My take on Babita's choices - Page 3

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

Agree with you about the fact that they're not partner as of now. But I couldn't think of other word when I wrote the post. Love means feelings+honesty + efforts to make things work out. Feelings were there but rest of the two things are missing. And they come only in later stage.

But then I disagree with the Idea that he needs Babita to get over Imarti. I mean first he needs to get over the past and then enter into a relationship with babita. That's exactly what he preached in the past- mujhe daughter ki mother Puri chahiye. So he should be himself too, before babita enters in his love life.

HS is sure abt his feelings regarding babita, he knows he loves mother ki daughter nd h loves imarti too but at present the love for imarti is coming with a deep pain nd in past 7 years he has not allowed anyone to come closer to this pain nd babita can do it bcz she is special for him nd he ll allow her to do so ONLY IF she take steps towards him nd make him feel that he is worth it.. I bet he knows that babita doesnt love him maybe she likes him or see him as good partner to live with.. so he ll hold onto imarti till he gets atleast something from babita... i m not saying ki shower him with ur love when u dont even love him that would be wrong but take some efforts like normal people do when they like sum1 that would be enough at this point.. she is over ashok but he is not over imarti u cant expect him to be.. she didnt betray him she just went away nd moreover its unfair to say ki unke dil me imarti bhari hui hai mere liye koi jagah nahi hai when u r putting zero efforts towards him..

I think she is unaware of the whole scenario, about the reopening of the case, the hearing and HS's suspension. That's why she is not understanding HS and his actions. When she will come to know about all these, she will connect the dots. Then she will be able to see HS's intentions behind all these hurting. Minni already knows all about this, that's why she is standing by him.

Originally posted by: rr66

the point is babita is NOT Hanuman's partner. You cannot compare a year of love with NO efforts from the other side to that of a husband-wife's love which was so strong and deep. I mean this is not a movie, love at first sight ho gaya abhi the guy cannot live without the girl.To remember imarti just as his beautiful past he needs babita's love tabhi vo pain jayega of losing the only person who loved you wholeheartedly nd changed ur life for the better..I think babita nd hanuman's relationship has not even crossed an early stage of being in love

I think so too. Babita's empowerment in this matter will only be complete when she is strong enough to be the one to give support to a strong person like HS, instead of being the one to receive support for a change. It doesn't matter if they end up together as a couple at this point. If that's meant to be, then fine otherwise no big deal.

There are far more serious matters at hand than her ego right now. When she insulted him and questioned his character regarding the camera, he answered her in a way he deemed fit. Yet when his camp was about to go without food he put his pride aside and took her help.

I think the fact that neither of them talk about the cause of these spats and just move on from them is also hurting them both, since the core issue doesn't get resolved.

Originally posted by: rr66

the point is babita is NOT Hanuman's partner. You cannot compare a year of love with NO efforts from the other side to that of a husband-wife's love which was so strong and deep. I mean this is not a movie, love at first sight ho gaya abhi the guy cannot live without the girl.To remember imarti just as his beautiful past he needs babita's love tabhi vo pain jayega of losing the only person who loved you wholeheartedly nd changed ur life for the better..I think babita nd hanuman's relationship has not even crossed an early stage of being in love

see my point is human is the one first loved babhita. she consider him as a friend only.now when started reciprocate his feeling suddenly he remembers imarti wow. If he so much into imarti then why the hell he raised babitha's hope.why he want her to cenfess her feeling so that he crush her heart and say i love only imarti i can't love anyone like i loved imarti . Seriously.

Originally posted by: sanoniti

see my point is human is the one first loved babhita. she consider him as a friend only.now when started reciprocate his feeling suddenly he remembers imarti wow. If he so much into imarti then why the hell he raised babitha's hope.why he want her to cenfess her feeling so that he crush her heart and say i love only imarti i can't love anyone like i loved imarti . Seriously.

It wasn't sudden. First Babita and then Minnie triggered this by mentioning Imarti and entering his personal space in this way and drawing comparisons. Neither of them had done this before.

Originally posted by: sanoniti

see my point is human is the one first loved babhita. she consider him as a friend only.now when started reciprocate his feeling suddenly he remembers imarti wow. If he so much into imarti then why the hell he raised babitha's hope.why he want her to cenfess her feeling so that he crush her heart and say i love only imarti i can't love anyone like i loved imarti . Seriously.

he has never forgotten imarti.. sharab vo pehle se peeta hai its just that now we got to know ki why he drinks so much... it comes to light when babita takes imarti's name nd now this this court case has brought everything back for him

And she doesn't reciprocate his feelings yet. She's nowhere close. This is about her journey towards that.

nd she doesnt take any initiative either... u both r in this sab kuch hanuman akele nahi kar sakta.. she made sabzi for him that day, HS ko pata hi nahi chala iss baare me ab tak bcz she wont talk abt anything to him..