The misogynistic dislike for Pallavi

I'm actually surprised at how everyone is crying for Raghav here and the extreme dislike I'm seeing for Pallavi from some people.

After everything Raghav pulled, everyone seems to have amnesia or selective memory loss. He literally made her homeless, yes the fault/blame lies with her father in law but don't tell me Raghav didn't know what the outcome of his performance would be in such society, blackmailed her into a marriage amongst a hundred other things and yet he's easily forgiven because he's hot💁🏽‍♀️

From what I can tell, a lot of the fanbase seem to be females and are willing to look the other way to all Raghav's faults.

But as soon as Pallavi unknowingly makes a mistake, the hatred/dislike for her is out of the stratosphere.

I keep seeing strong dislike for her after the chilli incident and people saying Amma should put her in her place.

After the stuff Raghav has pulled with her, why should she give him the benefit of the doubt, Raghav literally has given her no reason to trust him and has fallen to such low levels before.

Also any child would get revenge for their parents after what Raghav pulled with her in laws, now I'm no fan of physical abuse, neither of those two men (or the mother in law) are mature and seem to bring out the worst in each other.

I'm pretty sure Pallavi only heard half of the story and honestly it's in character for Raghav to pull such a stunt so why shouldn't she get revenge. If someone hit or tried to hit my parents, I would have hit them back or sent them to jail.

Ofcourse her in-laws don't deserve being called parents, that's a different matter and hopefully a part of Pallavi's growth as a character (if we're lucky), but at the end of the days Pallavi has always seen them as her own parents and because of her not having any other parental figures until Amma, she's unfortunately willing to overlook their conditional love for her because she's starved for a parents love.

Just because we all know Raghav is slowly trying to redeem himself doesn't mean he won't make countless of mistakes on the way and that doesn't mean Pallavi should have to overlook them instead of pointing it out just because he's trying.

Raghav initially was wrong in this whole debacle with the loan, he has no right to interfere in someone else's life. Let them make their mistake in their bullheadedness, he tried to stop them and when they refused to listen, he should have walked away instead of escalating it.

I love to see the slow development of these two flawed characters into becoming more understanding and less foolhardy but it's funny how much people rip into Pallavi for her flaws and for not seeing the good side of Raghav and how much people turn a blind eye to or easily forgive Raghav reckless and often rotten if not full on disgusting behaviour, and all this because he's very very hot.

Peak misogyny!

Ofcourse the more rational thing for Pallavi to do was ask for Raghav's side of the story and then talk it out instead of such petty revenge but he's lucky all he got was mirchi tbh.

I love both characters to be honest but I'm just tired of the blind worship for male leads.

Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

I'm actually surprised at how everyone is crying for Raghav here and the extreme dislike I'm seeing for Pallavi from some people.

After everything Raghav pulled, everyone seems to have amnesia or selective memory loss. He literally made her homeless, yes the fault/blame lies with her father in law but don't tell me Raghav didn't know what the outcome of his performance would be in such society, blackmailed her into a marriage amongst a hundred other things and yet he's easily forgiven because he's hot💁🏽‍♀️

From what I can tell, a lot of the fanbase seem to be females and are willing to look the other way to all Raghav's faults.

But as soon as Pallavi unknowingly makes a mistake, the hatred/dislike for her is out of the stratosphere.

I keep seeing strong dislike for her after the chilli incident and people saying Amma should put her in her place.

After the stuff Raghav has pulled with her, why should she give him the benefit of the doubt, