Originally posted by: MayurSidma
I don't agree with the fact that it was Ovi's responsibility to tell the truth and clear the misunderstanding for ArVi or to the family who automatically assumes the worst of her. Why should she have to beg the family to listen to her? If the people that raised her had no faith in her to talk to her once before disowning her, what good does it do one to justify yourself to them? They were the elders but without second thoughts they not only disowned her but also never even tried to find out about her child. IMO, there is no use of having such so called family, that automatically believes the worst of you.
As for helping Arjun out, I really don't see why she should have. Ovi hasn't taken theka of bringing ArVi together. She made her share of mistakes, apologized for them and tried to rectify them. But solving other people's marital problems is not her job. Sure she suggested Arjun not tell Purvi about Pia and continue his life Purvi as before. But in the episode, Arjun had already lied to Purvi before Ovi had made this suggestion. That one lie which ruined his marriage that Arjun spoke was only because of his own self, and wasn't because of Ovi. Plus, it is Arjun and Purvi's responsibility to solve their own marital tiffs. Ovi knows what its like when someone intrudes in one's marriage so I am glad that she didn't get involved. And if Arjun so badly didn't want the D's to think the worst of him, he could have kept on with his tries but he didn't. What you said about Ovi, can also be said about Arjun can it not? He was always hell-bent on talking to Purvi, but when she always gave the phone to Manav, why could he not explain to Manav about his and Ovi's situation? Anyways, at one point when a person doesn't have faith in another there is no point in trying to convince them.
As for the track right now, its just stupid. Arjun needs to be a man and needs to tell Purvi the truth. One would expect that if not the last 20 years, he would spend the next 2 months getting to know his daughter but no. I don't think Ovi should have been involved in this, and Arjun should not have shamelessly called her to help him out in this time of need. Pyar karna hai to Purvi, but help mangni hai to Ovi. Ovi should not have helped him lie, but I definitely don't question her intentions. That one truth was not Ovi's to tell. Since Arjun lied it was his responsibility to tell the truth, plus it was his life on the line. Ovi didn't lie for her own marzi, Arjun begged her to do it. In fact, she was trying to convince him not to lie and come clean to Purvi. And I saw it more like trying to fulfill a dying man's last wish, but even so I don't agree with her helping Arjun. Her intentions are good as she is just trying to help her friend, the by-product of this charade is that ArVi are getting separated. But we all know that good intentions are hailed even though the consequences of the actions may wreck havoc [as in the baby swap issue], so even Ovi's good intentions make her at fault?
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