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Posted: 8 years ago
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And let's not forget he is Spineless since the start of the show who didn't grow a backbone till now!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42
Yes definitely not coz of any looks or my thing But because of the sincerity he puts in all his relation,the depth in his love,the vulnerability that he has which is irresistible ,the passion he has.where do u get guys like dis nowadays guys nowadays are too much into their gadgets bikes or games. He s truly one of a kind I find him sometimes perfect than Sona she is textbook perfect not realistically.i like her.But today she sounded like a typical Indian daughter of serials.Mayb she'll change in future
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Posted: 8 years ago
#43
Most probably not. I don't say 100% cos I would like to leave the 1% to fate, destiny and my inexplicable stupidity at times!

As of today, with all the progression (or lack of ) in Dev's character, I would rather focus on my career and wait for my love story again.

Ishwari is insecure alright but it is Dev's blindness which is worrying. He is not unique or a butchered character.
There are lots of men like that in real life. Boys who came from working class families, did well in education and then built a career and have hence become men but they never learnt social skills, never spent a minute to learn to build and nurture love. They have learnt to respect parents and share with friends but not to share, respect and adore one single person.
Its like thinking you absolutely love your dog because you come home every evening and spend time watching tele with the pet on your lap. No, the dog needs a clean bed, some exercise and clean water too.

I would run miles away and Sona should hold her horses!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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haven't read the whole post
but replying to title, NO!

why? because if he can leave me all of a sudden, in a hurry, without thinking, for once then he can do that in any phase of time after marriage too!
his mother can ask him to leave me for this or that reason, and he will do it again who can guarantee? no one can!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No never ... . All boys are momma boys is a huge generalisation. Loving your mom and being completely blind to her are 2 different things ...

I'm not going to spend my life with a person who does not take his own decisions most of the times and does not have the strength to stick to them when he does.

My purpose in life is not to heal/save/sudharo someone. I want an equal partner not a 30 year old man-child to babysit.

Also, forgetting about ishwari for a second, what dev did - stalking her, embarrassing her, trying to ruin someone's business - Not attractive at all.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Trust me hotness lasts for 3 dates. Then all that matters is the person not how he looks. The answer would remain the same for most of people because no on wants to knowingly walk into a sasural from hell with a husband whose spine is missing 9 times out of 10
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No way would I marry someone like Dev, who is not only spineless but is selfish, who only gives importance to his mother and his feelings. Does not even understand that there are other who also have feelings and desires.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg

NOOo.. no girl with a brain and some amount of self worth would 😆 He is good looking, rich... but still a big price to pay to be with a manchild like Dev!

My MIL fits in same category.. not as much but she is right there and its hard work dealing with her. But my hibby makes up for it cause he is not immature baby like Dev so the challenge becomes a bit eqsier.

Story of my life😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Been there done that. Very horrifying and emotionally scarring experience, thank you. Put me off marriage for the life.
Now only aim is to make my son a better human being so that he doesn't destroy some other girls life
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No,
Not because I am not in for hardships that come along the way but for the simple reason that the most important thing that I am looking for in a Man is someone who has a "Mind of His own" and this quality reflects deeply on the upbringing.

Love goes through many phases in a relationship.. and ultimately what holds two people together is respect for each other and the space to let each other grow allowing them the freedom of expression and thought- this builds trust and togetherness!

Dev as I keep saying is yet to be a Man..he is a successful business man.. he knows how to tackle people professionally(supposedly so) however at home he is succumbed by the constant grilling of how his life is at hands of his mother..how grateful he is to her and that's not positive at all. When parents help a child grow with all the hardships they endure, it not to see their children always under the shadow of what they did for the child but what the child really grew up to be.. All you hardships were worth it if you see your Son/daughter grow up to be independent "thinking" individuals ready to take on the world! Well here unfortunately a person like Dev was never given free space ever.. Never- Its just sad that he could never get out of the clutches of his Mom.. More than Dev I see it as a Ishwari problem!

PS: I am married and don't have a MIL unfortunately :( but i have seen many of my friends who have difficult MIL's or even SIL's who are way too interfering, however I see them as No Nonsense kind of girls who are independent, respect their MIL's but don't go overboard with anything and here their husbands have played a pivotal role in balancing!Times are definitely changing!

Edited by SaloniVats - 8 years ago

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