Ovi cannot tell the truth but she can lie for Arjun?W Pg12,18

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pallavi25

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Posted: 11 years ago

For 20 years Ovi could not tell the truth to Purvi or the Deshmukhs that she wasnt living with Arjun.

She let them believe the worst of her and Arjun!

Just one phone call to Manav or Savita or Teju would have cleared the matter for ArVi and cleared her own name too!

And ArMaan too deserved to know abt Pia as she had hidden Pia's existence from them from the beginning! From her birth!

So Ovi could not tell ONE truth that really needed to be told 20 yrs ago!

But Ovi can tell dozens of lies to Purvi to send her away from Arjun's life again! 👏

What exactly are her intentions?

So shes Arjun's "childhood friend" and telling all those lies at his request!! Yeah right!

Then why didnt she see how her "childhood friend" was suffering, spending 20 yrs of life alone? ALL because of ONE LIE he told Purvi at the hospital?? She still couldnt tell the truth for his sake?

That time also Ovi had urged him to lie to Purvi. And that ONE lie made all the difference!

She always supports Arjun's lies but she couldnt tell ONE truth to relieve his suffering?

This whole game of lies and deceit, to hide Arjun's illness, supposedly for Purvi's Bhalayi, is just plain WRONG! Lying can never benefit anyone!

Even if Arjun cannot bear to tell Purvi abt his illness, then Ovi shd not have helped him LIE to Purvi either!

She shd have remained neutral and silent and let Purvi make her own judgements abt the situation.

But she seemed to be enjoying herself watching Purvi cry as she reiterated that she had been living with Arjun as his wife for last 20 yrs! She quite gleefully supported Arjun's disgusting lie that he had been using Purvi to get Ovi back in his life! 🤢

Edited by devashree_h - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

Agree with you. I cant understand the very clear , straight forward character who say what she thought what she feel always tell a lie when its related to purvi . When both arjun and Ovi clearly know what happen for one lie of them all suffer 20 year they then again the same mistake. They very true friend always help eacg other to give pain to purvi.
Why she try to clear the misunderstand then they both live togather if Arjun is not with her then why with Purvi .
Then people say why purvi not believe Arjun if he act like real why she believe them . Who;s know when they tell a lie when they tell a truth. 🤢

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sherma

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Posted: 11 years ago

oh wow nw again ovi is blamed fr arvi seperatn.purvi dint beleiv Arjun wat wil she beleive ovi fr.did armaan as parents asked ovi wats d truth;fr 20 years they disowned ovi:dint evn care whether she is alive or nt

purvi had dne the same or bigger mistke wat ovi did:but she was given a chnce to explain and was frgiven within sumtime.it was Arjun who pleaded to ovi to cumback;she wasn't ready but he begged her.y shld ovi care fr purvi and her tears whn cause of purvi ovi was disowned by the family.ovi priority is Arjun cause he was the only one who wasvin touch wid her.i blamed Arjun fr getting ovi in d mess againas i said earlier he cld hav used sumting else to go awy frm purvi.he made ovi d villain just fr purvi.

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pallavi25

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: muaaz
Agree with you. I cant understand the very clear , straight forward character who say what she thought what she feel always tell a lie when its related to purvi . When both arjun and Ovi clearly know what happen for one lie of them all suffer 20 year they then again the same mistake. They very true friend always help eacg other to give pain to purvi.
Why she try to clear the misunderstand then they both live togather if Arjun is not with her then why with Purvi .
Then people say why purvi not believe Arjun if he act like real why she believe them . Who;s know when they tell a lie when they tell a truth. 🤢

Exactly! When someone lies to you many times, will you believe them when theyre telling the truth? Like the Boy who cried Wolf! When the wolf really came nobody believed him!

Likewise, Arjun's lies had destroyed his and Purvi's happiness!

For 20 yrs Ovi could not tell that one truth to her family to clear up that misunderstanding or even her own parents disapproval of her.

But she could tell so many lies to Purvi AGAIN after all these years for the sake of Arjun...then why not tell truth for sake of Arjun's happiness when she knew he was suffering alone for 20 yrs?

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sowmya

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Posted: 11 years ago

You really can't stop blaming Ovi for everything, can you? Carry on with your blind fanaticism 👍🏼😆

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pallavi25

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sherma
oh wow nw again ovi is blamed fr arvi seperatn.purvi dint beleiv Arjun wat wil she beleive ovi fr.did armaan as parents asked ovi wats d truth;fr 20 years they disowned ovi:dint evn care whether she is alive or nt
purvi had dne the same or bigger mistke wat ovi did:but she was given a chnce to explain and was frgiven within sumtime.it was Arjun who pleaded to ovi to cumback;she wasn't ready but he begged her.y shld ovi care fr purvi and her tears whn cause of purvi ovi was disowned by the family.ovi priority is Arjun cause he was the only one who wasvin touch wid her.i blamed Arjun fr getting ovi in d mess againas i said earlier he cld hav used sumting else to go awy frm purvi.he made ovi d villain just fr purvi.

Did Ovi even try to explain? Did she call ArMaan? I didnt hear them say so...did I miss an episode?😕

Didnt Ovi have any responsibility to explain to her parents what had happened? They disowned her because they thought she was living with Arjun. Why didnt she dispel that illusion from their minds?

Of course if she did that then ArVi would reunite, wouldnt they? 😉

Ovi is not being blamed for separating ArVi! But she did tell Arjun to lie and hide the truth from Purvi at the hospital and he did...and she never told anyone the actual truth after that!

But now shes telling so many lies to Purvi to make her leave Arjun AGAIN?

Of course we know for Ovi, Arjun is always the priority, not her parents, not her family, not Purvi or Pari or anyone else in the world! 😆 He calls and she comes running to tell lies and pretend to be his wife! NICE!

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pallavi25

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam
You really can't stop blaming Ovi for everything, can you? Carry on with your blind fanaticism 👍🏼😆

I stated pure facts shown in the serial! If you cannot refute the facts then dont just call these facts fanaticism! How abt a clean debate instead?

BTW you cannot call members POV fanaticism! That is member bashing and against forum rules!

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style14

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Posted: 11 years ago

All three of them are to be blamed for their situations. But Arvi cannot be blamed for Ovi being cut off from her family. Ovi is not a child, she could have easily cleared all misunderstandings.

Everyone agrees that Arjun and Purvi should have spoken to each other 20 years back and sorted their differences. Arvi should have thought of Pari and how this would affect her life.

Same applies to Ovi too. Ovi should have also gone to Purvi or if not her then atleast to her family to explain what has happened. Seems Ovi didn't love her family to fight for them. Ovi could have gone to anyone in her family and told them the truth but she didn't. It was her choice.

I dont even want to start about the D family. The less said the better.

This whole scenario of people not communicating with each other is so stupid.

You can't blame Arjun and Purvi for every thing that happens. Others are at fault too.

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..CrazyInLove..

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Posted: 11 years ago

I don't agree with the fact that it was Ovi's responsibility to tell the truth and clear the misunderstanding for ArVi or to the family who automatically assumes the worst of her. Why should she have to beg the family to listen to her? If the people that raised her had no faith in her to talk to her once before disowning her, what good does it do one to justify yourself to them? They were the elders but without second thoughts they not only disowned her but also never even tried to find out about her child. IMO, there is no use of having such so called family, that automatically believes the worst of you.

As for helping Arjun out, I really don't see why she should have. Ovi hasn't taken theka of bringing ArVi together. She made her share of mistakes, apologized for them and tried to rectify them. But solving other people's marital problems is not her job. Sure she suggested Arjun not tell Purvi about Pia and continue his life Purvi as before. But in the episode, Arjun had already lied to Purvi before Ovi had made this suggestion. That one lie which ruined his marriage that Arjun spoke was only because of his own self, and wasn't because of Ovi. Plus, it is Arjun and Purvi's responsibility to solve their own marital tiffs. Ovi knows what its like when someone intrudes in one's marriage so I am glad that she didn't get involved. And if Arjun so badly didn't want the D's to think the worst of him, he could have kept on with his tries but he didn't. What you said about Ovi, can also be said about Arjun can it not? He was always hell-bent on talking to Purvi, but when she always gave the phone to Manav, why could he not explain to Manav about his and Ovi's situation? Anyways, at one point when a person doesn't have faith in another there is no point in trying to convince them.

As for the track right now, its just stupid. Arjun needs to be a man and needs to tell Purvi the truth. One would expect that if not the last 20 years, he would spend the next 2 months getting to know his daughter but no. I don't think Ovi should have been involved in this, and Arjun should not have shamelessly called her to help him out in this time of need. Pyar karna hai to Purvi, but help mangni hai to Ovi. Ovi should not have helped him lie, but I definitely don't question her intentions. That one truth was not Ovi's to tell. Since Arjun lied it was his responsibility to tell the truth, plus it was his life on the line. Ovi didn't lie for her own marzi, Arjun begged her to do it. In fact, she was trying to convince him not to lie and come clean to Purvi. And I saw it more like trying to fulfill a dying man's last wish, but even so I don't agree with her helping Arjun. Her intentions are good as she is just trying to help her friend, the by-product of this charade is that ArVi are getting separated. But we all know that good intentions are hailed even though the consequences of the actions may wreck havoc [as in the baby swap issue], so even Ovi's good intentions make her at fault?

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sherma

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Did Ovi even try to explain? Did she call ArMaan? I didnt hear them say so...did I miss an episode?😕

Didnt Ovi have any responsibility to explain to her parents what had happened? They disowned her because they thought she was living with Arjun. Why didnt she dispel that illusion from their minds?
Of course if she did that then ArVi would reunite, wouldnt they? 😉

Ovi is not being blamed for separating ArVi! But she did tell Arjun to lie and hide the truth from Purvi at the hospital and he did...and she never told anyone the actual truth after that!
But now shes telling so many lies to Purvi to make her leave Arjun AGAIN?
Of course we know for Ovi, Arjun is always the priority, not her parents, not her family, not Purvi or Pari or anyone else in the world! 😆 He calls and she comes running to tell lies and pretend to be his wife! NICE!

they evn haven't Arjun gng to purvi house but it seems hedid.and if oovvi was really disowned without evn given a chnce to expln so its a shme on armaan as parents.so y dint Arjun tell purvi abt ovi.he toh had gne to meet purvi right.it was only onelie;but purvi had frced Arjun to lie to ovi fr ovi so called bhalai.arovi wasn't caught making out.that purvi was so heartbrokn.arjun was only d one who was in touch wid ovi.he begged ovi to cum;ovi tryed to expln Arjun but he wasn't ready to listen(if u really saw yestrdsy episode as a neutral viewr and nt ovi hater u will see wat i am sayng)

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