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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
His pain is when he cries bitterly for his ex wife in front of Shravani ...

Thappad he shud get then . Thappad . He wants it both ways . The only fault I find with Shravni character is she hasnt LEFT him . She has been good to him and his family . She is super bugged with Archu all the time but with Manav and his family she has really been ok . This stupid Manav took Archu on wrong path and Archu LISTENED . Sulo TALKED to her today , any other mom wud have SLAPPED his and told go , get out , go be his keep .

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sherma

@sherma

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Posted: 15 years ago

#52

@saffyflower

i agree damo never promised her anyting but afters stying wid sum1 for almost 2 yrs u strt having a liking. the way karanjk hav for manju,she is such a bad dil but wil ever sulo hope for vinod and her divorce,archana styd wid dem only for 3.5mths, ant d way kooldi said they all request.pleaded dem not to get seperate but it was armaan who wanted to get divorce to show d wrld dey r right

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gaurimisha

@gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Its Manav who has to fight back and do the mahabharat if he wants archu back.Even archu cannot do anything,bcoz Manav insisted on the divorce,he gave her no choice -the ball is in his court.

The ball always was in BOTH Parties court .They REFUSED to listen to elders advice thinking they were SUPER SHAANE LOG . They desrve this mud slinging coz they both DEFILED the sanctity of marraige . Dont absolve Archu from this .

Both didnt listen to elders.BUt Manav gave Archu no options.He said I love u but am committed to phoons and so wanna separate as I cant live in the guilt of ruining her future.Archu loved him,already felt guilty abt Sachins' death...u say those things to a girl like her given the circumstances,u simply leave her with no options.She left him for his good....never said she'll stop loving him.

Marriage needs to be respected.But when one spouse has already gone ahead getting engaged n putting sindoor on another lady...promised marriage to her too,sanctity of marriage is lost thr.Archu cud hav said NO for divorce...but tht wud hav not saved the disrespect which was already done.

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 15 years ago

#54

Great commentary as usual!

Sulochana has yet to realize that Archana had no choice but to divorce Manav, he didn't give her a choice! I remember when Archana poured her heart out to Manav saying they should not divorce, he did nothing. Manav is the one who was determined to end his marriage so he can marry Shravani.

I am through watching everyone be so selfish, Varsha was selfish with Archana and now with Satish. The poor guy is a mess and understandably so considering what he was emotionally blackmailed into. Varsha is too self absorbed to notice or care about anyone else but herself, its me, me, me!

While Vinod brought up valid points to Archana, I wish her family for once would see her pain instead of caring more about what society thinks or Jaywant. Yes, Jaywant and Archana are engaged but I have yet to see Jaywant put forward any effort to get to know Archana better or vice versa. These are not two people who want to marry for love, Jaywant just wants to advance his career and Archana did this to satisfy everyone else.

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gaurimisha

@gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#55

Dont think Archu shud hav imposed herself on him during the divorce when he clearly maintained shravanis'-future-in ruins stand.Archu fighting for her marriage with this man,who is bothered abt the who will marry his fiance and so wants to divorce his wife,sounds lame.

Manav initiated this whole mess n Archu followed...so the same shud happen now as well.Manav has to get her back...take initiative just like he had done when he so valiantly promised phoons marriage when he was himself married then,with zero respect to the institution of marriage.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#56

GM , Mandy and ALL who say Archna didnt have a CHOICE ...........That Manav gave her NO OPTION but to divorce , I DISAGREE STRONGLY with all due respect .

.She had an option ..........risking his anger and NOT signing . Saying YOU gave promise to Shravni WITHOUT conferring with me , I AM NOT RESPONSIBLE for ur promise . I refuse to DISSOLVE my marraige for this ..if i was pregnant or if u had deflowered me by now , wud u have still dumped me and gone ahead SAVING other Gals ? Or wud u KEEP OPTIONS OF GETTING BACK TOGETHER OPEN INSPITE OF DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS ?

