, a true companion. He has guts or rather take as a duty to make Anu realise that she is a victim too, she too deserve a closure, healing, love , support. He is by her side. Even in this whole healing process of mukku, Anu eventually being helped by Anuj and Mukku and by herself too.

In the world of affairs, EMA, the real relations too exist. Thank you makers for giving us one. Anu put peace to his heart about telling her conversation with Vanraj. I kinda like it this whole flashback here. Real relation has appreciation, comfort, transparency, honesty and trust❤️

The whole sanan fiasco for me is not about kavya vanraj malvika or anu. Its a trust of Nandini to Samar, she eventually question his loyalty. It happens to the kids of the parents(one or other) betrayed their partner or having this kind of thinking. Eventually person starts fearing that if something like this or other will happen with me too, after all he is his son. Plus she got push after hearing Kavya's side of story. The truth is both vanya was and is at fault. Let see how it goes. Like in precap, it is true parents fiasco and divorce eventually affects the whole family and kids. Anupama can never be separated from shahs. Sadly She has three kids from the shah. A mother can left everything or can start a fresh with other but she never left her kids.

The circle of four in kapadia house. I feel love is flowing in air, you can smell it everytime you breath.

You said it right G, Anu considered herself outsider as she treated like one from past 25 years. And these made her feel she is the most important person in their lives. How organic the whole protest to stop her❤️ They made her comfortable with the idea of staying here for forever. We all know we are a family and above all we are not dependent on society for our happiness. People have one or other thing to gossip, we have to live the way we want to, which make us happy. Anuj shut up is love, this is so haq, dont you dare call yourself outsider. Its like if you are not from us then even we are also not us.So much love they behold.

MaAn are both fierce in love and moderate by mind. Blooming love, heart is on fire intense now and mind is at peace with belonging to each other, You rightly said G. Anu is lucky life gives her another chance as Anuj, not every one get this. She will have a blissful life ahead. After One destructed marriage one cannot gather courage for another one whether a love one. There will be a whole new contrast seeing in these two marriages in future. Anuj is now noticing her body language. He just need words of confirmation from her. They both will be fire when they will romance for real.


So well articulated Ayushi! Anu and Anuj deserve a lot and Kanhaji gives chances or signs to everyone, we just have to recognize that and grab it. Taking that first step is what counts and then you get that courage to finally step fully onto a journey. Anuj took that first step when he decided to go to the reunion and meet his love. Anu took that first step when she really decided to join Anuj as a partner.

I was telling moon/Vidya that I was reading a Romantic Suspense book today and there was this line which said - its in the worst of situations that God gives you one of his best gifts. I wrote the exact line in just a previous post. ANuj was sent by God for Anu when she was in a way in one of her worst period of life!! Life is such a paradox of situations that you never know when something great knocks at your door!! We just have to keep that door open with hope :) :)🤗

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G I too sense that there are layers to Mukku. Closure does not happen immediately after a traumatic life altering situation or phase. It is like walking in snow in Spiti valley. Sometimes you take one step at a time forward at times you slide several feet back. Confronting Ladla was progress and sharing that with Anuj reveals the trust and comfort they share.

Anupama choosing not to harbour hate as even that connects you to another. By choosing Ladla was not worth even that was her learning from the 26 years of pain. If she had pressed charges and got home convicted her loved ones would have suffered too.

His maksad now will present the monster side of Ladla in front of those that had till now turned a blind eye to his atrocities. He will fall badly and that will be nemesis striking.

I am a true believer that people enter or leave our lives by a predestined plan. We are not aware of it. This surprise element makes life beautiful.

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Originally posted by: RainFire125


BOLD -- this is so well put Vidz.. i love this!! You are right, now its time for Anu to understand this perspective and stop being a puppet to society. I hope to see this progress also in her.

I was reading a book today and in that there was a line - In the worst of situations at times God bestows the best of the gift. I loved this line and it made me think that when Anu was in one of her worst (having no sense of self worth), kanhaji sent Anuj in her life. This is what makes me firm in my belief that everything happens for a reason and every person (almost) come into your life also for a reason!!

You are right, Nandini is not at all in that space to listen, I feel she is also falling in that "i am going to be insecure" state. Unless you trust your partner completely there is no point in even thinking of any relation. So they are better off for now!!

Baa for now seems to be talking sense! Have to see what happens when someone hurts her son's ego and everything else!!!

And Mukku is a child inside who is also longing to belong in the real sense!! They look for that affection and love everywhere and when they get it, they do want to keep it to themselves at any cost. I would love to see what happens when Anu at some point tries to exlain to her that what she is doing is not right....if we get such a situation.

Bold- the darker the night, the brighter the sun grows. God actually has something or someone good for everyone. And You only get when the time is right. Now is the time for Anu and Anuj. Anuj to have a wholesome love filled life after the loveless 26 years of loneliness. Anu to feel respected, wanted in a family, most important an integral part of the family

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Originally posted by: moonwearer

G I too sense that there are layers to Mukku. Closure does not happen immediately after a traumatic life altering situation or phase. It is like walking in snow in Spiti valley. Sometimes you take one step at a time forward at times you slide several feet back. Confronting Ladla was progress and sharing that with Anuj reveals the trust and comfort they share.

Anupama choosing not to harbour hate as even that connects you to another. By choosing Ladla was not worth even that was her learning from the 26 years of pain. If she had pressed charges and got home convicted her loved ones would have suffered too.

His maksad now will present the monster side of Ladla in front of those that had till now turned a blind eye to his atrocities. He will fall badly and that will be nemesis striking.

I am a true believer that people enter or leave our lives by a predestined plan. We are not aware of it. This surprise element makes life beautiful.


BOLD - 200% with you on this!! And that reminded me that I want to go back yaar Vidz!!! City life is not for a soul like me i think!! I am just merely surviving in a city!! I am waiting when i can breath freely admist the mountains and its surrounding villages 🤗

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