Originally posted by: pallavi25
Of course Purvi and Arjun are to be blamed for their separation and break in communication!
But Ovi didnt try to clear it up with her family either. She was nicely leading her own life letting them think the worst of her. Letting Arjun live a lonely, miserable, horrible life!
Like they say, Kisika Bhala nahin kar saktey toh kisika bura bhi mat karo...since she didnt bother to speak the truth all these years, why is she telling more lies to Purvi now?
For Arjun's sake? Then why not clear matters for the sake of his happiness all these years? Clearly because she didnt want to see him happy with Purvi...😉
I don't know if this reply was in reference to me, but I will answer anyways.
If her parents can automatically think the worst of her and disown her after hearing just Purvi's version, then I don't think they even deserved an explanation from her. The dad, aaji and sister who were with her for 20 years would think that she'll have an affair with Arjun when he was married to Purvi. If she were to do so, why would she divorce him in the first place? If after knowing her for her whole life and what she had been through, if they thought she would support infidelity then there is really no reason for having such a pathetic family. Plus, she didn't make Arjun live a lonely life. That was his own choice. He could have kept on trying with Purvi or moved on with someone else. She didn't take theka of fixing their love life. It was his marriage, his lie and his problem. She didn't bother confronting any of them because neither did she need to tell the truth to people who had no faith in her, nor was she responsible for ArVi's marriage. She doesn't unnecessarily meddle in people's married lives like Purvi. If Arjun had asked her to tell the family the truth to spare his 20 years, she might even have done it then. The only reason she is helping Arjun is because he asked for it, more so like a last wish kind of favour. She was also convincing him to fess up to Purvi, so is that part totally ignored? Btw she also had tears in her eyes at this part, so are you now going to say her concern wasn't genuine either? If she never wanted him to be happy with Purvi, why try to convince him to tell Purvi the truth and give her happiness that she could cherish for the rest of her life?
More so, she isn't the only one who lied Arjun did so as well. So if Ovi is blamed, he should be blamed even more as this was his plan and his idea to bring in Ovi, begging her to participate. Plus, the lies were spoken for bhalaayi reasons, is that bad now that Ovi has done it? Isn't Purvi hailed for her bhalayi ke intentions for giving Pari up?
But I agree with you on the fact that Ovi shouldn't have participated in this natak. Not to spare Purvi's feelings or allow ArVi to unite but because neither of these two should hold enough importance in her life after everything for her to even recognize them on the street. She should have stayed away to maintain her own sanity and well being.
Edited by MayurSidma - 11 years ago
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