Ovi cannot tell the truth but she can lie for Arjun?W Pg12,18 - Page 10

Originally posted by: poseidon2

why arjun didnt tell armaan ? ofcourse if he did then purvi would come back and maybe he really wanted chhutkaara from purvi😆.

in real life also it happens many times. we love someone very much but when that person's naataks and nautankis become too much then we try to distance ourselves from the person. that doesnt mean we stop loving the person , obviously we still love the person but we start distancing ourself from the person.

arjun also really needed peace in his life.

ovi can not tell the truth becoz arjun don want to inform purvi about his illness...

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

ovi can not tell the truth becoz arjun don want to inform purvi about his illness...

ovi can not tell the truth becoz man who is on death bed's wish is more important to her than anyone else..nd it should be...becoz purvi nd deshmukhs are not that one who can replace arjun's place in her life...

ovi can not tell the truth becoz still she is having soft corner for that person who is father of her child but never loved her...who can inform her about his serious illness but never loved her...who can begged her for help but never loved her... who can scold her for hiding pia's truth but never loved her...who can show his every right on ovi but never loved her...nd yeah for sure that person's wish is far more important to her than others.

ovi can not tell the truth becoz ovi is hating purvi (as per purvi fans opinion) just like armaan is hating ovi... ...so she wants to do favour on her daughter's father nd a friend who called her,begged her to do favour on him...

ovi can not tell the truth becoz till now purvi never ask her wat is truth,i know u were not with arjun so wat is truth...she just ask her wat r u doing here...she just told her meri khushi k piche piche aa gai...i have never seen that purvi ask ovi for truth as she herself is knowing in her subconscious mind that arjun is lying to her...she was asking herself why arjun is doing this...but she never ask ovi that where were u from 20 years i know now u were not with arjun??

purvi told arjun that this time i have faith in u so i will not going to believe ovi but arjun made new story ...purvi asked arjun for truth but that was arjun's wish to not inform purvi ...purvi never asked anything to ovi regarding truth nd as a viewer same time m watching on tv that she told herself that why he is lying now...what is matter... thats why she decided to stay in india...in this full drama i have seen that she was asking ovi that what are you doing here but i have never seen that she has asked that where were you from 20 years??

if she has doubt that arjun is lying to her than also she never asked ovi for truth but we can expect that ovi should inform purvi... this is also reason that ovi can not tell the truth to purvi becoz purvi never asked her anything before 20 years nd after 20 years too.

its not ovi's job to give answers without anyone's question... its not ovi's job to clear kachra from purvi's mind nd that too without purvi's wish or purvi's question or purvi's request...if purvi is having doubt that arjun is lying to her than its purvi's job to ask ovi for truth...

purvi's job is not only to cry everytime nd asking questions in diary or herself that why arjun choose ovi over me or why arjun is lying now again...if she can stay in india due to her doubt nd if she really loves arjun than its her main job to find out truth by hook or by crook but point is she should have enough trust in arjun that whatever she has seen,whatever she has feel was not wrong...its possible that whatever arjun is saying now is wrong...

if purvi herself don want do anything for her life,for her love than how can we expect that ovi should do this nd ovi should do that...

if purvi fans are already knowing that ovi is hating purvi nd that is reason that she is helping arjun than again it is not going to change purvi's state...as she is having big doubt that arjun is lying but still she has not started her investigation by asking ovi regarding matter or by doing her tactics like kasam...as kasam is frequently used by this people...why she is not using this tactic again by kasam of her head for truth...so point is she can try by herself too for truth but again she should have willingness to do try for her doubt...as per her 20 years history it is very clear that she can easily give up from person nd bow down her head in front of problems...

why she needs ovi's support or ovi's word for trusting on arjun??? why she can't herself do anything for her life??why she can't do any investigation for her matters???

before 20 years whatever onir had shown purvi believes...after 20 years whatever arjun is showing ...purvi again going on his behave not on his feelings which she felt atleast till now...nd at last we can say only one thing no one wants purvi...all are using purvi for purvi's bhalayi whether it was onir or now arjun becoz purvi is not having any willingness to do anything for her own bhalayi...

Am I missing something?

As a neutral viewer, I'm sure Ovi did tell arjun to tell purvi the truth, when they were sitting in the taxi. She didn't say 'don't tell purvi'. Facts are facts, and fact of the matter is she did tell arjun to tell purvi the truth once he himself had found out the truth.

I'm not writing against anyone here, I'm just speaking of what I saw in the episode.

As for the 'childhood friend' thing? How many times has a friend asked of you, a favour, and you've desperately tried not to disappoint? Friendship, especially one where you've been in love with them, and shared many things together, it's hard to let go in real life plus whatever he is to her, one cannot forget that he is the father of her two children, she would obviously want to comfort him, be there for him and help him out if he asks something from her.

Ask any single mother out there what the father of their child means to them, and they will obviously tell you that the father of their child means a lot to them even if they have broken up, even if they hate each other!

For Ovi she has an extra relationship with him of knowing him her entire life, being best friends, then engaged and also married to each other.

I respect her because she stayed away from him for 20 years giving purvi a chance to get back with arjun.

I understand once again Arjun-Purvi and Ovi are all to blame for this current situation. Blaming one person for this stupidity is like claiming the moon is made from cheese.

