Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam
Niki, Tanya, Umi and everybody else; All characters have been written by the same writers. So we can't excuse Archana and Manav's disinterest as CV's fault in writing and Varsha's behavior as her own fault. Both are characters and we have to see them all in the same light; either accept all that the writers have the characters do as character nature or give the same leeway of faulty writing to all characters. I'm telling about what I've seen so far with a neutral stance without taking into account whether the track change is sudden due to TRP rating or whatsoever.
And my question remains, if Soham returns to Archana, will she be able to overlook Varsha's unhappiness and keep him? Already today she offered Soham back to Varsha again, and Manav agreed. I just don't see the attachment to the child from Archana and Manav; that I see in Varsha. And we can't say Archana is so naive, so foolish that Varsha is taking advantage of her; if Varsha takes advantage of her all the time, then Archana enables it. You can't keep blaming the hunter when the prey keeps offering itself. And Archana does love Soham, just not enough to want to keep her with him and shield him that I think comes naturally to a mother. Archana made a mistake letting varsha keep Soham with her all this time; but is she doing anything to rectify her mistake now? Nope, she's back to offering the baby to Varsha again. And others have to fight to keep Soham in D household, the parents themselves are ready to give away their child. This is not good for Soham; how long can Savita or Sulochana or even Satish fight to let Soham live with ARMAN? Savita and Sulochana have both been outvoted by ARMAN as can be seen from the fact that Soham was allowed to stay with Varsha for so long in the first place. Besides they're old. And Satish can only do so much before buckling into Varsha's stubbornness and her obvious attachment to Soham; not to mention his own attachment to the child.
Exactly my points . The underlined points are the crux of my argument and EVERYONE with contrary opinions have agreed to it .
I feel ONLY sorry for Manav . That too , a little bit only . Marraige with Archana and her khatarnaak family has been unfair to him ...he is either stripped of money , izzat or baby . The baby was the latest . Manav WANTED it . That evidence is there in the YELLING he did with Archana . But He loves Archana MORE than the baby .
Archana loves the Sister more than the baby .
Don't see why people are saying NO WAY Varsha is a wonderful mother or NOT mOther material . Sorry , I disagree .
Soham DID bring out the best in her where HE was concerned . Varsha is a ONE TRACK woman ...she gives her hundred percent only to what SHE WANTS . She wants Soham and to him she WILL give her best . She will look after him , fight for him , protect him like a tigress . She cares a damn for the world .
Archana will neither protect him nor fight for him . See how she simply let Varsha take him away . If Savita spoils him rotten she will simply stand and watch . She has no guts to tell her to stay out like Varsha tells Bhavna .
I dont like mothers who cannot protect or fight for their children . I dont like mothers who let people walk over themselves and their kids . I dont feel bad for them , I feel annoyed .
Satish is a WONDERFUL DAD for a kid to have . I would not say this of Manav in all honesty , as he hardly cared for Sachu when he seperated after marraige , allowed Archana to give Soham up and GOT USED TO THE FACT THAT HE IS NOT THERE . Varsha is accused of getting USED TO THE BABY ...The term is more applicable to Manav who initially yelled and later got simply USED to it and immersed himself in work .
Varsha did not simply get USED TO THE BABY . She took him by CHOICE . She looked after him by CHOICE . She loved him by CHOICE . She took one look at him and fell for him . She exercises CHOICE everywhere in SOHAM MATTER . One gets used to a thing when it is THRUST on her . Here it was not so , so using the words SHE GOT USED TO IT is wrong in my opinion .
But ARMAN ...yes , they grew USED to Sohams's absence . Manav immersed himself in work and Archana immersed herself in Sachu .
Each time Varsha made excuses Archana told her it was OK . Why the hell did Archana say that ? Why was it not said ITS NOT OK and I WANT HIM NOW .
True baby shud be with biological parents . But not when bilogical parents DONT WANT IT . Archana secretly wanted her Varshu to HAVE the baby . She has given each baby away to her and enabled her .
When biological parents DONT want baby , why make such a hard and fast rule ? Just for the sake of it why shud baby be with bilogical parents when adopted parents r displaying more love and more understanding of it ? Ultimately whats best for child must be given credence .
I foresee DOOM for the baby with Archana as the mother . She will do some ghatiya mahaanta and spoil the babys life . Mahaanta which ultimately she wont be able to deliver .
3 YEARS is a long period . No one ignores THIS LONG . ARMAN did .
Baby has got used tO varsha . Good . Let him stay there na . ACHA TOH GHAR HAI . Very loving grandparents , no plans of sacrificing him or trading him for smiles , nohing . A balanced , wonderful DAd .
Why disrupt the mite again and again . Daya karo yaars CVS .
Here he will see drunk grandpa , Doggie obsessed Grandma , romance craving Maa who gives damn about children and Yes Man Dad who says SORRY and YES ...bas two words to wife all the time he is at home .
Frankly Soham is happy and taken good care of . Let him grow up now in peace .These things shud have been thought earlier by ARMAN . Now simply let him be . U guys ROMANCE .
