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mechocoholic

@mechocoholic

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Posted: 16 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: MithiBani

Wow!! What a thread!!! I caught up the shows on youtube and I think Gurpreet was a bit rude(a bit..tht's all????) but Yash's Mom is not doodh ki dhuli either. The whole issue was started by Yash's Mom when she said Gurpreet lacks sanskaar.(can u tell me the exact epi when she has said this...coz according to me, this was spread by gurpreet, yash's mom never said this openly, even though she may feel it..a.nd rightfully so, she only said tht gurpreet is immature..as far as i remember...) Saying you don't think this girl is suitable for my son is okay but saying that she lacks sanskaar coz she shouts she's hungry in the mornings is just plain stupid. To me it seems Yash's Mom has promised herself that she'll NEVER accept a girl who her son falls for. (this assumption is based on what, if that were the case why did she allow him to come to this show??)She was also very rude when they rest of the Mommies made Yash/MommaY and Gur sit together. She could've talked a bit. ( Yes she could have, but she wanted yash to interact with the other girls too, as they get such limited oppurtunities to inetract anyway) Gur was in the mood to thrash the problems out but she curtly asked Gur to leave. Any girl would feel insulted with such behavior. ( Yes you are right, any girl would feel insulted, but most girls will not react as vociferously as gurpreet did, she broke all barriers of decency and decorum, and moreover, even after the whole drama she still wants to go out with yash?????? why, pray tell????? if she says that in the whole world no girl will want to marry into ur home, then why is she still hoping for yash?????/ wouldn''t she have to marry in tht house only????????what a hypocrite....🤢🤢)So Gur took it upon herself to set her right and was ably egged on by Gulabo and Rajbeer's Mom. Even Swati mentioned this today...something about Gur being bhadkaoed etc.

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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 16 years ago

#32

@sunandshine, bugger, and the rest of yash mom supporters

wow i can't believe the people that agree with yash's mother, i don't see how you you guys find her still to be good and doesn't need to apologize, it's the simple fact that she was rude and disrespectful and she has made gurpreet cry on numerous occasions, she should apologize i don't care if she is older than her.

Oh and for the people that keep on saying that ever annoying statement "can you show me what episode so and so said this". i have a suggestion for you if we are able to back up our point of views and tell you what happened in that episode than i think you should go back and watch it from the beginning again and stop with that annoying question.

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Bugger

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Posted: 16 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Rajni.D

@sunandshine, bugger, and the rest of yash mom supporters

wow i can't believe the people that agree with yash's mother, i don't see how you you guys find her still to be good and doesn't need to apologize, it's the simple fact that she was rude and disrespectful and she has made gurpreet cry on numerous occasions, she should apologize i don't care if she is older than her

uffff!!! again i hav to explain ........and now this is teh last time 😆😆

i never said Y's mom is mahaan or theer is no fauklt of hers .....i never said she is gud ,,,,plzz go back and read my posst again ,.....i alwayz said tht gurpreet's rudeness and arrogance was more than her cuz of which Y's mom's mistake seems not as big as gurpreet!

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Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 16 years ago

#34

^^ who's ever is at fault she should have also apologized

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Bugger

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: Rajni.D
^^ who's ever is at fault she should have also apologized

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now wat does tht mean ....jai ho!!!! .......i rest my argument here ..😆

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mechocoholic

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: Bugger

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now wat does tht mean ....jai ho!!!! .......i rest my argument here ..😆

LMAOOOOOOo...i know just give...u'll just keep going around in circles with these ppl....no use.......relax.....😆

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@MithiBani

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: mechocoholic

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Dr. Kang

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Posted: 16 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Bugger

@red - bhai ....if u watch the show again tht woman was not getting any chance to speak ....whenever she strts speaking eiethr she was intercepted by our gurpreet or by sumone else ........Oh yeah...... kitni bholi bhaali aur masoom hai na..... bechari ko bolne ka mauka nahi mila..... us din Gurpreet ko bol ke toh chal padi thi woh,...... she is not so innocent that no one would give her a chance to speak... when she was given a chance she ruined it by asking a question from gurpreet's mom........

