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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: lostmymusic.



Teacher-Student relationships confuse me, I've come to this conclusion. I get confused about such ships. Because on one hand it's all, "BUT HE/SHE IS A TEACHER!!!!" and it's weird and wrong and ewww! But then on the other there's this whole, "Love happens. They get each other." argument and I'm all torn and confused and nooo! I don't want a teacher-student romantic relationship. It's weird, it's messy, it's painful, and Indian dramas don't have it in them to justify them or make them something rootable. SO yeah...there goes my argument against Vibha-Parth. A random older woman tou even I wouldn't have minded but please..no student-teacher one.

I haven't reached a conclusion on Utkarsh yet. I don't dislike him but he's not my fav either. Let's see how he copes with the real Warrior High stuff. Because he seems to be the vulnerable kind, he'd easily get affected. I just hope he has it in himself to get back on track and hopefully see his life beyond Siyali. Also for Siyali to refrain from shouldering his burdens as well as hers. He did show an interest in arts so hopefully he'll have a talent for himself..

Niti is a riot. I love this girl. She's has that spunk but a touch of reality as well with her barely visible issues. She doesn't let the things she has no control over affect her but there are times she gets the reality check that she isn't what society considers normal. Plus she has all these abandonment issues. That's one heck of a complex character and Juhi Aslam plays her very well. I just hope she isn't reduced to a comic relief because that's massive potential there. ANd the guy became instant love for me! He just picked her up, screamed, and ran for the train. Once there, he just put her down, didn't pay attention to her tantrum and went his own way. I do hope he becomes her friend..nothing romantic but a friend. Lol, we are trying too hard to find romantic angles despite getting no hints xD

Uniforms are love! I loved them when I saw the insta pics of them! the skirt specially...I like the rough look more, when Siyali was running outside with her open button shirt and unbuttoned blazer..would love to see the Warriors handling their uniforms casually like this when not in class..



YES. Indian TV can never get this right. Like can they make a relationship like this that's not just a plot mover?

Oh. That promo picture {or whatever it is} of the students with the principal standing over... showed Utkarsh playing with paper planes. Maybe this guy likes to design things?

I just love Niti. She's my favourite so far. She's so badass and awesome, even if she has issues, she doesn't show them. Juhi Aslam, I'm surprised plays her so well. But then, it does make you wonder, how much is her feeling real? Hahaha THAT GUY. Can he just protect her? Like as a friend? EHHH, romantic angles lol. I don't even know.

The uniforms! They look so cool. Why were my Uniforms not like this? Oh the casual look! Siyali looked so pretty :D



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: lostmymusic.



Utkarsh never said he was an artist, he said he was interested in arts. And when a school going student says he's interested in arts, he means he's interested in the non-science/maths subjects. That was what the context of that conversation was. Siyali was telling Utkarsh to at least start on his maths and Utkarsh had said that maths wasn't his cup of tea, he was interested in arts. It's wrong to compare Utkarsh with Ishaan Avasti. Ishaan was a proper kid, primary going. Utkarsh is a high schooler going for his HSC exams. I never said Utkarsh was selfish, in fact I pointed out that he has his own brand of selflessness where he isn't tying down Siyali with him despite confessing that living without her would be hard. He has a mature head on his shoulder where he knows that Siyali is made for greater things, things he can't achieve with her. But he wants those things for her and knows that the only way he can do so is by cheering her on. I never said Utkarsh is disliked by me as a character, it's just that comparing him to everyone else..he seems like the most prone to fall into pits of despair and his friends have to be there to help him. It just seems that way. Of course aisa kuch hua nahin hai tou it's all my assumption at this point. I was just saying that I wish Utkarsh has some spine and credibility on his own where I can like him as an individual away from the sphere of his more awesome friends i.e. Siyali and Niti.

I'm sorry but Vibha IS is a teacher. She may not have a permanent post or the title of a full time teacher but her job is that of a teacher. She hasn't come to WH for getting life experience, she is here for a job which pays her because she is going through financial crisis. Having a crush on a teacher is different than being romantically involved with them. Crushes are fine, crushes are cute. Because crushes happen on sidelines. Seeing the crush and sighing/giggling/feeling happy at their mere presence is good, giving them little gifts or token of appreciations is well and acceptable but I'm sorry, to see a student and teacher get properly involved in a romantic relationship is wrong and messy in my head. When one wears a school's uniform and goes into an institution, there are certain limits and boundaries set. Within the school, a teacher isn't merely a person older than you..the teacher's occupation and status becomes higher and holier than a student's. Outside the school, whatever. But when two people are in the setting of a school..these things just don't work out. Haan, in colleges and universities it can happen because the students are older in age and maturer in responsibly. But a 16-17 year old student being involved romantically in bhale hi 21-23 year old TEACHER...say it anywhere and the age would be neglected and the thing TEACHER and STUDENT would be highlighted and automatically make things wrong. So that's my justification for saying that Parth and Vibha are plain WRONG.

As for the other ships, we haven't gotten any proper ship in the show. It's still very much in the audience's head just thinking up possibilities. The reason Siyali and Parth are getting shippers or them being a ship is because they are the only two characters in these 6 episodes who have gotten silent encounters of the type which hint towards a possible pairing. We haven't even gotten introduction to all the characters yet. Like I said, everything romantic is still an assumption in the audience's mind. The show hasn't yet hinted strongly towards any of such things. I like the idea of Parth and Siyali and hence I wish that they be explored as a potential couple. Ab if the show isn't giving me that tou konsa mere ghar se kuch jaega? Good characters and story over romantic pairings, that's my mantra.

All of us are jst making assumptions right now and sorry that i misunderstood u on utkarsh's part.
But according to me a teacher student relationship is not bad though it sounds weird and is hard to digest.
i feel luv is bigger den all dese boundaries. a lot of ppl might disagree wid me bt the thing is
we need to understand teachers also have the right to fall in luv as long as dey are not cheating on nyone.
dese concepts are very disturbing bcoz dey break d so called rules of the society bt dese relationships do exist and are equally pure and beautiful. atleast i feel d8 dey r.

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