Ashwani & virat

Ashwani ko Jagat mata bane ke chakkar mein I guess she forgot that virat is her son & he need her attention.

if she sees where virat is wrong then why she fails to see where virat hurt ? I still remember on samrat's sangeet how virat questioned Ashwani why should he make everyone happy , why it's his responsibility & how she was speechless , why couldn't she answer virat this simple question ? Ashwani knew virat was upset & sad but never cared to know why he was sad till she knew from karishma about virakhi , she only said to sai virat don't open up to her , no doubt he don't open up to Ashwani coz he know she dont understand him , she has expectations from him to make everyone happy phir chahe vo khud khush Na Ho . Ashwani majorily hides things from virat . It is never shown Ashwani really trying to know why virat took this step she only blame ur following Ninad's footsteps or ho gaya , sai ke aansu dekhte hai virat ke aansu nhi dekhte ya koi farak nhi parta .

I hope Ashwani thoda time nikale ye jaane ki koshish kare why virat don't open up to his mother.

I sometimes feel is virat alone in this whole house with no one actually cares for him . Sabko kuch na kuch chaiye virat se , par virat ko kya chahiye kissiko Pata bhi nhi hain . Koi janta nhi ki asli virat hai kon.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Ashwani ko Jagat mata bane ke chakkar mein I guess she forgot that virat is her son & he need her attention.

if she sees where virat is wrong then why she fails to see where virat hurt ? I still remember on samrat's sangeet how virat questioned Ashwani why should he make everyone happy , why it's his responsibility & how she was speechless , why couldn't she answer virat this simple question ? Ashwani knew virat was upset & sad but never cared to know why he was sad till she knew from karishma about virakhi , she only said to sai virat don't open up to her , no doubt he don't open up to Ashwani coz he know she dont understand him , she has expectations from him to make everyone happy phir chahe vo khud khush Na Ho . Ashwani majorily hides things from virat . It is never shown Ashwani really trying to know why virat took this step she only blame ur following Ninad's footsteps or ho gaya , sai ke aansu dekhte hai virat ke aansu nhi dekhte ya koi farak nhi parta .

I hope Ashwani thoda time nikale ye jaane ki koshish kare why virat don't open up to his mother.

I sometimes feel is virat alone in this whole house with no one actually cares for him . Sabko kuch na kuch chaiye virat se , par virat ko kya chahiye kissiko Pata bhi nhi hain . Koi janta nhi ki asli virat hai kon.

Fabulous post 👏. Very well written. Ashwini has never opened up with Virat regarding the treatment meted from Kaku and Ninad. It was Shivani who told him as to how Kaku didn't let her continue her education and how Ninad treated her in front of everyone he saw his baba's true nature. And, now after Sayi entered it's only Sayi for her. She's turning a blind eye for Virat. Yes, she does know that Patralekha has an eye on him, so she does make sure that he stays away from her, but other than that she always chooses Sayi over Virat. Even Ninad had said that since he got married to Sayi he lost his respect. And, in reality it is Virat who's all alone. As long as he obeys everyone he's good but the moment he chooses himself above others he's not good enough to become a Chavan. It's as if he's only born to please everyone else but not him.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Fabulous post 👏. Very well written. Ashwini has never opened up with Virat regarding the treatment meted from Kaku and Ninad. It was Shivani who told him as to how Kaku didn't let her continue her education and how Ninad treated her in front of everyone he saw his baba's true nature. And, now after Sayi entered it's only Sayi for her. She's turning a blind eye for Virat. Yes, she does know that Patralekha has an eye on him, so she does make sure that he stays away from her, but other than that she always chooses Sayi over Virat. Even Ninad had said that since he got married to Sayi he lost his respect. And, in reality it is Virat who's all alone. As long as he obeys everyone he's good but the moment he chooses himself above others he's not good enough to become a Chavan. It's as if he's only born to please everyone else but not him.

Ninad se umeed bhi nhi hai , they never have conversation as father son , just in second episode ninad told about his story.

If he ill treat sai then he is true chavan for ninad & son of ninad for Ashwani .

Both don't care for him

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Ninad se umeed bhi nhi hai , they never have conversation as father son , just in second episode ninad told about his story.

If he ill treat sai then he is true chavan for ninad & son of ninad for Ashwani .

Both don't care for him

Exactly. That's the irony. I just wish Ashwini realises his pain and tries to sooth him with her mother's love.

Damn never thought in that way! And that's why I like this forum so much, you get in touch with lots of different opinions and everyone has a different interpretation of the same story.

I think Aai is just afraid that Virat turns out as his father. And that's why she reprimands him as she has been through all that and doesn't want her son to be like that. She's somewhere proud that he has her qualities, her upbringing and it hurts her when he does something questionable as for her it means she failed in raising her son. But yes it's true that it's expected from Virat to keep everything above him and indeed Aai should think about that. Maybe you're right, but I also understand Aai's stand.

Sai in a few months has been a support to Aai which Virat couldn't be in years so the love of mother is there for both but Sai takes an edge over Virat because she has bonded with Ashwini and helped her. How can an IPS officer be so blind to what is happening with his mother?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Sai in a few months has been a support to Aai which Virat couldn't be in years so the love of mother is there for both but Sai takes an edge over Virat because she has bonded with Ashwini and helped her. How can an IPS officer be so blind to what is happening with his mother?

In what way sai helped Ashwani ? In admission episode it was virat who spoke for Ashwani not sai

Originally posted by: KJSairat

Damn never thought in that way! And that's why I like this forum so much, you get in touch with lots of different opinions and everyone has a different interpretation of the same story.

I think Aai is just afraid that Virat turns out as his father. And that's why she reprimands him as she has been through all that and doesn't want her son to be like that. She's somewhere proud that he has her qualities, her upbringing and it hurts her when he does something questionable as for her it means she failed in raising her son. But yes it's true that it's expected from Virat to keep everything above him and indeed Aai should think about that. Maybe you're right, but I also understand Aai's stand.

I hope we get to see a great bond between Ashwini and Virat in the upcoming episodes.

Ashwani aaai identifies with sai mostly from a female angle or say as a woman

The unwanted bahu to fam (older gen mostly tolerate her no one really respects her)

Sai whose husband keeps saying she is his responsibility and keeps supporting his bhabi over her ( ninad does that too)

Saai gives her full priority openly

When a person who has never gotten full priority gets that much love and respect the person tends to support them more ( Virat often panders to all in fam)

She is angry with Virat the man more at the moment

When she sees him sad ..I am sure she will support him

Above is my personal perspective

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

In what way sai helped Ashwani ? In admission episode it was virat who spoke for Ashwani not sai

Yesterday 5-6 people in my thread said that Sai has helped her Aai and have read it so many time on the forum, she must have done something for her, I don't remember every scene

The show is too loud that's why I never felt like discussing before current track