Ashwani & virat - Page 2

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Yesterday 5-6 people in my thread said that Sai has helped her Aai and have read it so many time on the forum, she must have done something for her, I don't remember every scene

The show is too loud that's why I never felt like discussing before current track

Actually she has not done nothing infact it's Ashwani who is from day one speaking for her support to everyone.

I guess bas ek bar kaku said something in reception first Ashwani spoke for sai support later sai spoke.

During amay track when virat spoke rudely to Ashwani that time she asked virat not to speak Ashwani like this .

Ashwani ki insult mostly virat or sai ke absence mein hoti hain. In alta track Cgang start critising Ashwani that time sairat were not present.

Admission track it was virat who spoke for Ashwani not sai .

In future she will unite ninad & Ashwani bas itna hi karegi

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Ashwani aaai identifies with sai mostly from a female angle or say as a woman

The unwanted bahu to fam (older gen mostly tolerate her no one really respects her)

Sai whose husband keeps saying she is his responsibility and keeps supporting his bhabi over her ( ninad does that too)

Saai gives her full priority openly

When a person who has never gotten full priority gets that much love and respect the person tends to support them more ( Virat often panders to all in fam)

She is angry with Virat the man more at the moment

When she sees him sad ..I am sure she will support him

Above is my personal perspective

Aapki saari baat sahi hai Lekin khud dekhiye I mentioned how Ashwani actually never cared to know why he is sad in past 2.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Aapki saari baat sahi hai Lekin khud dekhiye I mentioned how Ashwani actually never cared to know why he is sad in past 2.

From my experiences in life

She is a woman who has not seen much love after marriage. Plus since it's a joint fam after his teens even Virat might have drifted apart from her. Plus he does care for Kaku too but sai does not.

I know it sounds silly but from my experience in a group counseling I have heard lots of things

Some women just want some respect of not love

Some want one person who loves just them , pampers them, just defers to them only . It just makes them less insecure and loved

Not saying Ashwani AAI is not at fault she is but we are all humans and sometimes our moral compass is Haywire

I feel like this is a great point. I didn't get a chance to think about this until you brought it up, so thank you. I think that when Ashwini sees Virat, he is the reflection of her responsibilities while Sai is the reflection of her helplessness.

By this, I mean that she sees Virat as someone who struggles with just how many responsibilities are on his shoulders. She herself sacrificed many things, including her own happiness for the sake of responsibility. However, she doesn't regret her responsibilities, she regrets the helplessness she felt when dealing with them. That helplessness she sees in Sai, not in Virat. Maybe if she looked a little closer than she could see that Virat is more like her than Sai is. Sai is like the perfect combination of Bhavani and Ashwini, righteous but outspoken. Virat on the other hand, is probably like Ashwini was when she was his age. Suppressed and quite alone. Maybe if he was called stupid, unintelligent, and small constantly, the way Ashwini has been, he would have turned out as quiet as she is. However, his family brought him up calling him smart, athletic, the ideal son, and the ideal human. He has self-confidence and a feeling of belonging in the family, something that Ashwini lacks. Still, Virat continuously sacrifices and keeps his pain to himself. Whenever Sai is hurt, she goes to Ashwini. Where do Ashwini and Virat go? They both internalize and suppress their thoughts. However, Ashwini lets go in a healthy manner by supporting Sai and being her backbone, while Virat expresses his emotions inappropriately, at the wrong time, or in the wrong manner. He doesn't support Sai the way that Ashwini does because he feels like he owes the rest of his family some allegiance. They had treated him so well all these years after all. Ashwini, on the other hand, doesn't believe she owes them anything (and rightfully so) so she completely supports who she knows is right. In other words, she puts all of her eggs in Sai's basket. When she sees that her son saves some allegiance for the rest of the family, she sometimes sees him as part of them and doesn't feel like she owes him anything. This is where things get complicated between Virat and Ashwini.

This is all my interpretation and is more than likely incorrect, but I just wanted to put my thoughts out there :)

oml there is so much more to say but by then I'd be writing pages lol