Is sacrificing love Raghukul ki maryada- Ram

Phew I was like 👏 when Ram told this dialogue. Because what is the basic connect in relations. It is love. Not only between hus-wife but love is the basic element of existence of humans. From love comes all the positive feelings of empathy, care, nurture, confidence, dedication, motivation everything. You name a positive attribute at the core of it is love. And yes the highest expression of love is the one between hus-wife where Prakriti becomes one with Sanskriti to give something new that is beneficial both to Prakriti and Sanskriti and the cycle continues. A child born when the Prakriti willingly surrenders herself to Sanskriti who has locked her in his love it gives the positive direction to the world. Just like the birth of Karthikeya who was born to kill Tarakasura and Krishna who was born to kill Kamsa and who ended the adharma. So here if you look who is ending the adharma in real sense. It is not Ram. But it is Luv-Kush and their questions that rattles Ayodhya. And why so because they are born out of true love of Prakriti and Sanskriti.

sacrifice of love? shruti, you are wrong here, ram and sita sacrificed their happyness but not love, for sita never let go ram from his heart and ram never let go sita from him. they were no mortal soul my dear, they were lakshmi and narayan.

@arjith did you read my analysis. Your comment shows clearly you have not read my analysis. Where in analysis I told Ram sacrificed his love . I was only talking about the question he raised to guru vashisht.

Unfortunately I have never met a men in my life who loved unconditionally. So watching and reading this makes me sad.

A beautiful analysis of an equally beautiful episode. 👏

@vidya Sita lived on the trust of his vachan. That only she will be his wife in this lifetime. When she feels that trust of her is broken what is her existence, what is the meaning of her love. What Sita's sisters tell is true. On Ram's decision hinges Sita's identity. If he go ahead and marries second time, who is Sita. But then it will also be who is Ram. He is just another man. What defines Ram in the end is sticking to the vachan he gave to Sita.

Shruthi, I agree with what so ever you have written here about the love and trust between the partners of life and How Ram stood tall in front of the whole Ayodhya by vouching to his vachan given to his wife during his marriage that he will remain "Ekapatnivratasta" through out his life. I applaud his courage, dedication and truthfulness.

At the same time I do agree with the Munivers and Guru Vashist about asking him to have a second wife for the benefit of his praja for whom he has dedicated his life and doing everything for them. Their argument is simple " If ram could abandon Sita for his praja's welfare or happiness or peaceful mind or to maintain the sanctity of his kingdom, why he can't do a second marriage for the same praja? If his vachan of "Ekapatni" is stopping him now, why his vachan of "staying together with her in all her good and bad moments of life" didn't stop him from abandoning her? Did that vachan lost its value while the other vachan has its value in his life?

It was not like the Guru Vashist was pushing him to matrimony yet again for the benefit of the kingdom but he was trying to bring out the pain Ram had to undergo silently behind his sealed chest when he sent away his wife, his life and the future of Kosala to a dense forest all alone mend her life. How it hurt him to not knowing whether his wife is dead or alive (offcourse his heart and soul knows the truth), if alive in what condition she is and whether she gave birth to a child and whetherid is a son or a daughter?

Guru Vashist wanted all the praja to know what their beloved king did for them by placing a boulder on his happiness. He never wanted Ram to remarry for the sake of Yangna.

@jaya I didn't tell Vashistha, because Vashistha knows Ram's condition. That's why maybe for 12 years he never raised the question of Aswamedha with Ram. As he knows it cannot be done without a wife, and Ram wont remarry.

Prem ka parityaag raghukul ke Maryada. That was an epic line. Love is the purest feeling. Love was Rams Shakthi and they are expecting Rajaram to sacrifice it. Well how hypocrite can they get? A man following rules and people hellbent on destroying it. I never thought treta yug could connect with Kali Yuga. I thought it was perfect until I saw even then to go on the right path was indeed made a conflict by few people. Uttarkhand is something in which we have a lot to learn from. The ardanareeshwar line was also a beautiful line yesterday