Yes... I totally agree and that is why I started feeling sorry for Raman...i actually agree with ur first post, TM...both characters are flawed...but the crux of the matter is, that Raman has evolved more from the time of 'sirf ruhi ke liye' . It has become a second nature for him to think about Ishita's welfare, along with Ruhi and Adi
but for Ishita, its Ruhi first and foremost...if Ruhi is with her, than she will give her attention to others...in that too, Raman comes last...and unfortunately if Ruhi isnt around, than she looses her mind, forget thinking bt her husband...
and here, m not thinking bt what wrong Raman did or what wrong Ishita did...but this is how the characters has evolved..from their, 'sirf ruhi ke liye' phase
whatever wrong Raman did, i actually feel sorry for him, cause none of his wives wanted him for himself...just out of love for him...Shagun wants him for his money and Ishita wants him only when Ruhi is around...
i understand that parents go berserk when kids arent with them, but even in such time of crisis they support each other, as they both are going through the same loss...but here instead of supporting Raman, Ishita was hell bent on taunting him...reminding him again n again that it was his fault that ruhi isnt with her...she totally forgot that ruhi is raman;s daughter too, and that he is going through the same pain that she is...thats cause she doesnt give him priority as her husband...from her POV, their marriage stands only if Ruhi is with her...if she looses Ruhi, than it doesnt matter whether Raman exist or not...