Sona Neha. Who is wrong? - Page 5

Originally posted by: vandyt1602

@vibg

Hey dear, they have the biggest reason as to not to go on a honeymoon as Issue ma can't bear the separation from her son for fifteen days😡

Your post reminded of a movie name- Lucky: No time for Love

In our case it is - Unlucky(DevSona) :- No time for love😭

I don't wanna sound insensitive ( I really m not) towards Dixits and Boses family issues but Dev is already guilty ridden in the name of family responsibilities/obligations and anything that he does for his wife is considered as an oversight mistake.

Are we taking Sona to the same guilty ride for her family?Please don't😭😔

This is seriously not fair.

Talking of Boses:-

I am not even sure if Bijoy would like to take any help from her daughter after marriage as he is a person of great self respect and dignity.Not as rich as Dev but Boses are self made educated people and they will find a way to survive. At this time if they will take help from Sona then they are making themselves dependent on her which I think is not right for the people who are well capable of doing anything.

Even is Sona helps for once, she cannot help her family for the rest of her life right? So Boses need to fight their way out of this situation themselves.

And above all that even if Sona feels she needs to help her family then it doesn't mean that she needs to compromise her own happiness like HM .You really don't have to cut down on your happiness in order to make others happy.

Happiness is not a scarce resource. So we are wrong if we are mixing both these things up.

Talking of Dixits:-

I always say this that it might not be the right time for honeymoon but how would Dev's overlooking his wife and his married life will solve Neha's issues?

We must understand that Dev's married life has got nothing to do with Neha's situation.

Till now Dixits haven't done anything to find out what actually happened with Neha. Dev Sona can suppress all their happy moments just to sympathize with Neha but that wont be the permanent solution to her problems.Doing so they are just avoiding her problem and not actually dealing with it.

And for God sake we need to understand that one person's happiness should not cost another person's happiness.

This is called as jealousy and Jealousy is such an unhealthy feeling to have in a family.

If you are jealous of your own people then you will never be happy even if you have all the money and love in the world.

All I can is -We are overlooking the real issues and trying to mess DevSona's married life which is perfect in itself but is succumbed due to external issues that must be resolved separately..

Shilky88

Even is Sona helps for once, she cannot help her family for the rest of her life right? So Boses need to fight their way out of this situation themselves.

And above all that even if Sona feels she needs to help her family then it doesn't mean that she needs to compromise her own happiness like HM .You really don't have to cut down on your happiness in order to make others happy.

Happiness is not a scarce resource. So we are wrong if we are mixing both these things up.----------------------------------------------

Well I feel Sona need to help her parents and Brother for a longer time. What is wrong with it?

About compromise I feel it differs person to person.To me seeing my brother safe gives me ultimate satisfaction than going for a HM.So real happiness for me is to help my brother.So I expect Sona to behave as per my expectation. For you going to HM is the source of happiness I won't negate that. But I have my view. That's it.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Shilky88

Even is Sona helps for once, she cannot help her family for the rest of her life right? So Boses need to fight their way out of this situation themselves.

And above all that even if Sona feels she needs to help her family then it doesn't mean that she needs to compromise her own happiness like HM .You really don't have to cut down on your happiness in order to make others happy.

Happiness is not a scarce resource. So we are wrong if we are mixing both these things up.----------------------------------------------

Well I feel Sona need to help her parents and Brother for a longer time. What is wrong with it?

About compromise I feel it differs person to person.To me seeing my brother safe gives me ultimate satisfaction than going for a HM.So real happiness for me is to help my brother.So I expect Sona to behave as per my expectation. For you going to HM is the source of happiness I won't negate that. But I have my view. That's it.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

@Vibg

I think you missed the spoiler. Sonakshi seeks Dev's help to bail out Saurav. Whatever Bijoy gave might not be sufficient it seems.