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We DONT see Archu asking these questions . Manav is crazy about HIS IMAGE as a MAN OF HIS WORD and Archu is crazy about MANAVS GOOD OPINION OF HER . To keep him PLEASED with her she goes to ANY BLOODY EXTENT ..........she divorced , SHe AGREED TO MARRY ANOTHER MAN instead of telling him GO TO HELL .

Today we see her telling EVERYONE I WILL NOT LISTEN WHERE GIVING MANAV HUMANATARIAN HELP IS CONCERNED < ALTHOUGH I HAVE IZZAT FOR U GUYS .Well why was this SAME ANSWER NOT GIVEN TO MANAV ?

She is risking an ARMY's Anger today , but she cudnt risk Manav the NAMBY PAMBYS anger ?

Archu is EQUALLY At fault .EVeryone had options , even she . We see her standing firmly by the right thing today , well she shud have stood firml;y by the right thing THEN .The Right thing was NOT listening to manavs BS but firmly refusing to give up on her marraige , kjust like Vandu and Manju did .

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

She is insensitive to Manav's pain ....Damodar is insensitive to her wish . He has always told her that he will never accpet anyone else for manav ...

What Manav's pain ? He made a bloody CHOICE ! A practical choice ! All his tears and pain desrve a middle finger . He wanted that baby for his mom , as simple as that , he does NOT want Shravni to go ! See how he was stopping her when she said Im leaving !

So fine , he made the choice , so be it ! Why the hell shud Damo for his son's choice punish that gal by constantly talking of his sons ex in front of her when the gal is being pretty nice to him personally ? I dont see the logic here .

You are wrong here.If savita dies tommorrow,manav wud still marry shravs BCOS HE GAVE A PROMISE.No doubt abt it.

Is Shravs not punishing Damo? He told her I am not accepting you as MAnav's wife only as Sachins' wife and my thinking will never change -way way bfor even sachu was born

How about Shravs respecting her FIL's wish and leaving HIS house??

Credit to him for not insisting that she get out - he let Manav decide his future -he told him,u can marry shravs if u want but then do what dharmesh said,let archu go - else,go get archu back

Damo is super fair here

Shravs was NOT nice when she heard that divorce may not happen,she gave middle finger to the deshmukhs when she packed her bags and went to complain to her dad,discussing how to PUNISH the deshmukhs,that extent she went-

sorry,she is cordial now bcoz she feels damo does not threaten her - why shud she pick up a fight with him at all,she is practical,she lives in his house,Manav will not like it if she disrespects -she is playing as per the situation

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#58

Well when Shravs gets the leeway to a lack a conscience for her fiance's dilemma and love -

Archu gets the leeway for not disrespecting her husband's wish -She cried to him saying there is no reason to separate and still we have to - he dint say a word,he just wanted to do it - she understood her obstinate husband's obstinancy,she was timid,no education,no confidence,always being led by others,she walked out herself then instead of brawling

Yes,they threw away their marriage,so they are facing the music now

Frankly,when she left to banglore and came back,she thot she wud never meet him,he wud be settled with shravs - her having to meet him again is sad,she is given no respite even by destiny

Edited by SaffyFlower - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#59

Yes,they threw away their marriage,so they are facing the music now .

There you are .

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gaurimisha

@gaurimisha

Inactive

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#60

Kool,Archana cud hav said what u did.In tht sense,she had an option.

But when we all say she never had a choice,its going by her character...She can risk everybodys' wrath but never Manavs'.This girl is completely latooo over him and HE knows that too.She let him know a lot many times that she doesnt want to leave him,threw herself on him...and yet got no response for him....only rejection as he was committed.That is what we mean as giving her no option.

Archana unconditionally loved him then.His wish was her as well.And Manav knew this very well.HE took her love for granted and wished to stay committed to his words.

I agree she chose to appease him but then as a person,she has no other choice as she has this unconditional love deeply ingrained in her ....first she loved Sulo this way..n now Manav.

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