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Originally posted by: Bugger

uffff!!! again i hav to explain ........and now this is teh last time 😆😆

i never said Y's mom is mahaan or theer is no fauklt of hers .....i never said she is gud ,,,,plzz go back and read my posst again ,.....i alwayz said tht gurpreet's rudeness and arrogance was more than her cuz of which Y's mom's mistake seems not as big as gurpreet!

Originally posted by: sonu98

MITTIJALEBI & BUGGER...... i am sorry but i am not brought up to live with such an insult and I think when Gurpreet said sorry, Yash's mom also could say that she is also sorry for whatever went on between them....... if Gurpreet didnt mind it saying (even if it was just a TV thing----some may say that)..... Yash's mom could do that too...... but anyways, many people just like you two may still think that Gurpreet was wrong........... Even though I think she was not wrong.... and I think she said sorry, that was ok..... but it should have come from both sides..... RAJNI.D I agree with you.... thanks for starting this topic.........

Originally posted by: Rajni.D

@ MITTIJALEBI & BUGGER

are you guys kidding me you don't think yash's mother said anything that she should apologize for so her say ing

-gurpreet is immature -she's and idiot -i don't want in intercaste rishta -insulting her
• -telling her to leave and get pooja and nanidta instead

this isn't insulting and something to apologize for?!!! sure glad i don't live in your little world where this is acceptable

Originally posted by: sunandshine

Originally posted by: sunandshine

Your POV. Not necessarily thats the complete truth. Its all about perception. When someone opposes inter caste marriage, they dont mean 'insulting that religion' but merely saying "Our religious idiologies are different and a compromise cannot be attained". Religion is a sensitive issue and Momma Yash is not the only one who opposes it. Anyway, also point out to the episode where she explicitly stated that She dd not want an inter caste marriage. This relgion card has been played only on this forum not on the show.

Originally posted by: April2007

Okay if most Indian think like you do that it is not a good idea to have inter religion marriages, which are inevitalbe if people of diff religions live side by side then we should divide India on basis on religion. No pointing sending your kids to school with children of other religions and telling they can never ever mix or inter marry.

In that vain I don't think demand for Khalistan was a bad idea..(I was totally aganist it but no reading this kind of bigotry that seems to part of young Indian, I think I should change my mind).

Btw, Raj and Pri are from diff religion, tell Pri to bugg off so that Gurpreet can take her place..religion is not one way street. Hindu.girls are allowed to get handsome Sikh boys ..

I feel both acted immaturely. While Its clear that Yash's mom doesnt like gurpreet, she could have told this politely or tole her son that she doesnt want him to pursue gurpreet which he did.

Gurpreet's outburst was wrong but again after go through that much, she just snapped. Age doesn't matter when it comes to respect. You respect someone who respects you equally.

As i said in India, its the women who are against other women

i am agree with you sayiting she shuld be sorry too..i hate this thing in india how dey always let girls to go down not boys or their mothers..i think dis da reason girls are dyin from dere in-laws cuz they never get that respect or never get to talk...i am reading gurpreet's issue since last week..she did not say anythign to yash's mom i wonder why i think just becasue she is a girl and wanted to talk to yash or may be she likes him...but on saturday i think she was so tired hearing all this things...n she talked for herself n everyone got against her saying all dat stuff to yash's mom just becasue she is older den her and mother of boy...well gurpreet is right because seh watned to know why she doest like her..and yash's mom never cleared her answers...i.but yash's mom does not like her den i blive gurpreet got da right to ask her questions like dis like she said dat she got no sanskar adn all dat stufff.....but shekhar made her to apoloize just becasue yash's mom is older but yash's mom needed to be apoloized tooo....i am with gupreet and she was right...i am so lucky that am not leavin in india..its not like i dont like india..but i am still thinkin why are india is still behind in girls they still think girls are nothing...

Originally posted by: April2007

Okay if most Indian think like you do that it is not a good idea to have inter religion marriages, which are inevitalbe if people of diff religions live side by side then we should divide India on basis on religion. No pointing sending your kids to school with children of other religions and telling they can never ever mix or inter marry.

In that vain I don't think demand for Khalistan was a bad idea..(I was totally aganist it but no reading this kind of bigotry that seems to part of young Indian, I think I should change my mind).

Btw, Raj and Pri are from diff religion, tell Pri to bugg off so that Gurpreet can take her place..religion is not one way street. Hindu.girls are allowed to get handsome Sikh boys ..

Having a social life is a completely different issue. Interacting with other religions doesnt necessarily mean to get married. Do all those intereact with inter religion , do they get married ???
She probably understands her social circle better than any other. she knows how their relatives are and all. Its not about disrespecting other religions, but a move to save their own. She mighthave expectatations that her Bahu would take our responsibilites of her family , not just cooking and attending dinners. There are certain cultures and traditions within each religion which differ from each other.Its about personal prefernces. Can you explain me why people belonging to same religion dont marry with the so caled other communities within their own culture ?? .
Elders just oppose that coz they know in such situations relations get rocky which isnt good for both the parties .

Originally posted by: April2007

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Aren't you the one who said Gur should only marry a Sikh/Punjabi? What was that then? You are talking as a secular person while in fact being a biased person yourself? Anyway, everyone is entitled to their own opinion and none needs to impose their opinions on others. You have your own life, get married to anyone you please., that doesnt mean you lecture people on their religious ideologies. Dont get personal about these things with people you have no idea about. Being friends with people of different caste and religion is a different thing altogether and being married to someone is a completely different issue. Dont confuse the two.