isolation & expectations .. copy pasted from my comment elsewhere - Page 5

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Sorry darling I am not here to change your mind. What I needed to state, is done. Good luck AGAIN 😆

Originally posted by: kritikakk

our first paragraph is exactly my point .. bang on 👏
infact I started this topic because I saw repeatedly other posts on this subject of isolation, I was/am confused because by my observation, gautam had ppl on his side even in first week and till day before epi he still had some hms guving him constant company .. so on what basis are ppl saying he is all alone and isolated! a person can willfully choose to keep away from others & engage in self imposed isolation, but in gautam's case that is not so, he spends his time alone talking to cameras but he also spends time with puneet n pritam, so why are ppl saying he is alone! yeah if puneet & pritam were not there it would make sense to say that! this was why I raised this topic, because obviously my understanding of isolation is very different!




First of all in this game all are alone but if u want temporary support of ur co contestant then u have to give them respect but gulati always giving them gaali, calling them villian, kutta, chichori etc and still we expect people to be friendly with him then we are fools. What is isolation according to gulati? 3-4 people supporting u blindly? OR host coming every week and giving u blind support and demotivating other contestants? OR gulati expecting that all housemates should sit around him to make him feel that he is not alone? He is playing isolation card becoz every time its working in his favor. Thats all.IMO


2nd paragraph ... I am yet unsure why gautam's mistakes are overlooked .. I let it be for a while now thinking that maybe its cause others make bigger blunders then he does, but frankly its apparent now he gets an olive branch and automatically any hm who voices concerns against gautam is automatically put in bad books .. this was sole purpose of my thread under expectations, to get a general feel as to how many ppl have thought from the prespective of other hms, and possible reasonings as to why any sane person would keep repeating same defences but to no avail!



Others are making bigger mistake doesnt mean just close ur eyes and support all gulati's mistake. There is no1 supporting bigger mistakes of other contestants so others making bigger mistake is useless arguement. Atleast in this forum those who are with gautam are allowed to make any mistake and those against him cant even speak one wrong statement by mistake. I feel people need reason to support him and he is alone is best reason.



unfortunately .. the responses I expected did not come in from point of view of subject initially.. which is ok .. and thank you for your input 😊



You cant get any proper response in this forum and u wont get at any cost. I must say u r lucky that still there is no abuse from gulati fans for having a point of view against him. Other threads where people have different opinion are called as 'haters' and response are like 'you hater go and find better reason to bash our hero gautam', 'go and feed ur baby instead of wasting time on bashing gulati' 'one more hater of our gautam' and many more.

There is double standard for gulati atleast in this forum so forget about any answer on point and little sensible. Ali's swearing matter was presented as disgusting when it was gulati who invited him but all people were celebrating herogirri of gulati when gulati called someone kutta. When we say gulati playing victim card there r people giving reasons like thats part of game and its not his fault if others dont know how to play victim card but same people were against were against tanna when she turned entire swearing matter into game, at that time no1 appreciated her game playing skill like they always appreciate gulati's victim card playing skill.

Here never expect genuine response. Here only 3 reasons are there to hide all mistakes of gulati- 1)Entertainment 2) banda entertaining he 3) love him hate him but cant ignore him. Never expect anything beyond that.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Wow for a self proclaimed neutral party you sure are brow beating Gautam and his actions!!!!!!

According to you there are only two types of isolation. Have you heard of varying degrees of isolation? What about still feeling isolated even though you may have a few 'friends' around you? What about the fact that Gautam has also overlooked acute rudeness in some of his so called friends because he might not want 'self imposed isolation' as you so term it. It's not black and white and neither does it mean that majority is right. Don't bullies normally travel in packs?

Today Diandra made a point that could not be argued for the moment. She said , 'it's my choice'. Tomorrow if Gautam, is aggressive, or nominates her or refuses to vote for her for captain, it's his choice!!! But they will flip it and say he's not a team player. Why should he conform to their idea of what's right or wrong or what's appropriate or not. Has he broken property in the house? Has he physically harmed them? Has he refused them food? But wait, his personality irks them!!!! So many people for different walks of life suddenly found common ground where they all hate Gautam's personality. How coincidental!!!

I wonder why the stupid audience doesn't see that??? 😕 Oh and as for sadhu Praneet, his bipolar behavior is so admirable. Who can blame him for his outbursts. Poor thing is under so much stress and strain from being Gautam's friend that he had to tear himself away in order to save his sanity. Oh woe is him. 😕 😭

Show us both point of views and than claim neutrality.