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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#61

The decisions that followed .........of keeping the baby , getting married after divorce , staying in the chawl , all were based on THIS DECISION of Manav

I disagree.Shravani was also responsible...it wasnt only Manav's decision,he was trying to support her decision to keep the child.It was she who wanted to keep it,it was she who wanted to stay at the deshmukhs to be with sachin's memory...Manav's decision was not the reason...in fact Manav's decision gave her support in what she wanted to do against her father's will.

Ok.So,if this is trickery that he keeps quite for shravani's and her child's sake and then let her know...then what should I call what shravani is doing now?Is nt she asking for undue favours for herself on the pretext of her child(I'll go to the doctor with only Manav bcoz I've started to love him)...isnt she aware it was supposed to be a compromise marriage ,in fact she herself had assured Manav about her love for sachin and yet you find her fuming when Manav refuses to dance with her...I find this trickery as well...You assure someone that this is going to be so ,so that he readily promises u something based on those conditions purely and then u go ahead and change those conditions yet expect he'll stick to his promise,just bcoz he promised.

She consciously is trying to manipulate things with the sole intention of getting happiness at the cost of others...it is not wrong to fight for ur happiness but I dont see why that should at the cost of others and ur own self respect.

Atleast Manav's trickery will do her and her child some good...what purpose are her actions solving...nothing...only unnecessary unpleasantness and irritation.

Edited by gaurimisha - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: addenise

Kool's I disagree with Nikita...i prefer manav to be man enough and fess up the real reason why he does not want to go through with this sham of a marriage....however, i do not agree with u about Shravani being devastated if that happens...and archana wont....no doubt promises were made to her buttttttt she is quite aware y they were made...to save face and reputation....mainly hers....so this theory about her crumbling cause of her sudden neurotic love for manav dont hold salt for me...this is one strong gal that can hold her own.... as she proved today...with her bashing, taunting and challenge to archana....soon she will do same to senior members of that family..

She is taunting and challenging coz she is not as sure of his love as Archna is .Still waters run deep , empty vessels make the loudest sound . She is terribly insecure and one day will hold the elders hostage but only after she crumbles to rise from her ashes . But to ashes she will be done , as she will find herself ultimately ALONE .

Agreed .If he intends breaking then be man enough to face it too .No hiding business , I will simply hate the character then .Rite now he isnt my favorite but I dont hate him . But if he lies to her I will lose respect for him .

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#63

Gauri ........Girish clearly asked Manav Will u take this responsibility and he said YES .

Matter ends there only .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 15 years ago

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toothbrush13

@toothbrush13

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Posted: 15 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

The question is will Manav be able to divorce her ? he asked with a rare display of intelligence . All were shocked and stunned and silent . They are so used to him smiling in the background like a laughing Buddha and very decidedly NOT opining on ANY issue , that they digested the words in silence . We viewers too digested this miracle moment somehow .

😆 This part really cracked me up! rofl, him smiling like a laughing Buddha. 😆

I'm too lazy to write much today, I had a debate tournament yesterday that left me drained. Eight straight hours of congressional style debate with only a half hour lunch break in the middle. It was the nationals qualifier for our region, I was SO CLOSE to winning the bid, but I lost to a 12th grader. Its ok though, she was absolutely amazing and I still have next year to try again.

An observation from today: Where did Shravani get so much hair from? The length of that braid didn't match up to her hair afterwards.

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#65

Manav should honestly confess infront of shravani about his feelings ,to Archu as well...both deserve this much honesty from him.

But if such a confession is going to endanger shravani and her child,he needs to lie to save them...saving two lives is far more important than ethically speaking the truth and being a man.

But I believe Manav is far more dutiful to resort to any such thing.

He simply will go ahead with the divorce instead of thinking on such lines...easy way out...sacrifice

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Gauri ........Girish clearly asked Manav Will u take this responsibility and he said YES .

Matter ends there only .

Responsibility can be handled in other ways too.Marriage is not the only solution.

Again,I maintain situations change....so do human beings....and so should promises.

I guess I value a human being,his/her happiness and emotions over ethics/promises.

Ethics or morals stand for our welfare,if they dont serve the purpose,I dont consider them as ethics.

Take care..bye..I'm off to sleep

Edited by gaurimisha - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: toothbrush13

😆 This part really cracked me up! rofl, him smiling like a laughing Buddha. 😆

I'm too lazy to write much today, I had a debate tournament yesterday that left me drained. Eight straight hours of congressional style debate with only a half hour lunch break in the middle. It was the nationals qualifier for our region, I was SO CLOSE to winning the bid, but I lost to a 12th grader. Its ok though, she was absolutely amazing and I still have next year to try again.

An observation from today: Where did Shravani get so much hair from? The length of that braid didn't match up to her hair afterwards.

TB your observations R tooooooooooo good !

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

Responsibility can be handled in other ways too.Marriage is not the only solution.

Again,I maintain situations change....so do human beings....and so should promises.

I guess I value a human being,his/her happiness and emotions over ethics/promises.

Ethics or morals stand for our welfare,if they dont serve the purpose,I dont consider them as ethics.

Take care..bye..I'm off to sleep

This can be dicey . It is all very well to say this and I agree with u on principle .............Bheeshma valued his promise more than the ultimate good and ultimately took side of the wrong doers as he was bound by promise and it ultimately served no purpose . Principally what u say is true but

If promises r broken or manipulated this conveniently there will also be chaos in society . By snatching away her child from her , tricking her , saying Ill now marry archu and bidding her good bye what good will Manav Archu accomplish ? They will always have guilt on their mind and never be HAPPY . Her curse will always lie on their heads . What kind of a love marraige will it be ?

And if promises r gonna be manipulated this way under the excuse of ultimaately these things change for betterment etc , words cease to have value .Whatever Manav is , till now he has not shifted an inch from his word and I respect him for that .

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mimas

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Posted: 15 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: toothbrush13

😆 This part really cracked me up! rofl, him smiling like a laughing Buddha. 😆

I'm too lazy to write much today, I had a debate tournament yesterday that left me drained. Eight straight hours of congressional style debate with only a half hour lunch break in the middle. It was the nationals qualifier for our region, I was SO CLOSE to winning the bid, but I lost to a 12th grader. Its ok though, she was absolutely amazing and I still have next year to try again.

An observation from today: Where did Shravani get so much hair from? The length of that braid didn't match up to her hair afterwards.

She is borrowing Archu's extensions.. in fact she has started using it w/o Arch's permission..one more trick to lure Manav.. first it was Archu's Mangalsutra, now her hair extension, next her saris.. etc.. etc..

Edited by mimas - 15 years ago

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addenise

@addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

She is taunting and challenging coz she is not as sure of his love as Archna is .Still waters run deep , empty vessels make the loudest sound . She is terribly insecure and one day will hold the elders hostage but only after she crumbles to rise from her ashes . But to ashes she will be done , as she will find herself ultimately ALONE .

Agreed .If he intends breaking then be man enough to face it too .No hiding business , I will simply hate the character then .Rite now he isnt my favorite but I dont hate him . But if he lies to her I will lose respect for him .

Kool's what love shravani is unsure of? Manav dont love her period and she knows it..ha ha ha...I will accept that her bravado attitude could be a result of her insecurity and her certainty of manva's love for his wife....so she trying to scare ..."scaredy cat."..lol..I honestly dont think she will crumble..

Second u ...should he wimp out....i also will lose respect for him....right now he is not my fav person...