Ovi SHOULD have called her parents, SHOULD have spoken to Teju at least.
Arjun SHOULD have spoken to Purvi and done everything in his power to keep in touch with Pari.
Purvi SHOULD have listened him out and taken him back.

The deshmukhs SHOULD have been better parents.

But shoulda woulda coulda's doesn't get anyone anywhere. Just one mistake from each of them, cost them twenty years of ruined lives.

Originally posted by: ambolove

Am I missing something?

As a neutral viewer, I'm sure Ovi did tell arjun to tell purvi the truth, when they were sitting in the taxi. She didn't say 'don't tell purvi'. Facts are facts, and fact of the matter is she did tell arjun to tell purvi the truth once he himself had found out the truth.

I'm not writing against anyone here, I'm just speaking of what I saw in the episode.

As for the 'childhood friend' thing? How many times has a friend asked of you, a favour, and you've desperately tried not to disappoint? Friendship, especially one where you've been in love with them, and shared many things together, it's hard to let go in real life plus whatever he is to her, one cannot forget that he is the father of her two children, she would obviously want to comfort him, be there for him and help him out if he asks something from her.

Ask any single mother out there what the father of their child means to them, and they will obviously tell you that the father of their child means a lot to them even if they have broken up, even if they hate each other!

For Ovi she has an extra relationship with him of knowing him her entire life, being best friends, then engaged and also married to each other.

I respect her because she stayed away from him for 20 years giving purvi a chance to get back with arjun.

I understand once again Arjun-Purvi and Ovi are all to blame for this current situation. Blaming one person for this stupidity is like claiming the moon is made from cheese.

Ovi SHOULD have called her parents, SHOULD have spoken to Teju at least.
Arjun SHOULD have spoken to Purvi and done everything in his power to keep in touch with Pari.
Purvi SHOULD have listened him out and taken him back.

The deshmukhs SHOULD have been better parents.

But shoulda woulda coulda's doesn't get anyone anywhere. Just one mistake from each of them, cost them twenty years of ruined lives.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Yes, ALL THREE were to blame for this situation! We ALL know that!

Yes, its no use saying they should have, could have, would have...

But I still see Purvi being blamed alone for everything!Others can question Purvi's actions 24/7, criticize her harshly, bitterly for everything that is happening! I dont see anyone defending Purvi there!

Then why cant I point out what is unacceptable abt what Ovi did all these years? Or is she beyond reproach now! Is she on a pedestal that we cannot even question her actions?😲

Its a good thing to support and help an old friend, but then Ovi also knew Arjun was suffering, living alone for 20 yrs, she still didnt do anything to dispel the misguided belief in ArMaan and Purvi's minds that she was living with Arjun. Just one phone call to Manav or Teju would have solved all these issues!

Why didnt she help Arjun then if shes such a true friend/ ex-wife, mother of his child etc?

Pallavi, that's my point. Just one call from ANY of them. Ovi should have called teju, purvi should have called arjun, arjun should have called archana, archana should have called arjun (since she was keen for purvi to talk to arjun). Archana should have called Ovi, Manav should have called Ovi. Teju should have called Ovi. The list goes on and on.

Plus now we're something like forty years into the future and ekta still doesn't use any social networking platforms on her shows.

Just one call from any of them could have taken away all those misunderstandings which is why the current story line makes absolutely Zero sense.

I just put it down to some sort of blooper or mistake in the script.

Originally posted by: ambolove

Pallavi, that's my point. Just one call from ANY of them. Ovi should have called teju, purvi should have called arjun, arjun should have called archana, archana should have called arjun (since she was keen for purvi to talk to arjun). Archana should have called Ovi, Manav should have called Ovi. Teju should have called Ovi. The list goes on and on.

Plus now we're something like forty years into the future and ekta still doesn't use any social networking platforms on her shows.

Just one call from any of them could have taken away all those misunderstandings which is why the current story line makes absolutely Zero sense.

I just put it down to some sort of blooper or mistake in the script.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

😆😆Yes,I agree! Ekta thrives on miscommunication, lack of communication in an age when the global community survives, thrives on worldwide communication!

Purvi was the wronged wife so she was angry and cutting his calls, but Archana could have called Arjun, Arjun could have called Archu or Teju, anyone who would listen to him politely without hanging up!😆

And of course, theres email, text message, chat, skype, any means he could have used, especially as the Head of AK Telecom, his knowledge of communication technology SUCKS bigtime!😆

Don't forget Whatsapp. My relatives from India who have zero knowledge of technology use whatsapp. So considering Arjun's company is based on communication is laughable.

I fail to understand archana's concept of not interfering in purvi's life but also wanting her to be happy. Purvi's life needs interfering. Archana had every right to have an 1 to 1 meeting with her son in law.

But ekta serials thrive on crazy predictable drama.

All I know is Ovi had that smirk and was happy seeing crying purvi and arvi separation !

Originally posted by: FlawlessAshvik

All I know is Ovi had that smirk and was happy seeing crying purvi and arvi separation !

All these years when his so called best friend was in pain she never came to help them ( its her wish .. i dont blame her for that ) but when she came to know that wow arvi could be separated she just jumped in 😆

And the most funny part 🤣 Purvi was blamed left and right when she had tried to help ovi for her bhalai but when ovi does the same .. oh wow she is such a saint and she deserves a temple for that !!

Very much true post.