The misogynistic dislike for Pallavi - Page 5

Originally posted by: ReemShah

Pallavi has definitely made a mistake unknowingly--since she didn't know about Raghav's allergies --but the fact which confuses me is that even after putting a lot of chilli powder why didn't Raghav realise he was eating chilli food because the amt of powder went into it was a huge amount--and he could have stopped eating--he must have known about his allergy right.

I feel he was so mesmerized by her tht he didn't even realised he is eating mirchi waala khaana😆

Dear TM welcome to this wonderful forum. Loved your thoughts about Pallavi as character. Personally I don't like Pallavi one bit and never could relate with her. But I can see her pain and sympathize with her. I agree with you that Pallavi's character shouldn't be bashed for the prank she pulled.

At the same time I would request you to not to label us Misogynists because I haven't seen one person in this forum who hasn't strongly disapproved Raghav's actions before eventhough most of us watch this show only for him.Everyone here wanted Pallavi to take revenge on him. Not a single person here today has bashed Pallavi. This forum is full of positive and creative people who try to find humor in every situation. So please do not blame us for the mistakes of people in other platforms. 🤗

Originally posted by: Mihika

You are right that she would repent and ease his pain. But regarding the MUs and investigations. Those two were the biggest mistakes of Raghav which I for one cannot forgive easily if I had been in Pallavi's place. But remember the abortion track...Pallavi straightaway interpreted Raghav was at fault but Raghav went and investigated the matter even though he had no clue.

Her issue with Raghav that time was more about the fact that his grand expose led to Manasi's wedding being called off. She also put the facts before her family and cleared her name in private but she was avoiding creating a tamasha infront of Manasi's inlaws so her marriage is not jeopardized. Raghav's intentions were good but he was tactless which his amma also pointed out.

Oh and kidnapping incident.. yaar wo pehle ek baar kidnap karke chalti truck ke samne bitha chuka tha usko.. so obviously her instinct would be to blame him after all she was in his house! Who would expect Raghav would get drunk and have a sudden change of heart? Even Raghav didnt believe he saved her😆

I won't say Pallavi should have also done the same with Anjali MU because we can have infinite arguments on the difference availability of resources (money) and power for both of them. Remember the Kidpnapping MU Pallavi was saved by him but she ended up taking him as the culprit. Fine let's say it was all before wedding. But what after wedding. When she wanted to know the problem with her family she went and interrogated Raghav in the pool and also slipped into it but when her family accussed him for misbehaving with Rambo should she not go and ask him. Does this also require money and power?

Absolutely. She should have talked to him. She acted silly. But Im glad she acted silly coz now I can see her feel guilty and take care of Raghav😃 and when she finds about loan papers, she will also begin to trust him..Just like Raghav got a jhatka before he began trusting her, this will be one of those jhatkas she will need to begin trusting him.. necessary evil for ITV drama-MUs !!

Ok before I could have agreed ... But given the things now I don't see any reason why Raghav would not say the truth about Amrutha had he been questioned. Rather just like he told about the tax problem he would have told this too but she did not ask him anything. The only times I remember her questioning him were after the defamation track and once BWA's truth about photographs came out. I am not justifying what Raghav has done wrong. But has Pallavi always been right. She trusts them blindly or better to say she trusted Amrutha only on half the story...why?

Because she considers them her family despite of everything. She maybe feels indebted to them for giving her a family when she had none. She is naive and foolish but she will learn her lessons like Raghav learnt. Also, we as audience see things macroscopically and get to see both sides of the story not Pallavi..She has just started to get to know him..the mistrust on him is pretty deep and for good reasons and that's not gonna go away so easily.

Is she that blind to their wrong doings? I would Pallavi's line from that maardo episode "Ek baar to puch liya hota". I can bet if today Pallavi goes and asks for explanation on any of the MUs ... Raghav would readily give her.

They both have commited mistakes.. Raghav's are much more grave than hers.. but she still gave him a chance..despite of everything. So we can cut her some slack too, don't you think? She also needs that life altering moment like Raghav did when he got to know Pallavi is innocent in the MMS matter. When she will get to know how far he is ready to go to redeem himself in her eyes, she will also trust him and then eventually fall in love with him..we just have to be lil patient. That's all.

Originally posted by: I-Got-You

Also she trusted her family (in her eyes ) not some stranger

So might not have considered investigating whole story

Raghav believed total stranger In keerti MU

Which was 10x serious than this one

I hope pallavi learns from this and asks Farhad next time for unbiased story

That's what people don't understand.. Pallavi, the character's view is going to be different. For her they are her family so obviously she will trust them over Raghav who has a certain reputation in her eyes and for good reasons.

Mirchi hi hai behno Chill 😆 thanks to this silly thing she did, we will get to see really good scenes.. plus from story point of view, its important to see some trust building from Pallavi's side too. This incident is just going to catalyze that.

Originally posted by: -RoadsideRomeo-

I feel he was so mesmerized by her tht he didn't even realised he is eating mirchi waala khaana😆

this might be the perfect explanation--the way he was looking at her so lovingly unknowingly had my heart--bechara Farahad must be feeling so uncomfortable there

i dont know what fire it will create when they would in actual look at each other so lovingly

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Originally posted by: ReemShah

Pallavi has definitely made a mistake unknowingly--since she didn't know about Raghav's allergies --but the fact which confuses me is that even after putting a lot of chilli powder why didn't Raghav realise he was eating chilli food because the amt of powder went into it was a huge amount--and he could have stopped eating--he must have known about his allergy right.