@green - any self respecting woman wud hav done tht ...but hellooo ....she is still intrested in him ....after saying suych big big dialogs ....she never said its over!!------------ I said I HOPE she doesnt...... so its her choice if she wants to continue.... i am not supporting her future decisions... I am supporting what has already happened..... not saying Gurpreet is "all that akalmand"... but her family stood by her adn she stood by her family..... thats wat i am supporting..............

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Sarmita

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Posted: 16 years ago

#39

The problem in India is that girls are supposed to keep quite and tolerate everything whatever their in-laws say. After living in the US for the past 10 years, I was thinking that things in India have changed and girls have their own say in everything as they are much more independent nowadays. After watching this show, I realised that, we are where we were before women used to be so independent.

In this case, I would say that everyone saw that Yash's mom was insulted, she shed tears but, most people fail to see what that girl would have been going through, living in the same house with a lady who misses no opportunity to tell her how bad she is. Subah uthke yeh bolna ki I am hungry doesn't make her suitable for a DIL????????????? So, may be she wants a DIL who won't feel hungry. I don't know why Gurpreet has to go through all these. She is just 21, good looking, well-educated, she will get lots of boys who are better in every way than Yash.

Yesterday, Yash mentioned that "kata nikalne ki liye koi samajhdaar ko baithke baat karna chahiye" which he could have done but, he didn't get the opportunity. I don't think so. When Yash went with the ration, the other mothers tried to make Yash's mom, Yash and Gur seat and talk over the matter. That was a really good opportunity where they could have sorted out things. But, what did his mother do? She told Gurpreet to walk away and brought Pooja and Nandita to talk. So, Yash, you also didn't have the guts to tell your mom that no, I wanna sort out this prob and we all will talk over it.

There was another thing which surprised me was that when Yash's mom called Gurpreet to talk to her, yeh sirf tumhari life ka sawaal hai, yash to sirf meri hi baat manegi. She told her that tumhe to pata hi hai ki agar tum isse shaadi bhi kar lo to tumhe ana to mere hi ghar mein hai aur kaise nibhegi? She was correct in a way but, was that not blunt??????????

Gur was rude yesterday but, I guess these things have led her to open her mouth. Though she was rude but, what she said was right. Yash' mom never answers any question. She thinks that everyone should answer her. When she tried to do the same thing with Gurpreet's mother, she told her no more questions. Well, if we see everyone in the same level then, she was not wrong.

Also, Yash's mom likes Priyanka, Nandita and Pooja. Why? It can be because all of them are kind of focussed on other guys. Why doesn't she pick Swati or Vrinda? I don't think that she wants Yash to marry here. She has also said that Yash's brother, father and mother will choose his bride then, why bring Yash along????????? Why not all those other members?????????

Anyways, to be labelled a good DIL, you should never open your mouth and tolerate all the nonsense that comes to you.

For me though, Gur is bold and beautiful. Don't fall for Yash. Move along, make a good career and you will get lots of boys and good families who will treat you with respect. You deserve much better than this crappy family.

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Rani

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Posted: 16 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: mechocoholic

And even if u think practically and in reality.....inter-caste, inter-religion marriages are not easy, they are a challenge for the both the families, starting right from the marraige ceremony...right up to raising kids...each and every issue becomes complicated....there's no right or wrong answer in such a matter.....atleast when it's a love marriage, ppl accept it, but in this 'so-called arranged marriage set-up'......ppl are certainly not gonna change their beliefs overnight......and it's unreasonble to expect them to......

Okay if most Indian think like you do that it is not a good idea to have inter religion marriages, which are inevitalbe if people of diff religions live side by side then we should divide India on basis on religion. No pointing sending your kids to school with children of other religions and telling they can never ever mix or inter marry.

In that vain I don't think demand for Khalistan was a bad idea..(I was totally aganist it but no reading this kind of bigotry that seems to part of young Indian, I think I should change my mind).

Btw, Raj and Pri are from diff religion, tell Pri to bugg off so that Gurpreet can take her place..religion is not one way street. Hindu.girls are allowed to get handsome Sikh boys ..

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