isolation & expectations .. copy pasted from my comment elsewhere - Page 2

obviously your not watching bb8 .. but gautam only!

karishma fiasco is long gone and buried .. even I mentioned it but moved onto other scenerios .. yet you are still stuck there???

funny you see only his 'pain' ... not other hms? since you also are only seeing one prespective, do you not understand why in house ppl see one perspective only too???

this could have turned out to be a very debateful topic, but clearly others on forum aren't interested in such rounded debates!

my bad!
& peace out

Originally posted by: kritikakk

obviously your not watching bb8 .. but gautam only!

karishma fiasco is long gone and buried .. even I mentioned it but moved onto other scenerios .. yet you are still stuck there???

funny you see only his 'pain' ... not other hms? since you also are only seeing one prespective, do you not understand why in house ppl see one perspective only too???

this could have turned out to be a very debateful topic, but clearly others on forum aren't interested in such rounded debates!

my bad!
& peace out

Where it started do u even remember ????🤣

Originally posted by: Endurance

Where it started do u even remember ????🤣

obviously I know .. its my thread... my topic was not centered on gautam but on the subject matters as above mentioned ... your replies are more about gautam then the subject

I dont know why its hard to face isolation in big boss house? Is there anything to play victim card just becoz u r alone in that house? How much time they have to spend there? 3-4 months. Not like they are staying there for some charity, there is a fixed amount for every day. Why do they want strangers to make them feel that they are not alone? In very first matter p3 were standing with him, so how he was alone?

When u r new at any place its not easy to make friends. One should have quality to attract others, make them feel that u deserve their friendship and trust and to be really honest gulati is not friendship material. After second week, he completely lost the faith of few people but still there were 4 more people standing with him. Instead of making his friendship strong he was just showing them boss type attitude, oh i m something and king of our group, started fake romance with sonali when was sure that he does not have any feelings for that girl, misbehaviour with praneet etc. Either he is just psycho person who has no control on his anger or he is just using others to get sympathy.

His apology to karishma was not genuine coz he repeated same thing with Ali. Person who is genuinely sorry wont repeat it again and now calling arya 'kutta'. He is like armman-first abuse, misbahave and cross all limits then touch feet, fold hands, cry and all other nautanki. Next day when u wake up forget everything and u r same abuser. So what we can expect from people living with him? Isolate him is last option they have. Afterall u cant expect from them to tolerate every single shit coming out of his mouth.

Agree p3 have to play their game as well. They have right to change their opinion of gulati and there is limit of everything including friendship. Gulati is playing his game well by getting all attention so why not others?

You seriously thought the bhakts are gonna see your point?😆

100% agreed!! I know how being isolated feels!! I knw how it feels to look at a room of people and feeling like u dnt belong there, i know how it feels that u are nt needed ny anybody!! Have gone through this stuff!! But at that time i just had one girl by my side who was nt even a friend of mine!! But just someone who used to sit with me!! We wouldnt talk much but still i felt like she kept me company!!
And do u knw something? It was enough for me to get out of that phase!!
I was also going gautam's way that is being self isolated but then i realized it is only going to make me miserable and hate things!!
Here gautam had 3 friends who supported him all the while!! Sometimes even took his irritatiom and frustrations but if now gautam has chose to look past that and hell bent on turning negative, then no one can help him!!

@Kritikkak: Superbb post 👏👏👏

Originally posted by: shinningstar

one cannot live by talking to only 2 ppl in the house...they don't sit the whole day with him...he cannot interact with anyone else...when they have food they don't call him when he comes they all leave...when he talks they make faces or don't respond...wait for him to leave and then laugh and bitch abt him...when food is served to him the attitude is what we won' even have with our servants ( saw ibn live feed how di gave him food)...he tried and now he stopped ...its matter of self respect also...he cannot be treated like a doormat all the time...it is suffocating and its amazing how he is holding up. plus i have observed tht now they have their melas near punz and pritham ignoring him totally from their conversations so that even they don't get chance to speak to him

Originally posted by: -PD-

i agree with you... just an example yesterday when Gautam came from cage when he saw everyone are in garden he went and said guys i am back...

can you tell me how many reacted cheerfully or atleast reacted... these small incidents effects for sure

if only one or two persons in the whole house of people talks with you and others ignore you or picsk on you everytime then the person for sure feels bad and feels isolated

the person facing the situation will know the pain not the others

Before going out he himself said "Koi chahiye bhi nai". To expect kyu karneka????😒

I don't understand why Praneet should stick to Gautam firstly? P3G are just stuck in name sake group except Gautam rest in the group see themselves as individuals. Gautam snapped at Praneet couple of times and that's it...Praneet don't want any pact further.