Drawing the line between ego/pride and self esteem

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khamosshhh

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Posted: 14 years ago

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@koolsadhu - very well said once again...Hats off 2 d serial makers 4 giving such a rounded verbal duels between the protagonists...my biggest greivance initailly was showing D too idealistic nd being holier-than-thou nd every1 simply finding watever she does perfect.

V is the perfect foil for D, coz he has no ulterior motive nd his reasonings r sooo reasonable😉 dat it leaves no room 4 argument (for the characters as well as IF members)...there's hardly anything refutable abt wat Vaibhav says nd so Vaibahv is truely turning out 2 be d voice of d show wid his extremely limited dialouges as he puts forward both D's as well as IMV's POV widout D's unrealistic idealism nd IMV's malevolence.

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sonali.19281

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

very well put. shhh (I shld find out yer names..) and koolsadhu (lol quite an oxymoron yer ID)

that's the thing that works in favor of Vaibhav.. his ability to look at things rather objectively.. and having no-airs about things that could be regarded as benevolence.. even his gesture for Dalichand was rather matter of fact.. like it was his accountability somehow.. an I completely agree had he wanted to really come across as charitable or for that matter shrewd.. he would have either told Devki or earned brownie points with IMV.. but he just did it coz the situation demanded it.. I can also see where devki is coming from.. she had a major reality check yesterday.. which was much needed.. and she will get it time and again from Vaibhav.. that's why everyone needs a Vaibhav Virani to tell you where you lack.. or where you are going overboard to balance out the excessively affectionate relatives and friends..

this brings me to why I really like this forum.. coz a lot of us are like Vaibhav Virani.. who see through things.. and take cues from others esp if they can't relate to something.. before being effusive in praises towards one or more character.. which mars the integrity of viewers in most other forums.. kudos to all of you guys.. for keeping it the way it is here.. for calling a spade a spade and not taking undue offense at someone's pov..

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Anmol Jain

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ssshhh
@coldy07
@anmol

@sonali

Totally agree wid u guys. Hey Anmol I don't think dey'll show any grand entry of V wid Mehra in d courtroom...dis show is too subtle for dis kind of a dramatic showdown.😉

Luved V-D scene...actually if these scenes wouldn't been done just d way dey r done, then Devki wuld end up luking very foolish. So👏👏👏 4 d creatives 2 write d scenes just right!

Somehow I feel dat although D nd Manhar will b proved innocent, but the diabolic designs of IMV will remain unearthed...😭 For d time being D will hv 2 gv up her dreams of getting BB's company out of trouble nd she'll end up joining IMV.

Anyways the coming weeks episodes will b interesting.

arre kabhi kabhi chalta hain yaara, but whatever i am totally loving these episodes
the other show balika vadhu , that too is going fantastic these days😃
i am very happy with what i am watching these days

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

sonali and guys , u can simply call me Kools .Thats what others on IF do .😊

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fungirl09

@fungirl09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

This is my first time posting but i had to join in. I live in NY and do not speak a word of hindi, but this

my favorite serial. I live for the written updates and your discussions. Love D and V and i agree V stole the scene with his calm talk and i feel for D because her character has all the confidence in the world and that is where she gets her strength from yes it does come across as ego/pride. But i put myself in her shoes and i would react far differently i would have been screaming and shouting and looking like an idiot, but she stayed calm even though she was upset and told him what her feelings was. Her confidence was shattered today but not broken and given the opportunity she will fight for V in the future. I hope i do not offend anyone with my posting.

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Anmol Jain

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

@fungirl , nice to see u here, i am happy more and more ppl r coming and making this forum alive, it was dead few days ago

totally love them , they complement each other very well.

@sonali, hey i have to disagree with u on one thing, when v and s met, v was not amture, he was arrogant , and he had this opinion that whatever his dad did was right

s was mature , she changed vaibhav, , he has matured now, now he will turn d into a bit mature person and hopefully d will work her magic on imv too😆

imagine if v and d have been married without sabina factor,

their relationship would have been not what its like today.

sabina must be credited for what v is today and i totally understand now why v cannot forget her.

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sonali.19281

@sonali.19281

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

LMAOOO Anmol.. how did you disagree with me by saying this.. I have long before acknowledged the role of Sabina in this story.. as a catalyst that sows the humane seed in Vaibhav.. that sorta makes him what he is today.. and what a killer combo.. with his mind.. and the empathy she instigated in him.. but by Sabina;s own admission.. Vaibhav has always been a fair man with integrity.. that's why she loved him in the first place..Even Charu would sit him down before and tell him he is the only link between the house members and IMV.. much before Sabina came in.. so he has been playing the balancing act.. So yes while I agree she infused the traits that make him a gem.. I would say he always had them in him.. and soo true without Sabina in his life.. his equation with Devki would not be the same.. he would be incapable of a lot of emotions..

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fungirl09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

thanks for the welcome😃

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Salsa

@coldy07

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Wow! A lot has been discussed and dissected 😆

As always amazing posts everyone. 😃👏

Yes, Sabina changed Vaibhav as a person, and thus he was able to see Devki's dream, and overlook her as a busines rival. It's really a difficult thing otherwise. He is the perfect combination of maturity, compassion and intellect. Hope his character remains the same always.

Guess, I have nothing to add.😳

Btw, do all shows on this channel only air Mon-Thurs? I so wish it were Mon-Fri 😛

PS: Welcome to the forum fungirl09 Good to see more people joining in . 😃 Do keep posting your views.

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khamosshhh

@khamosshhh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

@sonali

Hey u snatched the words right out of my mouth or rather off my keyboard😉. I too agree dat V was always like dat nd Sabina just brought out d dormant feelings. B4 Sabina business was the be-all-and-end-all for V, but Sabina made him realise dat der was life beyond business dat was equally important.

Also true dat on dis forum there r so many like-minded ppl discussing abt d soap on a whole.

BTW my name is Munira.

Edited by sssshhh - 14 years ago