Coz ladka bawla hugya hai pyaaar mei...

Taste buds kaam nhi ker rhe bechare k😁😁😁

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

I hear your pain TM. And this is not just this forum or show I have found that with many other shows , fandoms. People do ask for ML redemption, if and when it does come and he makes puppy eyes thats it, we expect the FL to forget all. I would say that the topic applies to many shows.

The thing is most Fandom consist of girls and women for the serials. Its natural that they show interest in ML, and once ML shows some sign of romance they cannot stay angry. Where as our FLs who tolerated a lot cannot drop it just like that.

It sometimes just scares me that we are look for romance in a forced marraige. Because in reality no girl or guy should be forced. But then 80% star plus shows are like this. Its sad truth that plain vanilla love stories don't work. And if ML is handsome and good actor then to forget it. !! The show is watched by girls of all age groups and everyone interprets this differently. I especially get scared when young girls romanticize bad behavior from male lead quoting his past life problems. Its never , never a girls responsibility to heal a guys past, or tolerate his bad behavior for that reason. Here Amma's insistence that RR marry Pallavi so she can improve him was one of the most intolerable thought processes to me.

In MHRW I am at glad at least the hero , if we should truly call him that , is trying to make up for mistakes taking a months time. This is a new for people because generally they don't even show that in other shows. Even his way of redemption is very high handed because he doesn't involve FL in his efforts with Ds, which he should. But just the fact that's he is trying has captured lot of hearts.

Personally for me , to accept thier marraige , they must remarry with FL choice. Thats why its important that Mandar come back, and Pallavi chooses whom to be with. Until then all his mein Pati hun dialogues don't hold water for me.

People say that Pallavi is treated better at Raos than at Deshmukhs.I don't think so at all. At Deshmuks she was their elder son , handling all the responsibilities. She had purpose in life. Working and shouldering ones own family does not make you a servant , it makes you a responsible child.

Here at Raos she is reduced to being RR's shadow, a big business mans wife. She has servants and no real responsibilities. RR helping her behind her back with clients also did not go down well with me..though many found it sweet on his part. Because now whatever she earns and becomes its with his help and thats not Independence really.. If she starts going out at night for office work like she did at Deshmuks won't the Raos rebuke her? I find the fire, sense of purpose in Pallavi gone after the marraige. Hope it comes back.

Its hilarious to me that people are blaming Pallavi on mirchi issue when it is Raghav who should have stopped eating that especially since he knows about his allergy.. Blind love for ML...😆

Dear TM, don't worry too much on this issue its there across the board for all shows.If majority audience is female , the sympathy is always towards ML.Also audience is conditioned by other star plus shows, FLs always being forgiving to ML. So the reactions. When tracks will change people's comments will change. And I found this forum pretty decent.

People dig grey characters. Plain vanilla characters can get boring , but just like you I am afraid when people can't differentiate between fiction and real life. Unfortunately, some people are too young/ stupid to realise this

Honestly the whole issue is that the audience seem to despise the deshmukh family and hence the backlash at pallavi for her family pyaar. I think its more of a personal bias that is the reason for the backlash.

I think even if pallavi had genuinely done it as a revenge for the wrongdoings raghav has done to her, it wouldnt be viewed with this much of an uproar since i think everyone across the board consider raghav to have wronged pallavi and not her family.

I cannot see any growth in Pallavi's character, Hence unable to connect with her.

She always opposed Raghav for his misconduct but never opposed or uttered a single word against D's, She act biased.

Nikhil was into gambling, Baba into doubting her, Sulo accused her of pregnancy, Amruta was at RR mansion in drunken state, Jagdish misbehaved with her, baba destroyed her craft book but still she remained mum,dumb & ignored coz they're part of her fam & always blamed RR coz he is a outsider.

Kirti was not ready for the shoot still pallavi force convinced her, later she got into MMS scandal coz of Sulo, Pals is now aware of the fact but not given mahaan gyaan to sulo nor even apologetic to Kirti.

Once pallu told Raghav, If he spoke to her before taking any such actions MU would've been cleared, Now why its not applicable to her,

She would've atleast confronted him before feeding him chilli powder.

Raghav is an extreme guy, his love, hatred will always be extreme.

He had reasons for his misdeeds but once those reasons turned to be baseless, He acknowledged his mistake, he apologized, he was guilty, he is repenting, he is trying his best to resolve.

RR is treating pallu's fam as his, so he involved in their loan matter.

Vijay spoke ill about RR parents, involving his parents in their fight was disgusting

even pallu once spoke on his parents (Tujh jaise insaan ko janam deke tumare maa-baap khi sharam se muh chupa rahe hongey)

Raghav might be a bad guy but never involved someone's parents in his fights.

Pallavi is orphan hence craving for parents love, What about Raghav? he do have his mom, sis yet he is orphan, he craved for family love too.

Its not only Raghav at fault, Pallavi too at faults.

Pallavi needs to come out of her D jaap, as long as she remains connected to them, she will remain one dimensional.