Would you marry a guy like Dev? - Page 3

My honest request to all those who think they have control on this is - pls don't b overconfident
I have seen plenty of such literally fallen in bad marriages.

Only hope is let's pray no one get as bad a mother in law like Ishwari Coz there is a very little percentage of boys who are not mamma boy..
If ur love is strong ... U can move mountains..

Am already married - so no point asking this Q-

I am having an Ishwari MIL n a very shallow Dev / what I meant is devotion to mom is strong not romantic like Dev but is a nice person at heart.

I can leave him and go - what will I get? Oh no, I feel divorce is not any liberation it is running away from ur own life purpose n responsibilities.
It's hurting me to live with such a person- but we all serve a life purpose - and this is mine - so is Sona
Dev is a nice person. God sends her to his life to heal him- to show him what real love means and ofcourse to be a better person.

Life n love both are a journey, not a destination!

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

Boys are Mama's boys - agreed - but most of them start questioning the mother and start a balanced relationship -once married. In these cases mother often says - beta badal gaya - and the problem starts.

Boys who do not question - wife suffers and its again a problem.

IN either case problems are there and its mainly the guy who has to act smartly and be a bridge - for happy life.

BTW - have you observed that if the MIL is not alive but FIL is alive - non of the problems exist😆😆😆

Actually, Dev doesn't have weaknesses, he is a remote controlled device. It would be hard to be married to a remote controlled device whose functionality you know will not be guaranteed! IF A girl is looking for a life partner why would she settle down with a remote controlled device?

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

My honest request to all those who think they have control on this is - pls don't b overconfident
I have seen plenty of such literally fallen in bad marriages.

Only hope is let's pray no one get as bad a mother in law like Ishwari Coz there is a very little percentage of boys who are not mamma boy..
If ur love is strong ... U can move mountains..

Am already married - so no point asking this Q-

I am having an Ishwari MIL n a very shallow Dev / what I meant is devotion to mom is strong not romantic like Dev but is a nice person at heart.

I can leave him and go - what will I get? Oh no, I feel divorce is not any liberation it is running away from ur own life purpose n responsibilities.
It's hurting me to live with such a person- but we all serve a life purpose - and this is mine - so is Sona
Dev is a nice person. God sends her to his life to heal him- to show him what real love means and ofcourse to be a better person.

Life n love both are a journey, not a destination!

@ BOLD - absolutely true! My belief too!

Already married one such dear...so I would say it s not easy...but over time u get used to the villainous games of yr mil that u become a rat to dig a new hole every time and save your skin...now if u think am weak and not fighting then lemme tell u there s Jo use fighting idiots..rather laugh at their idiosyncracy and keep living ur life...husband's are of no help to fight against mil ...period

Never, i would run away to another part of world from a person like Dev.






PS: Never marry mamma's boy. Its the worst thing you can do to your self.

Originally posted by: flat_everest

Already married one such dear...so I would say it s not easy...but over time u get used to the villainous games of yr mil that u become a rat to dig a new hole every time and save your skin...now if u think am weak and not fighting then lemme tell u there s Jo use fighting idiots..rather laugh at their idiosyncracy and keep living ur life...husband's are of no help to fight against mil ...period

A cutie like Dev, I would be tempted. But in the end, the stress is not worth it. You cannot reason with people like Ishwari and Radha Rani, and an entire life time of taunts and compromise on account of such irrational behavior is seriously not worth it.

Instead of Yes or No, I would like to say i will follow my heart instead of running away from my feelings. If you exactly want an answer then its YES. There is nothing called right decision or wrong decision. Every ones decisions depends on their perspective about life, priorities & past experiences. Perfect life partner thought itself is a myth guys. No one is perfect, not U and not ME then why are we looking for perfectness in our partner.

Originally posted by: piyu008

My cousin has similar problem, but she sometimes finds really smart way of dealing them. Many times she can't . I can understand what you are talking about. It actually needs more courage to face this all by your self.

I would say be smart and counter her😆.