Plight of Sai Joshi! - Page 3

Originally posted by: sammy17

Yeah anytime sai does walk away, either virat comes running after her dearly and tearfully apologetic in such a manner that only a girl with a heart of stone would refuse to accept especially when sai does have an emotional attachment to virat as he in a way is the only "apna" she feels she has left, or he gets shot and she obviously comes running back because again her heart isn't made of stone and will be concerned hearing him being in such a life-threatening situation. Then virat acting all sweet and lovey dovey with her each time he tries to convince her to forgive him or stay with him is something that's hard for sai to resist not being persuaded by, because it seems sai is like any human girl who will have to take a good couple of rounds of humiliation and being thrown out by her husband to realise that each time he apologises does not mean he will not repeat the same mistake.

I'd say the most realistic aspect of itv is many women no matter how abusive or toxic their husband/ lover is, still find it hard to stay away or walk away from him or reject his apologies when he seems dearly apologetic, and still not learn a lesson when he repeats the same mistreatment towards her. 🤪

Bold- yes sad and harsh reality!

Originally posted by: Nja91

Virat has never intentionally harmed Sai n he cared for her even when he didn't love her. But while KJ gave him Sai's zimmedari- marrying him has made her life pretty stressful. I don't think virat gets how taxing it is for her in his absence n how much she tolerates. Plus he himself has lost control of his emotions several times. But i think just like with Sai, most times I can look past many of Virats mistakes because he hasnt deliberately harmed her. He has always tried to be understanding. But yes, unlike Sai some of his mistakes have really been "criminal" - like handholding, throwing her out of the house...thats why its hard to swallow and thats why i am firmly rooting for Sa8 as a viewer.this time he was insecure but he physically assaulted ajinkya- not ok. They need to stop showing him commit unforgivable acts in rage. Verbal arguments can be tolerated but not physical assaults.

Yes Sai has been very confrontational but the people of CN deserve everything she has said to them. They have attacked her , ridiculed and insulted her n her upbringing which is too much. Ok they are not happy with virat marrying her against their wish/without their knowledge but they have acted SO cruelly. Despite it all audience n Sai have looked past their cruelty to actually try to identify some goodness in them but the makers have portrayed them as beyond redemption. Its sad to watch how they treat her. And despite having aai, mohit, shivani, mansi , devkit who see her goodness, there is a barrier....they are not her own..they are virats family at the end of the day.. despite everything Sai has gone through- molestation/losing her parents/CN torture she is remarkably strong, has the zest for life, she always bounces back and derives joy from the little things, the good things in her life. I really wish Sairat could move out to live alone. Kaash itv mein aisa kuch realistic hosakta. Maybe even as a lesson- virat can move out with Sai for like a week-two and then bk gang can be shown apologizing n making them come back because its so exhausting n heartbreaking to watch how Sai is treated.

@bold this is so true. I have always supported virat and tried to find the single ray of light in dark to some how understand what made him do that, whats the reason, logic behind his action from his point of view but this time I literally gave up. I mean I can totally get the unconfessed, bottled up feelings acting like an erupting volcano combined with insecurities and fears but that too doesn't give him a right to accuse his wife like that.

Virat behaved like a brute, cave man who ia trying to save his property from someone else.

That whole sequence was actually shot very badly that I was laughing like anything during the whole accident episode but in todays episode I really felt bad for sai. At the same time I was angry on her because we all know that even after this she will return to CN. She has options now, she can go to pulkit' house, she can go to hostel but she wont, she will return to CN for more torture.

So in my eyes if virat is pathetic husband then sai is equally pathetic girl for forgiving virat everytime. There is not an ounce of romance in sairat, infact, it is the most toxic relationship I have ever seen on itv. And the shocking thing is they like to live in this toxic relationship only. Virat is brute and sai is masochist.

I always remember that song, love the way you lie, when i see sairat, vm makers please someone make a vm on this.

Those lines,

So maybe I'm a masochist

I try to run but I don't wanna ever leave

Till the walls are goin' up

In smoke with all our memories

This morning, you wake, a sun ray hits your face

Smeared makeup as we lay in the wake of destruction

Hush baby, speak softly, tell me I'll be sorry

That you pushed me into the coffee table last night

So I can push you off me

Try and touch me so I can scream at you not to touch me

Run out the room and I'll follow you like a lost puppy

Baby, without you, I'm nothing, I'm so lost, hug me

Then tell me how ugly I am but that you'll always love me

Then after that, shove me, in the aftermath of the

Destructive path that we're on, two psychopaths but we

Know that no matter how many knives we put in each other's backs

Its totally sairat thing.

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

@bold this is so true. I have always supported virat and tried to find the single ray of light in dark to some how understand what made him do that, whats the reason, logic behind his action from his point of view but this time I literally gave up. I mean I can totally get the unconfessed, bottled up feelings acting like an erupting volcano combined with insecurities and fears but that too doesn't give him a right to accuse his wife like that.

Virat behaved like a brute, cave man who ia trying to save his property from someone else.

That whole sequence was actually shot very badly that I was laughing like anything during the whole accident episode but in todays episode I really felt bad for sai. At the same time I was angry on her because we all know that even after this she will return to CN. She has options now, she can go to pulkit' house, she can go to hostel but she wont, she will return to CN for more torture.

So in my eyes if virat is pathetic husband then sai is equally pathetic girl for forgiving virat everytime. There is not an ounce of romance in sairat, infact, it is the most toxic relationship I have ever seen on itv. And the shocking thing is they like to live in this toxic relationship only. Virat is brute and sai is masochist.

I always remember that song, love the way you lie, when i see sairat, vm makers please someone make a vm on this.

Those lines,

So maybe I'm a masochist

I try to run but I don't wanna ever leave

Till the walls are goin' up

In smoke with all our memories

This morning, you wake, a sun ray hits your face

Smeared makeup as we lay in the wake of destruction

Hush baby, speak softly, tell me I'll be sorry

That you pushed me into the coffee table last night

So I can push you off me

Try and touch me so I can scream at you not to touch me

Run out the room and I'll follow you like a lost puppy

Baby, without you, I'm nothing, I'm so lost, hug me

Then tell me how ugly I am but that you'll always love me

Then after that, shove me, in the aftermath of the

Destructive path that we're on, two psychopaths but we

Know that no matter how many knives we put in each other's backs

Its totally sairat thing.

I agree! Sadly sai will return and face some more taunts and abuse because one cannot have enough of it!

Virat is a classic abusive husband. Sai is getting emotionally manipulated. She’s trying to win over abuser and his family. It’s her tragedy 🥸