Didi ka purpose - Page 3

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Well the thing is Patralekha as a character has got a lot of layers.. She is egoistic, she is tad bit maniac, she is delusional, she is also a doormat , she is apathetic and she is persistent, she is manipulative.. The flaw is in the actor who is unable to showcase anything at all.. As an actor this character is the best one among the three, because of the dimensions it has.

Anyway coming to her being ready with a tea tray..vwell she feels two things first, Virat will be apologetic about his behaviour like he was for Sai after treating her that way and with Sai not coming back she is sure Virat will be rejected again and again by Sai and Virat one day will stand there defeated and she would be there to take him in his arms and remind him how great her love has always been.. She has a very twisted and selfish concept of love..

Yes, exactly. I remember in the earlier episodes when Virat or Sayi used to be rude to her he would immediately apologise. So, Mrs. Sarpokhi Salunkhe thought Virat will apologise for his behaviour. But, she forgot that this time she had crossed all her limits and Virat is no longer interested in her and he has seen her true colours.

Virat has. to stop saying hum dost hain to her, because until then she will continue to have the delusion of him harboring feelings for her and hope of winning him over!

He has to start calling her Vahini on regular basis both in their 1:1 and in everyone's presence (specially 1:1 convos), just like Mohit calls Sai or Pakhi Vahini all the time!

Is this too difficult to do? As much as I'm happy that Virat told her that she is bojh and koi aur aurat to her, he was still calling her Pakhi and dost. Akhir aisi chipku aur frustrating dost wo chahta hi kyu hai yaar?

It has to be Vahini ya even better Bhabhi Maa 😆

Imagine she getting so mad and leaving CN for good. Samrat bhi bach jayega forever.

didi herself mentioned that one can't see other ones mistake in shacha love.... and according to her she is in sacha love with virat and she believes virat's love for sai is his wrong decision , one day he will realize his mistake of choosing sai over her and come back to her, as she is waiting for him.

whenever i see her, women in me feel bad , like why the hell she is degrading women in her for a man who she thinks doesn't deserve her love. keeping all my hate for pakhi , i will agree she is beautiful, independent, educated and she can do stuff if she really wants to, so why not use them in a better place and make her life better.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Yes, exactly. I remember in the earlier episodes when Virat or Sayi used to be rude to her he would immediately apologise. So, Mrs. Sarpokhi Salunkhe thought Virat will apologise for his behaviour. But, she forgot that this time she had crossed all her limits and Virat is no longer interested in her and he has seen her true colours.

I was just watching the Patralekha leaving CN for her self respect episode and re-played Virat's dialogue about not losing Patralkeha as a a good friend because of some situation or some person.. He was unintentionally rude to Sai in that episode... She is though still stuck there with "that" Virat. I think the only problem right now is the characters has a lot of dimensions and faces and because of the actor we are not able to see it hence we don't understand her.. Its the dialogue that lets us understand her to some extent actually

I too thought about it, and was wondering why she cannot come to terms with Virat and his feelings.

First, as @shristhi mentioned, absence of Samrat and Sai gave her some hope. She might be thinking that they both might not come back, she is sure she is not ready to move on, and believes Virat will not move on from Sai either (After reading his love for Sai in yesterday's confrontation). So it is okay for her if they both are stuck like this in a limbo 🤔. She also has hope that Virat might break after some time (may be years) and elders are anyways there to push them into a relationship. :).

As for as her character is concerned, I dont know what you call them. I call it stupidity to waste your life over a guy who doesnt reciprocate same feelings and who looks down upon you. These kind of people not only ruin themselves but also pose problems for good natured people around them. Because any one who has kind nature and related to them will feel bad for her situation. I am sure this is what is going to happen, she is going to get a lot of sympathy from everyone in the house. All her mistakes and vileness will be forgiven easily. So she will go ahead and up her game. When Sai comes back, she will be doubly manipulative. If she cannot stay with Virat, she will makes sure they both dont live happily. So she has lot of purpose by staying the way she is.

In real life, thats when parents or elders or doctors come in to help her 😲

And in real life, Virat and Sai would move out of the house!

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I too thought about it, and was wondering why she cannot come to terms with Virat and his feelings.

