Would you marry a guy like Dev?

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Khusharni

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Posted: 8 years ago

#51

Yes, the first day of their love Dev but after that Dev nooo way.

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BB_CallmeC

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Posted: 8 years ago

#52

Not me. I cannot marry a mummy's boy who cannot take a stand for his own happiness in front of her. If he cannot stand for himself, how is he ever going to take a stand for me. I would expect the same amount of respect from him and his family like I would give them.

And I have seen this happening in real life too, not with me of course but a very dear friend of mine. And hence, my irritation towards dev and his love towards his mom is little more. Coz Dev reminds me of someone I hate a lot and all those time I just want to kill him.

And coz of that, I really want Sona to not say yes to Dev until and unless he himself realizes and takes a stand. I want Sona to accept Dev when he wants to take his LOVE home and not his mother's daughter in law. And I applaud Sona for the stand she has taken for herself and most importantly her self respect. She is right. She is not some toy that dev will say yes and no to according to his mom wish.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

#53

I am very very pleased to hear that today's woman wants a man who can take his own decision. All the best ladies. Hope you find the guy of your dreams, even a Dev Dixit with a spine minus Ishwari.

And for those who claim all men are momma's boy, that's a gross generalization.

Men who love their mother are NOT momma's boy. Men who can't take decision about their own life without their mummy's permission are momma's boy. Loving own mother is great and natural, an adult man being controlled by his mom without any thoughts of his own is not only unnatural but also slightly weirdly puppet like.

If you are already married to a momma's boy or willing to be married to a momma's boy, I hope you are very happy with your choice. But don't claim all men are momma's boy because trust me they are not.

Every single man I know and I know a lot of men both personally and professionally, they are not momma's boy. My own husband certainly isn't. If he was, I won't have married him.

And to answer the original post, I didn't marry a momma's boy and I will never in a million years will marry one.

And ladies who are not married yet, Momma's boy is more of a strange phenomenon in Asian countries where mothers can't seem to let go of their precious son.

Look outside India and you would find 99.9% men are not controlled by their mother even though they love their mother as much as Dev Dixit. The only difference is that they don't lie to their mothers or go behind their backs because they don't have to live their life or make choices based on their mothers' approval.

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Mahadevi

@Morana

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Posted: 8 years ago

#54

No ! Never ! Not even when he looks as dreamy and sounds as romantic as Dev. Even Shaheer , I'm a fan of his personality and skills more than his good looks.

In marriage trust , friendship, respect , giving each other space and most importantly standing by each other during tough times is more important than romantic love. A marriage can survive and flourish fine if it has the former qualities and may eventually lead to love , but marriage crush and end in divorce where there is no trust and respect like a pack of cards.

Right now , looking at Dev's stand ( or lack thereof ) for his love , I won't wish any girl to marry him , and become a second fiddle in his life , where he'll keep mum when she'll be tortured and insulted every day by the likes of GKB and Ishwari , the way it happened previously and Dev did nothing.

Plus it'd be nightmare for any girl if suddenly Ishwari one fine morning thinks once again that " Ye khilona bekaar hai. " we can't rule out the possibility that Dev won't even blink to dump his wife like a hot potato, because till now he's established that he won't ever go against his God, his mom, no matter what . He doesn't even acknowledge the existence of Sona's family and their humiliation n sufferings are not even in his rader.

I pity Sona, poor girl stuck in this mess , like she rightly said, " keechad".

Marriage is all about being battlemates in the war of life and being each other's rock.

Right now Dev-Sonakshi are far from it. I can't trust a guy like Dev ever to be my plus one, to have my back through thick and thin.

The truth is I'd have fallen out of love with him by now had I been in Sona's place. For me my family is important , n I won't put my own family through hell for a guy who always preferred and will prefer his family over me.

So , a resounding NO from me!

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ssimmy

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Posted: 8 years ago

#55

It's hard for me to say a definite no, because even though we have been closely watching Dev and Sonakshi's relationship, we still don't fully understand what their situation really is like. Yes Dev needs to sort out his issues with Ishwari, but does that necessarily mean he is a terrible person?

I don't know if this is only me, but I would rather marry someone I love who has family problems than marry someone I don't love with a perfect family. I feel like married couples always encounter a big issue in their lives. And why not face this issue with the person you love?

Maybe I'm just biased because Dev is so good-looking 🤔

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Mahadevi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: ssimmy
It's hard for me to say a definite no, because even though we have been closely watching Dev and Sonakshi's relationship, we still don't fully understand what their situation really is like. Yes Dev needs to sort out his issues with Ishwari, but does that necessarily mean he is a terrible person?

I don't know if this is only me, but I would rather marry someone I love who has family problems than marry someone I don't love with a perfect family. I feel like married couples always encounter a big issue in their lives. And why not face this issue with the person you love?

Maybe I'm just biased because Dev is so good-looking 🤔

Like some one mentioned in this very post that , to take out the dreamy looking factor , which must be seriously clouding our minds from thinking clear and realistically , we need to imagine Dev looking like a simpleton , suppose he's the face of Ranveer and characteristics of Dev , would you still marry him ??

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Sa1916

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Posted: 8 years ago

#57

No. Not in a million years. Hypothetically if I fall in love and lose all sense, my parents would do there everything to convince me not marry him. They would realise that there can not be a happily ever after with people with such pyschological issues and regressive thinking and that it's not possible to thrive in such a stifling atmosphere.

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Deepa

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Posted: 8 years ago

#58

Interesting question and some very interesting answers 😆

My best wishes for all you unmarried girls here to get a life partner of your choice!

Well in our days of arranged marriage, we really don't have to say about our choice or preference but hypothetically speaking

Will I marry a guy like Dev even beyond good looks? Maybe 😳 As long as he doesn't treat me like a dirt I won't have a problem with him heeding his Mom's words because eventually men tends to grow more mature after marriage dealing with right or wrong with an understanding wife.

I believe rather than finding a perfect partner , making your partner perfect after marriage is the essence of happy married life😳

Have I married one close enough ? YES 😆

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K.S.

@K.S.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#59

My answer to ur question lies in ur post..TRUST is d most important thing in any relationship..Love is trust, understanding, giving space,Respect...Not stalking, obsession..I never want to b with a man who is spineless as Dev..

I saw men like dev nd MIL like ishwari, so I knew how a girl suffers marrying a guy like dev..So a big NOOO!

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Piyali

@PiyaKaira

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Posted: 8 years ago

#60

I am fully prepared that when I get married, my husband might possibly love his mother more than me. I don't have a problem with that because I don't think I'll love him more than my parents so I can't expect it out of him. But Dev doesn't just love his mother. He worships her to the point where he has made her is god. Everything revolves around her and she is his world. So how can anyone be a part of his world when his mother is his world? My answer to your post is no. I will not marry a guy like Dev who can leave me at any moment if his mother demands him. More I will not marry a guy like Dev who will only accept me back into his life because his mother now wants it. A guy like Dev world is him and his mother. Where would I ever fit into it?

Edited by .Piyali. - 8 years ago

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