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Posted: 4 years ago
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Hey Guys

When everyone was going inactive, I tried it too, I thought if I don’t login in 7 days I’ll lose my account like Twitter has a time period, turns out I couldn’t login for 7 days.


I realized I don’t watch the show because I like it as I didn’t watch it for last 7 days, I watch the show for this forum and when I didn’t have access, I didn’t feel the need to watch it


“was virat wrong?”

I feel the show tried to portray that he wasn’t wrong be it Aai’s urging FL to think about why he did it? Then sunny telling him that he should confess for Sai to know the reason, then everyone blaming Pakhi


Just tell me something, If we remove Pakhi from here and Aai sent Ajinkya to Sai’s room, Will Virat have a different reaction? The problem was Virat’s reaction or a man in a married woman’s room? I don’t understand the point of this track, it seems they want to say a man shouldn’t visit a married woman’s room


I am sorry to say this but both Neil and Ayesha were very bad in these scenes, maybe because I didn’t watch it for days or we have been anticipating this track, I feel they were really bad


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NoraSM

Hey Guys

When everyone was going inactive, I tried it too, I thought if I don’t login in 7 days I’ll lose my account like Twitter has a time period, turns out I couldn’t login for 7 days.


I realized I don’t watch the show because I like it as I didn’t watch it for last 7 days, I watch the show for this forum and when I didn’t have access, I didn’t feel the need to watch it


“was virat wrong?”

I feel the show tried to portray that he wasn’t wrong be it Aai’s urging FL to think about why he did it? Then sunny telling him that he should confess for Sai to know the reason, then everyone blaming Pakhi


Just tell me something, If we remove Pakhi from here and Aai sent Ajinkya to Sai’s room, Will Virat have a different reaction?


Virat was wrong. It sometimes might feel understandable but it was still wrong.mFirstly, if Aai had sent Ajinkya to Sai’s room I have a feeling that Virat would have been angry but Aai would have tried to subside his anger. Secondly, even if he was angry, even if he misunderstood the situation and his understanding justified his behaviour, it still doesn't excuse him beating Ajinkya (which is what I am basing this entire point of view on given that it was Sai who said the word Characterless), because A) He said to Sai that their marriage is a deal and they should not expect anything from eache other, which his actions might counter but he never actually cleared his feeling regarding it.

B) He never told Sai his feelings so, she has no idea that he feels anything other than responsibility for her.

If we add these two and think about it, then just imagine, what if Virat was not the lead? What if everything was same, and Sai went to college and she actually fell in love with a guy? And that guy too fell in love with Sai. Then can we blame Sai for EMA? No, because her marriage is kinda an open one, where she is only married to Virat not bound to him by love or by trust. Virat is also free to fall in love with anyone and so is Sai. That is what a deal marriage is all about, right? So, then can we now justify Virat's actions? No. Virat falling in love with Sai is in no way related to Sai falling in love with him or anyone for that matter, given that he was not vocal about it.

No husband would bear what Virat saw that day, which is why I said that his reaction can seem understandable, but Virat made Sai understand in the beginning that no matter what their marriage is not a normal one.

So, yes, Virat was wrong here. But now, I feel like he has repented enough for his mistakes.

Edited by ShipIsSailing - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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The way he started for the room and entered the room before witnessing the said cosy moment between Sai and Ajinkya, it was clear he was already angry..had already picturised things in his mind. I agree on the acting part.. It all looked too OTT.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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He was of course wrong. He had been suspecting the reality of their friendship since a long time. And the fact that Ajinkya got to dance with Sai, didn't go well with Virat. The slowly built jealousy, annoyance and hatred finally burst out when he heard Ajinkya was meeting Sai in their room. But he could have calmed down and listened to Sai and that poor kid once. But his anger blinded his sense. And the performance was overly done especially from Neil's side. Maybe he was asked to do it that way, or he did it so as he wasn't happy with this track himself. It sometimes happens to the actors, when they're not happy with certain tracks or how their character is been portrayed they kinda lose their interest and perform it just for the sake of it. But after the accident he has been back to his usual good, relatable acting.


Only good thing about Virat after this track is that he realised the magnanimity of his behaviour very soon and is regretting it every second. So neutral viewers are able to forgive him.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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This is off topic but smthin that crossed my mind again when I reas few replies.


Ajinkya is a " kid" for everyone... He even looked like one when virat pushed him, but we do not quite call or consider sai as a "kid" of the same age group. Sai is expected to be more mature an understanding and many different things. I dnt know how teenagers are now, but i was lost in my own world and taking my own sweet time to see through things person.


Over expectations is happening from sai an without a clear picture..... She is watching black and white film and colour of the dress is being asked to her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Virat reaction was independent of who sent Ajinkya to their room. He should NOT have reacted that way it doesn't matter who sent him. I understand the norms in a joint family. Anyone would be angry seeing another man in a girls bed room. But he completely lost his cool out of rage. He didn't think that he was manhandling a merely college boy.It was thoroughly embarrassing. He has all the rights to get angry but at least let the boy leave first.

That whole scene played out really OTT. Neil wasn't really convincing because it looked he didn't like that particular sequence. I found Ayesha and Aish much better in that scene. Though he was apt in the hospital sequence

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Welcome back. It's nice to see you back.


Coming to the topic, let say Virat hadn't reacted the way he did with Ajinkya by pushing him then do we still think Virat did not have reasons to misunderstand Sai.


For a moment, let's forget that we are audiences who know about both the characters thought process and feelings. If we think from Virat’s shoes he doesn't know Sai’s real feelings. The position he saw them and the fact that Sai kept comparing him to Ajinkya and said he wasn't as good as Ajinkya had made him feel unworthy of her. If we look back when they were back from the college feat, Sai was the one to bring Ajinkya’s topic and was teasing him on how he lost it purposely and age shaming him on multiple occasions. It added to his insecurities. He was already feeling insecure when she gave away his gift and said it didn't matter to her and didn't invite him to the function.i won't say Virat is right in getting insecure but would like to say Sai had a major role in this. It wasn't as simple as I'm feeling bad seeing her dance with Ajinkya.


We can say Sai clarified to Virat about Aninkya but in general, when EMa happens do people openly accept that they are indulging in EMA so as per Virar it was possible that Sai was carried away due to her age and seeing them so close on the bed triggered him. I am not saying Virat was right in accusing her but as per him he had reasons to mistrust her given they Dont share a proper relationship. If this had happened I.e Sai sitting on the bed too close with her friend few years from now Virat wouldn't have reacted this way because there would be no insecurities in the first place.


Let's say if Sai had seen him like this with some other women will she not misunderstand him? Has she not accused him of EMA before? How different is this from what she has done?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MSgayatri

This is off topic but smthin that crossed my mind again when I reas few replies.


Ajinkya is a " kid" for everyone... He even looked like one when virat pushed him, but we do not quite call or consider sai as a "kid" of the same age group. Sai is expected to be more mature an understanding and many different things. I dnt know how teenagers are now, but i was lost in my own world and taking my own sweet time to see through things person.


Over expectations is happening from sai an without a clear picture..... She is watching black and white film and colour of the dress is being asked to her.

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Girls of her age who are very studious or strict are more jovial and expected to be very playful than Sai. Most of us were busy in our own little world if I am not wrong.

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