First, as @shristhi mentioned, absence of Samrat and Sai gave her some hope. She might be thinking that they both might not come back, she is sure she is not ready to move on, and believes Virat will not move on from Sai either (After reading his love for Sai in yesterday's confrontation). So it is okay for her if they both are stuck like this in a limbo 🤔. She also has hope that Virat might break after some time (may be years) and elders are anyways there to push them into a relationship. :).

As for as her character is concerned, I dont know what you call them. I call it stupidity to waste your life over a guy who doesnt reciprocate same feelings and who looks down upon you. These kind of people not only ruin themselves but also pose problems for good natured people around them. Because any one who has kind nature and related to them will feel bad for her situation. I am sure this is what is going to happen, she is going to get a lot of sympathy from everyone in the house. All her mistakes and vileness will be forgiven easily. So she will go ahead and up her game. When Sai comes back, she will be doubly manipulative. If she cannot stay with Virat, she will makes sure they both dont live happily. So she has lot of purpose by staying the way she is.

In real life, thats when parents or elders or doctors come in to help her 😲

And in real life, Virat and Sai would move out of the house!

@bold

Probably, she will go on now, making sure she remains at the centre. Nice point here. Cuz,now there is no point in instigating Virat, so what next? Obviously, dushman ka dushman dost. She will target the family ,her army more against Sai, so, less peace for them.

Originally posted by: Mages

I agree more than obsession now baat ego pe aagayi hai how virat can love sai after giving sanyas commitment to her😡furthermore she has ego issues with sai and jealousy too,baat ab ego ki hai🤮

she is sick, she needs medical and psychiatric help!!!

Originally posted by: sillibilli

Virat has. to stop saying hum dost hain to her, because until then she will continue to have the delusion of him harboring feelings for her and hope of winning him over!

He has to start calling her Vahini on regular basis both in their 1:1 and in everyone's presence (specially 1:1 convos), just like Mohit calls Sai or Pakhi Vahini all the time!

Is this too difficult to do? As much as I'm happy that Virat told her that she is bojh and koi aur aurat to her, he was still calling her Pakhi and dost. Akhir aisi chipku aur frustrating dost wo chahta hi kyu hai yaar?

It has to be Vahini ya even better Bhabhi Maa 😆

Imagine she getting so mad and leaving CN for good. Samrat bhi bach jayega forever.

I think Virat did the damage earlier, but yesterday's episode he made it very clear to her that she is nothing to him. AT the max a friend, also, calling her "koi aurat" is worse than calling her "vahini". I don't see PP backing out unless she is physically stopped from entering his room or physically pushed out. Her persistency and adamancy was clear when she said, " main kahin nahi jaungi jab tak tum mere saval ka jawab nahi dete". She doesn't care for anything now that Virat came out in the open. Calling her Bhabhi Maa would be hard on Virat too because he will not be able to digest the fact that the woman he calls maa now, he was attracted to at one point, so thats not happening.

Many have suggested in one of the threads I opened that its now about her ego that she is rejected and Sai is chosen over her. That is the reason she is unstoppable.

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

didi herself mentioned that one can't see other ones mistake in shacha love.... and according to her she is in sacha love with virat and she believes virat's love for sai is his wrong decision , one day he will realize his mistake of choosing sai over her and come back to her, as she is waiting for him.

whenever i see her, women in me feel bad , like why the hell she is degrading women in her for a man who she thinks doesn't deserve her love. keeping all my hate for pakhi , i will agree she is beautiful, independent, educated and she can do stuff if she really wants to, so why not use them in a better place and make her life better.

@BOLD @RED

Thats exactly how I felt after watching that confrontation. Once you called him names, cursed him now why do you still want a guy who is not worth your love? But many in another thread I opened said its about her ego and that is not letting her stop!!

Originally posted by: methebest

@BOLD @RED

Thats exactly how I felt after watching that confrontation. Once you called him names, cursed him now why do you still want a guy who is not worth your love? But many in another thread I opened said its about her ego and that is not letting her stop!!

Somewhere they are right. I believe it's her ziddh and missed opportunity which she want at any cost... The way she said how can you choose sai over me clearly says... This is the first time for her that she was not choose one or not special one.... Being the apple of the eye for her parents and with high feeling about her self... She can't take rejection... So her ziddh also playing part