Varsha Di 🤗,
A good post to Discuss and ofcourse Debate...😃 😳... I know I am Late .
Hope you doesnt mind me replying Late. 😊
I agree with your points. And Me too Glad that archu rejected the Idea and sticked to hers for once.
Neither I wish to go into Sulo's hypocrite details nor on Savita's actions and their comparison.
As telling that would not make any difference on Cvs.
But wish to say some points on it.
I Might sound Odd, Calling me a fan of archu and telling that I Hate Sulo would be contradictory for many. But thats the fact and If asked,i would say that if I loved archu,If i wished good for that character, then surely the person to be hated and blamed is Sulo.
Its sulo's action which are to be blamed for archu being in the current state she was in.
If only sulo has fulfilled her mother's duty, archu would not have seen what she has seen in her life.
Its parents or elders or our loved ones who correct us or correct our path when we are wrong and when we go wrong at times.
But Sulo with her self righteous attitude and boosting her Sanskars ,always misled archu saying that archu is always correct. This statement is one which has ruined archu.
This upbringing and statement of sulo hasnt given a opportunity for archu to look back on her actions and correct it when they were wrong.
As Kool Di said, I am quoting it again here,
Sulochana is closing all doors for Archana to go back to her kids and marriage if she EVER decides to .
Exactly this is what has been done by sulo and still doing from her part.
Not once Sulo thought of archu's future with Manav & his family . Its always about sulo and what she thinks right.Its not at the thought of archu's reunion. ok what if ,if archu had given her kids out of foolishness, Sulo could have corrected archu, she could have contacted Manav or his family.
if thought, sulo could have guided archu properly and would had end up archu with her Family on a Good note.
On a serious note, Sulo always had remain insensitive to Archu's happiness with her own family(Manav and her Kids) is the fact.
Be it the Ovi's matter or in general archu's daughter's matter, FD matter.
For once atleast archu was in her senses. Atleast she is thinking of all the daughters. thats what would had been the case. Archu looks for Purvi's interest and at the same time she looks for Ovi's and teju's part too.
But when we consider Sulo's actions, she Doesnt consider Ovi at all. after Purvi's - arjun love known to them, Sulo behaves a Blind eye to Ovi, She behaves as if she doest have a Grand daughter called ovi.
Supporting Purvi is not wrong, let her support ,cherish, make arrangements but consider Ovi's feelings too. is there a need to go to D's house and invite them for enagament, however good we might be ,wont we think that action as rubbing the salt on wounds.
Was it a correct action to remind the person the fact what they are trying to forget and move on.
Wast this called being a Blind eye to them and insensitive to their feeligs.
accept that Ovi doesnt treat them as her own(their fault lies o both sides). But does that give the right for a elder person like Sulo to behave the way she does.
And wish to end with the POV for which i started writing this post,
Actually the fact considered here and talked about is not Sulo using Archu's money or Manav's money. Its the response Sulo Gives after the Usage or on Usage.
Not once she will think of that in future. Use it and dump the source is her Policy.
Use the money, throw the source ,person or outcome outside the window is the end result.
And this Behavior of hers is what being criticized and not from where she uses.
actually whomever it might be ,However close they might be ,even may be our parents, if they do like that , if we get a help from them, then there is something called Gratitude which can be shown in any form --- respect, love and many more depending on to whom we are going to show .
But after using them or getting help from them, totally forgetting it is what not acceptable and to be criticized . Neither showing respect or love to them is to be questioned.
And in case of sulo with Manav --- its totally applicable.
As Jai said, atleast Sulo could have said, we will use it now for the cause and will save something later for other two daughters too. but that wasnt said.
Sulo totally forgets it.
Edited by umayal - 13 years ago
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