Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 01 Sep 2020 - Page 47

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

So mishti getting love n priority in anyone's life is hypocrisy but kuhu getting love is her ryt???

Mishti can be treated in anyway it's ok because she should adjust as she is mature but kuhu getting treated anyway becomes wrong n injustice to her??

U get back what you do in this life time how varsha is treating mishti in mah house she is now going to get it back in d same way by how her daughter n SIL will be treated in samee way. U can't run away from ur karma!

One thing it's nly for varsha n her bad judgement dat kuhu got struck in fake marriage obviously along with kuhu's obsession. BP never believed bigben when she came with kunal rishta. He was against it. But varsha pleaded to make him agree. Dan he listened to dem as dey r her parents

Will now anyone blame varsha for ruining her own daughter life?? Or still blame BM n BP??

No one is saying that Mishti priority and love is hypocrisy and she needs to get it from BP and BM. I wanted BM and BP to accept it and tell whole family that give Mishti the same love as their own daughter and respect too. You need to communicate with your family members and Kuhu when the first fault happened and they never did as being elders. They live delusional world and say everything is perfect family. Who is suffering? Everyone!

Kuhu fake marriage is fault of Kuhu and Varsha as well as Kunal and Meenakshi. No one had any role in it. Thats fine, Kuhu got a punishment maybe karma!

Originally posted by: SheThought

Oh, I haven't read any conversation and had no idea you guys were discussing a bigger topic. LU thread hai toh you just pick up from any point and join.

I haven't watched last few episodes so I can't participate in the larger discussion anyway.

I understand your point, and agree it shouldn't always be about Kuhu v/s Mishti.

...but I also feel that if it was a broad discussion about BM, Varsha and their parenting ups and downs then it is not possible to do so without keeping the girls, their equation and how the are treated by the family in mind. Also, I fail to understand why people equate grandparents duty with the parents and have same expectations from both!

Anyways, if the discussion was strictly about a particular event in the episode then am sorry, didn't meant to barge in, just happened to see Appu's post and so I replied. Don't have any opinions on a scene from the episode since I haven't watched it.

The only thing I would like to share here is about the 2nd class citizen thing:

Agreed, no one should be treated like a 2nd class citizen in your own home.

But the fact is, Mishti gets treated like a rag in both Mah (except BM-BP) and RV house. And we have normalized it in our minds. Aam si baat hai.

As for Kunal, we all have felt it in our hearts that Meenu loves Abir more. But she has not openly favored one over the other so far... she gets equally happy to have both of them around and have equally screwed both to get her way. But I know now with the real heir thing, her preference is coming out... and that will affect Kunal and it will be unfair to him! And people will certainly sympathize with him.

Kuhu is not really treated like a 2nd class citizen at all in RV house and in fact gets a lot of love and respect. Unless if things have suddenly changed in the last 3 episodes and they want us to now believe that Kuhu was treated badly in RV house. So people will sympathize with her too.

Anyways, I guess I should just refrain from commenting till I catch up on all the episodes someday 😛

Though old habits die hard... when you feel it's a general discussion, you can't help but jump in.

Why did you like my post and then unliked it , sorry I couldn't resist to ask this 😆

Btw we were talking about just a scene from yesterday's episode and since you haven't seen the episodes these days, I won't be able to explain to you much and you won't be able to understand also ...I repeat again it had nothing to do with mishti and kuhu even though varsha and BM were their parents , it was strictly about BM's judgemental skills on meenu , ppl around took that into mishti and kuhu and started writing defensive posts so I had to jump in because we all know mishti v kuhu karne mein hamara forum sabse aage rehta hai 😆 Ppl get too touchy and sensitive and in the end you also know discussions go nowhere ...

Today BM herself that Meenakshi rajvansh isn't a trustworthy lady at all no matter what , so I guess i got my answers and the topic should be over, still if ppl are interested to do mishti v kuhu then of course they can go ahead 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Why did you like my post and then unliked it , sorry I couldn't resist to ask this 😆

Btw we were talking about just a scene from yesterday's episode and since you haven't seen the episodes these days, I won't be able to explain to you much and you won't be able to understand also ...I repeat again it had nothing to do with mishti and kuhu even though varsha and BM were their parents , it was strictly about BM's judgemental skills on meenu , ppl around took that into mishti and kuhu and started writing defensive posts so I had to jump in because we all know mishti v kuhu karne mein hamara forum sabse aage rehta hai 😆 Ppl get too touchy and sensitive and in the end you also know discussions go nowhere ...

