Sherma - Has Damo ill treated Shravs?He has been a gud grandpa,treats her well and talks his mind,everybody gives credit to shravs for talking her mind even if its foul,what is wrong if he does?
He has not ill treated her , but he has not been affectionate , kind or sensitive to her either . Now don't say Shravni is NOT either of these things to Archu , so what goes around comes around ...........we are NOT talking of Archu here , the world does NOT revolve around Archu alone. Let us strictly take Damo and Shravani's relationship . He is the father of Sachin and also Manav and Shravni is the bethroted bahu of both . She has been there for a much longer time now compared to 15 day Archu and then 3 month old stay Archu and Archu who LEFT Damodar and walked off . In this long stay of two years , we see Shravani treating Manav's family pretty well , whether u guys like it or not . She gives the old man innumerable cups of chai , serves him food , looks on fondly as he plays with her child , coaxes him to have meds on time..........takes good care of him , as well as Archu did . When her Dad offered her a flat , this girl , unlike Manju , wanted to take Manavs full family with her there , she can VERY WELL SAY I WANT MANAV ALONE OR IM NOT GIVING U GUYS ACCESS TO SACHU . The whole family will buckle , we have seen how Savita buckled when she once REALLY used the baby card . But we see her not saying a word to Damodar's Archu favoritism . What Damo needs to be pointed out is
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By ignoring his wishes and signing on divorce papers , Archu DISPRESPECTED him
Archu LEFT him
Archu , even that day in the office when Damo Ajit went to talk to her , IGNORED him mulishly .
This girl may not be his favorite but this girl made an effort to be good to him in her own way . Besides , she is is sons choice and like it or not , his son who doesnt respect him enuf to listen to his advice by the way , is MARRYING her , a reality that cannot be changed . WE see PRABHI , JAY's mom understanding this pragmatically that Archu is Jays choice so I gotta ACCEPT her .Bhavna did it too with Varsha .
Reality is Archna divorced , went and finished her degree and got a job , and did not even accede to his THREATS that he will drink himself to death if she went
Reality is this girl is still latkofied , with promises of a wedding , that were NEVER delivered by the DESHMUKHS .We do NOt see Damo staying apart from D family , he is very much in the talks with Girish , nodding to all the Dates etc set for marraige . So now that Kaka too is gone , its HI TIME Damo as a Deshmukh elder feels responsible for this LATKOFIED GAL"S FATE ..........The gal HIS sons brot HOME , both .SACHIN and Manav .
Damodar has NOT disassociated himself from Manav in anger , so accepting Shravni is INEVITABLE .How about doing it the gentlemanly way instead of making ODD , EMBARASSING comments in GOKULASHTAMI FUNCTIONS LIKE ARCHU U JHULOFY THE CRADLE < SEE YASHODA AND DEVKI , LET ARCHU DO FINAL AARTI ?
Elders shud be ELDERS , Objective and foresighted . ARCHU LEFT .Thats the truth . And I felt very good that today her mom rubbed her divorce in her face ............She NEEDS IT . I hope someone rubs it in this DELUDED old mans face too .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago