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Posted: 15 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: mimas

She is borrowing Archu's extensions.. in fact she has started using it w/o Arch's permission..one more trick to lure Manav.. first it was Archu's Mangalsutra, now her hair extension, next her saris.. etc.. etc..

ha ha ha..awesome observation...i think in one of those sbs...when shortie said manav is mine....archana was telling her what to do to win him...and she did mention something about hair and mini dresses..ha ha ha...what a blooperrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...crs really lost it ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kool, do you really think Sharavani is such a helpless girl who is hanging on to Manav's words and solely dependent on Deshmukh's ? At one point she was a very independent and sweet person.. now a days she is nothing but a jealous 'wanna be archana' . Right.. she wants to be Archu. That's why she is convincing herself and others that she is in love with Manav.. I am yet to see a woman who falls in love with someone while carrying someone else's child.. Sharavani is least bothered about her baby at this point (she did not remember about her godbharai) Instead of counting days to her due date, she is busy counting arch's days in that house. Sachin is hardly in her thought as she is precooupied with her 'so called' love for manav.and jealousy towards Archana.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaurimisha

The decisions that followed .........of keeping the baby , getting married after divorce , staying in the chawl , all were based on THIS DECISION of Manav

spot on guari...thanks for reminding me it was shravani who first went to manav's home...and refused to leave...(after which she told him about pregnancy)..until her father came and dragged her out...then he started emotionally blackmailing manav...about who will marry her..blah blah blah..
manav's character is not my fav...cause he has no spine...whatever sav aai says...he does...but let us be reminded that the sindoor episode, engagement, puja were all done under duress...
everyone could see his reluctance and annoyance....
I think them being separated would be better for the baby...how can u bring up a kid with mommy and daddy on diff page..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mimas

Kool, do you really think Sharavani is such a helpless girl who is hanging on to Manav's words and solely dependent on Deshmukh's ? At one point she was a very independent and sweet person.. now a days she is nothing but a jealous 'wanna be archana' . Right.. she wants to be Archu. That's why she is convincing herself and others that she is in love with Manav.. I am yet to see a woman who falls in love with someone while carrying someone else's child.. Sharavani is least bothered about her baby at this point (she did not remember about her godbharai) Instead of counting days to her due date, she is busy counting arch's days in that house. Sachin is hardly in her thought as she is precooupied with her 'so called' love for manav.and jealousy towards Archana.

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It is not financial helplessness that I am talking of . A lot has happened in that girl's life ........marraige plans gone awry , death of Bf , a baby , Father going after giving her two dominating choices , then attraction to her brother in law . In a very short span of time this girl has lived a life that Archna can only dream of in the emotional sense .
I dont agree that she was so crafty that all along she tried to copy Archna only . The problem is that Archanas goodness overshadows hers . She too wasnt bad on a human level . She was rich , but she quietly adjusted in their chawl , ate the plain fare they cooked , was nice to her nanand , she tried to teach her studies or dance steps , lent her shoulder to cry in Ajit episodes , Never once replied Damo although he constantly and openly favored the first bahu insensitively on her face , gave up jewelry , money of policy without claiming it like Manju . She wasnt really BAD as Rasika , Manju are , or even petty . But no one noticed it coz no one notices the moon when the sun shines in all its brillliance and here the sun was Archana .
To this point she has been ok with the DEshmukhs and tolerated enough of Manavs ' Go to bed and sleep while I hobnob with Archu on important issues ' scenario . The meds , food and rest r enot enough for this young woman who has feelings too and is craving emotional security but no one realises that , understands that or gives a real damn for her . Even Manav , he wants the bachcha . She is the person who will become a vamp due to circumstances ........she is not BOrn evl like Rasika , Ajit or that nail biter Manju who sent an entire family to jail .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The only person who realizes about the emotional insecurities that you are talking about here is Archana . Archana is totally understanding where Shravani is coming from . In fact she has even been a little firm with Manav on Shravni ...
Once when he tried to compare Shravani with her .
Then when he gave her the mangal sutra , she refused to wear it ..
Archana has two younger sisters and she is very caring and nurturing by nature . Shravani snubbs her and insults her but she does take Shravani something like the way she would take a younger sister . The reason why she keeps communicating with her is because she cares ...
Archana knows that Manav's future and his happiness lies not with her but with Shravani and Archu will do her best to do anything that makes maanv happy ...that is why she wants Shraavni not to make mistakes that would spoil her case .
I think Shravani is in good hands .As days are passing by Archana is becoming more and more detached to the idea of being manav's wife and is showing a lot of concern for this misguided young lady ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Tanya maybe his future lies with Shravani but cetainly not his happiness..
Misguided gal indeed...great description.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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This thing u said about Varshu Vaishuu passed my mind earlier this evening .That she treats Shravni like them and does not take to heart what she says .
It is her goodness that Shravni cud not handle and neither cud Savita . Savita was terribly scared of her goodness and hence the shouting always . I told u , Archu is the sun who dazzles with her brilliance .
I think , if Archu saves Shravni , she will hand over the baby and walk away . Just like Savita came around , Shravni too will come around and that will be Bapaas ultimate miracle and there wont be a divorce .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kool, honestly I have no idea as to what will happen .
Of course like any romantic emotional fool I would like the love story to have the ultimate happy ending ..
But if I analyse things practically , I don't know how this divorce can be stopped .
The only way it can be stopped is if Shravani does something totally pathetic like giving someone supari to kill Archana...😆 now come one , that even sounds so ridiculous ...
teaming up with Rasika to kill or hurt Archana , not likely as she does not bond well with rasika .
Manav making Archana pregnant ....very unlikely with the way thinsg stand between them ...
I don't even want to think of the horrible possibility of the baby dying etc etc ....that is just too cruel ...
Kool , my main problem with Shravani was that she would hurt my favourite character Archana . But the way Archu spoke to Shravani today , even told her that she is a very good person ...made me think that this is how a big sister would try and explain things to a younger sister who doesn't listen to her .
archana is not perfect . She mistrusted Manav for a long time . Noe she knows that this was a huge mistake and never will she do that again . She knows that Shraavni is making the same mistake and that is not to trust her honest intentions ....
That is why she does not see Shravani as wrong , because she herself once made a mistake of not trusting a good human being ....
Archana with the way of her dialogues and her words is trying her best to convince to give Shravani a chance .......
I am sort of understanding what she is trying to say . I still get very angry when Shravani insults Archana but I am trying to see things from Archu's point of view now ....
I hope that Shravani will not fall in wrong hands of rasika or Ajit ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Tanya
Much as i criticize Archana , I will never blame her for not trusting Manav for too long and going to her moms house .
That never was her mistake . It was a realistic and natural reaction of a newly married girl . Any woman in the traditional society of India wud do same thing .Manju wud do it , Varsha wud do it , Rasika wud do it and Sulo too wud do it .Savita wud throttle her jammai and bring her daughter home . It is a diffrent thing today that her daughter is not lisening to her today .
I criticize Archu for her hypocrisy that she can see Rasikas bad attitude as a mother in law but not Savitas own .Her false glorification of Savita . Coz Savita too inflicted Vile Abuse . Archu has one rule for others and keeps her own dirty laundry hidden . Manju once perfectly said to her when after saying I dont want divorce she had gone to sasural only to be told that she wasnt needed anymore as Manav had other plans ........she returned and lied that everyone welcomed her but circumstances have changed so i came with my own will , Manju told her Dont we know your Ram kahani .......hundred percent your ma in law has insulted u unbearably but ur hiding it . Tumne kaha aur humne suna ! Hateful as Manju is she is very right .
Not just that once Manju in an attempt to save her own butt told her I did police complaint to save u .Upon which Archu told her she never had been tortured .But Manju then told her Archu torture isnt necessarily physical , it is mental too and make no mistake what u suffered in that house was ABUSE . Again , Manju was right .
I criticize Archu for these double standards , never for her so called 'mistake ' from which she shud 'LEARN" and ' never ever do it again '. Oh boy NO . This is exactly what creatives r stressing and I rebel against that chauvinistic message .
The supari thing is not imposible Tanya . Only thing is , it will be cleverly done . Rasika clearl;y told today she will hurt Archu in a bad way . See how she pulled Shravni on the dance floor . She will keep the rifle on Shravnis shoulder and fire it . She will use Shravni to get back at Archu . Mark my words . Ur words will come true .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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From now on I am going to try things from Archana's point of View . Anyone who wants to see things from Manav's , how he thinks , why he behaves the way he does ...will have to talk to Nickita ...😆

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