Today BM herself that Meenakshi rajvansh isn't a trustworthy lady at all no matter what , so I guess i got my answers and the topic should be over, still if ppl are interested to do mishti v kuhu then of course they can go ahead 😆

I thought I liked the post. It wasn't sticking, I had to do it a few times. I kept getting "something went wrong" message. Anyways, I will fix it after posting this.

Isse aage kuch nahin bolungi.

So it was for a scene, okay. I have not gone through the thread so I am not sure how the whole conversation transpired. Par hum logo ka hamesha ek topic se dusra topic nikal jata hai, especially in the LU because there is no fixed topic and the conversation steers away from where it started, so I am not sure why/how was it different this time.

Anyways, chalo glad the topic is over. And I guess I should resist the urge to post beech main 😛

Originally posted by: SheThought

I thought I liked the post. It wasn't sticking, I had to do it a few times. I kept getting "something went wrong" message. Anyways, I will fix it after posting this.

Isse aage kuch nahin bolungi.

So it was for a scene, okay. I have not gone through the thread so I am not sure how the whole conversation transpired. Par hum logo ka hamesha ek topic se dusra topic nikal jata hai, especially in the LU because there is no fixed topic and the conversation steers away from where it started, so I am not sure why/how was it different this time.

Anyways, chalo glad the topic is over. And I guess I should resist the urge to post beech main 😛

Oh aapka bhi glitch Hua...I got a notification but then I couldn't figure out which post you liked 😆

Nahi aisa nahi hai , you can post I wasn't stopping you to be honest, I didn't want the convo to steer away for a change 😛 Cuz mishku ki baat thi nahi so I just clarified before the topic changes into something else bas aur kuchh nahi ...however I do agree with all the points that you wrote...specially how abuses thrown at mishti's are normalised....and that is what irritates us all , n that was my point too that why BM says nothing against it and keeps mum ...chalo chodo raat gayi ne vaat gayi

Originally posted by: Appu1981

so true.. bang on

All instances like the doll house one show how bad kuhu must have felt ... but as someone said on this forum earlier there are always 3 sides to a story.. my side, your side and the truth... but why Always the writers show kuhu’s insecurities... and try to passively justify her behavior... she hardly gets called out... she get forgiven easily without even apologizing... and what is this mann ki saaf thing... bad behavior and bad deeds can never be justified... irrespective of how justified one’s insecurities be....

and what is this BP/BM ki galti ka alaap?? They must have seen injustice happening with mishti everyday therefore they want to protect her interests... basically it’s a visious cycle... but people keep blaming mishti, BP/BM... and abir....

Bold- my thoughts exactly... treat others the way you want to be treated...

Also meenu differentiating between abir kunal is a valid concern. but it dosent concern mishti. Why did varsha need to start that topic with"this house everyone only thinks of mishti". instead she should have directly shared her concerns about meenu with BM then she would have understood. If she involves mishti BM will only think that its their jealousy against mishti that is making her think this.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Pali I don't know why this topic is pushed into mishti v kuhu but ...did you read the whole convo...because I know you are much better than this

I know you will understand this that's why I am explaining it to you , we were strictly talking about how BM and varsha reacted today , it has nothing to do with mishti and kuhu here....

The fact that kuhu doesn't get called out and mishti is blamed forever is itself an injustice and it's a Pratha going on in mahs family and BM and BP are silent on that for years and sometimes even a party to that ....this very fact makes BM arguement that we treat girls equally goes void right...

Being treated as 2nd class citizens in your own family is wrong, whether it was mishti in mahs or it iis kuhu in RVs .I feel more bad for kunal here

But the topic of discussin was about how BM brushed it off saying it's all equal when varsha wasn't even blaming mishti , she was actually blaming meenu and her treatment

Please I request to all the forum members out here , don't make it mishti vs kuhu unnecessarily, we have grown from that long back I guess

Originally posted by: SheThought

I thought I liked the post. It wasn't sticking, I had to do it a few times. I kept getting "something went wrong" message. Anyways, I will fix it after posting this.

Isse aage kuch nahin bolungi.

So it was for a scene, okay. I have not gone through the thread so I am not sure how the whole conversation transpired. Par hum logo ka hamesha ek topic se dusra topic nikal jata hai, especially in the LU because there is no fixed topic and the conversation steers away from where it started, so I am not sure why/how was it different this time.

Anyways, chalo glad the topic is over. And I guess I should resist the urge to post beech main 😛

Jaldi dekh lo na Pali. Aaj ka toh dekhna hi hai anyway!!

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Dekhein kab tak chalegi 😆