Sona Neha. Who is wrong? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ASHREENA

Sometimes I feel we are all watching a different show...sona is not aware of her family's money woos...neha needs to stop feeling sorry for herself...

Originally posted by: Artist_Forever

Naah - never made her a scapegoat. I doubt any of the madly in love with Devakshians will agree with me, rather understand me. Neha is a misunderstood person. She doesn't know what love is. Ishwari never made her feel it and Dev didn't bother to shower it on her. Its tough to comprehend but remember that AC thing in the beginning? Dev fulfilled her wish and became Mahaan but no one actually understood why was she so frustrated.

Coming to Ranveer, she knew she has to adjust but she had the faith that he'll stand up for her when time comes. That was a trust. He'll make her feel special - something her family had failed to do. But it shattered as Ranveer chose family over her. Hence the arrogance and frustration. But I'm sure they'll tide over and Ranveer will understand.

Oh dear. Yup, I have missed epis then. I haven't seen all this. But all I can say is : Sona isn't the same girl I'd seen in the beginning. Her character graph is somewhere in the ruins :$

Let me put it better : I'm not happy with the way this story is shaping up. Everything seems so clichd and obvious :|

Neha for me has been a complex character. And somewhere I understood her behaviour and where it comes from. But over time she now stands as someone very supidly impatient with a destructive temper. Which creates a mess for herself and people around her. And this time has almost destroyed Ranveer'e life. She is someone who is never happy with anything and mostly finds time to time to crib. Anyway can't blame here. Thats human nature. We always crave for the thing that we don't have rather than what we have. Previously she used to be irritated at Dixit household over this matter or that , like her mother she is prone showing fit over practically nothing out of the blue , for eg the split AC issue. After having a thorough struggled childhood one cherishes the luxiries of life and appreciates it. Neha for a matter have not even once been shown doing it. She says she likes the luxiries and doesn't want them to let go. But she has never been appreciative of it. Anyway. Like her many zidds. Ranveer was another IMO. A zidd for whom she wasn't willing to compromise even after knowing every situation. Expecting Ranveer to cross the road mostly. It was good of Ranveer when he accepted Dev's offer of a job and that was his step to give her the life she comes from , but Neha didn't even give that guy a span of some considerate time before walking out. Ranveer IMO is committed to both Neha and family. But any person would choose to treat their sick mother over a 10K saree or even a honeymoon. Neha didn't do her deal of adjustment even after knowing the effects of marrying Ranveer. Neha tries to live in a bubble where she expects life without compromise. Rich or poor people have to compromise and make efforts all the time. Specially in something like marriage. Neha thought after being rich her days of compromise are over. But that never happens. And due to her strained relationship with Ishwari she never got that lesson from anyone. Ishwari refrained from making her face her truths of life to not jeopardise their already fragile bond. People don't become rich overnight. And Neha is childish enough to not understand it even after coming from the background she is from. Ranveer would have treated her like a queen if she would have given him the time and patience. She wasn't forced into marrying Ranveer and choose this not so easy life.
Coming to Sona, she is as much Sona as she ever was. I don't know how it can be concluded that she doesn't care about her family anymore. It has to be noted. Sona doesn't stay in the family anymore so the problems the family has will never be known to her as long as they don't tell her. How would Sona develop a radar and think her family is facing a crisis when Saurav's business was going helluva well when they were getting married. About HM. HM for most people holds a special place in the life of a couple. And this HM is more special for Sona cause it inclides two dire wishes of her life. Tavelling the world and love of her life. She was gonna travel to her bucket list of places with her love of life. So anyone will be damn excited about it. And feel equally heartbroken when being taken away. The matter I have seen a lot in this forum is that members judge characters according to their own likes and dislikes and not according to what it means for the character and from their standpoint.

nice post about sona and neha. to me.. neither is at fault. both r struggling and fighting to find their happinesss and peace of mind! there is only one person who has nothing better to do than to take her own kids' happiness away and create unnecessarily drama that is keeping them from acheiving what they desire 😡

as for sona.. i dont understand what you mean by her behavior? what has she done wrong? how is she supposed to know saurabh and her family is in financial crisi? have they told her? when she got married.. saurabh's buz was reaching heights.. he had enuff money to spend lavishly on his lovely sis's wedding.. the one who had been takkng care of him and family till now! sona is unaware that saurabh's bus partner cheated her.

Why is it a crime for a girl to want her happiness? Why all sacrifices are expected from a beti, bahu, sister? This is the first time in her life Sona is feeling true love despite the nonstop insults and taunts in her new home. despite Ishwari making her feel unwanted and worthless at everything she tries!

she has worked hard so far.. Why is it a crime to take a few days off enjoy the bliss?

I don't agree . Neha tried her best. Her Suhag Raat got spoilt due to children in that house. She bore with that. She tried to be with Ranveer's family as long as she can. But Ranveer has his own responsibilities that will never allow him to compltely concentrate on Neha's issues.

Wonderful post👏

Originally posted by: vibg

nice post about sona and neha. to me.. neither is at fault. both r struggling and fighting to find their happinesss and peace of mind! there is only one person who has nothing better to do than to take her own kids' happiness away and create unnecessarily drama that is keeping them from acheiving what they desire 😡

as for sona.. i dont understand what you mean by her behavior? what has she done wrong? how is she supposed to know saurabh and her family is in financial crisi? have they told her? when she got married.. saurabh's buz was reaching heights.. he had enuff money to spend lavishly on his lovely sis's wedding.. the one who had been takkng care of him and family till now! sona is unaware that saurabh's bus partner cheated her.

Why is it a crime for a girl to want her happiness? Why all sacrifices are expected from a beti, bahu, sister? This is the first time in her life Sona is feeling true love despite the nonstop insults and taunts in her new home. despite Ishwari making her feel unwanted and worthless at everything she tries!

she has worked hard so far.. Why is it a crime to take a few days off enjoy the bliss?

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Well Let Sona go for a world tour I don't mind. But I bother about Saurav. He is too innocent. I am happy Dev will be available to pull him out of the mess. I just want him to be safe. That is more important to me than HM or Paris Tour.

Originally posted by: vibg

I think Saurabh is fine. You missed in yesterday's episode.. his dad gave him all the money he needed to pay back debtors. Saurabh, in fact, is working on another idea for new business👏 Saurabh is a big boy! that's commendable that Bose's handle their issues and move on in life with love and support from each other!!!! Look to the future.

vs. Dixit's who want the whole world to revolve around therm and never happy cause they live in the past!

Sona and Dev have no reason not to go on their honeymoon. Much deserved!