Ovi cannot tell the truth but she can lie for Arjun?W Pg12,18 - Page 12

Originally posted by: bitasta

Thanks for those lectures and all

I was not asking for the meaning of Bhalaayi btw..

And lesser of all the difference between bhalaayi and duty

Neither had I asked for a recap...

Let's exchange thoughths when you understand the whole issue,

She is doing such a big bhalai .she is not even have guts to face thier parents . She is so much obligated to Arjun how she can say no to arjun . Atleast she have a chance to stay with arjun its better choice to stay with parents.😉

Originally posted by: muaaz

She is doing such a big bhalai .she is not even have guts to face thier parents . She is so much obligated to Arjun how she can say no to arjun . Atleast she have a chance to stay with arjun its better choice to stay with parents.😉

Originally posted by: bitasta

Yeah Arjun's bhalaayi.. sorry duty towards her BEST FRIEND is more important than being with her parents..eh?

😉

Biased parents, yeah right! It works both ways! You cannot clap with one hand!

It is always good to help a friend... After all a friend in need is friend indeed.

But that friend was in need of help all along- for all those 20 years. Helping a friend after 20 years of passiveness when those 20 years were the period when he needed the help the most.

Oh yeah the BEST FRIEND should help another BEST FRIEND only when he/she asks.

No need to do anything VOLUNTARILY.

It's OK not to open one's mouth and give the FRIEND what he had been yearning for in those years.

In short there was no need to do anything for that friend in those past 20 years.

Now after 20 years let's help the friend to distance him from the love of his life once again.

FAB job by Ovi indeed"No need to clear the air of misunderstanding with parents in past 20 years. No need absoultuely as clearing misunderstanding would also mean Arjun Purvi sorting out their misunderstanding and differences.

And the parents who were under an impression that one of their daughters had been wronged by another daughter are biased parents- especially two people who knew the truth i.e. Arjun and Ovi did not clear those misunderstandings...

She could have told the truth and gotton her parents all along...

Who prevented REAL Ovi from clearing those misunderstandings all those years? REAL Ovi who shouted, screamed and made her voice heard? Purvi definitely didn't...

I think the creatives should he canonised for writing such saintly characters who are all such epitomes of self-sacrifice. Pity they forgot to pencil in brains when they wrote these characters. Each one seems desperate to outdo the other in the stupidity stakes.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

I think the creatives should he canonised for writing such saintly characters who are all such epitomes of self-sacrifice. Pity they forgot to pencil in brains when they wrote these characters. Each one seems desperate to outdo the other in the stupidity stakes.

But seriously, if love or friendship means hovering around a man who has no particular interest in your well-being or even that of the child he fathered with you, may The Lord spare me.

At least, Arjun and Purvi are crazy. Whether it is in love or whatever, they are still crazy.

I thought Ovi had evolved as a character and become mature!

What is her excuse for this idiocy?

Most importantly, I keep wondering what is my excuse for even following this piece of crap?

I know it would be Really dificult but let's forget Ovi and Assume Purvi saw Arjun with Some other Girl and Misunderstood them having an affair. In this case who Misunderstood- Purvi and who was Misunderstood- Arjun and that Random girl Refused to make ammends. Now Who is to blame for ArVi separation? Is it not the fault of couple who cannot Solve Their problems on their Own? Is it not fault of Purvi who didn't gave one chance to Her husband to clarify? Is it not fault of Arjun who couldn't make His wife to understand His point of view? This 'Do Hanson ka joda' was on a ego-trip, writing senti diaries, drinking, emptying glycerine bottles and then tissue boxes, making sada faces- at home, at work, at parties, hell! even in bathroom, raising servant children, mother letting her own daughter hate her father- Basically doing all that 'Tere liye hum hain jiye' stuff for 20 freaking years But couldn't One decent and Fruitful conversation. Did Ovi in Her 'Sick Obsession' of keeping ArVi away- cut their Phone connection, their Internet connection? Did Ovi shut Indian Post Service and all Courier Services? Have Ovi planted that Whatever clot in Arjun's Whatever brain? Is it also some Saazish of Sadist Ovi? I'll not even talk about Ovi's reunion with Her family because Nobody gives a damn about that- Just get this ArVi to reunite in any which way and Ovi- well she deserves hell anyways and one talks about 'Sick Obsession'. Ovi should Ideally leave and let Arjun die in hibernation afterall he was living that life, courtsey- You know who! Ovi was bashed to the core for her 'Obsession' for Arjun- She was what 20 something at that time who couldn't come to terms that the Guy whom she loved all her life, Her best friend, Her fiance- told her On her face that he loves some another girl. But what about this 40+ old Purvi? She too have been repeatedly told on Her face by Arjun- that He loves Ovi and not her- then Why She keeps returning to him, calling him and declaring Her love to Him? And that to when in Her Opinion he is Married to Ovi- Why can't now She lay off? Is it Not 'Obsession'? Or Mahaan Purvi is also allowed to Eye a married man along with all other Perks she had been bestowed upon? Ovi considers Arjun as her Best friend and Not Purvi and its Arjun who wants Her to act and She is giving In and If Arjun ever want to reveal the truth then Ovi would help in that too. But She would be again bashed for another Illusionary reason And She is being charged for having 'Some Sick Obsession'👏.

PW 👏 For ABV post..

BTW I never thought or felt Ovi's love for Arjun was an abosession or she was possessive for him. It was true love for a friend she had known all her life, was engaged to be married to. Until Arjun's path crossed with Panauti.

Hell broke loose...But who gets blamed for it all is "Evil wicked witch of the west OVI"

I rest my case.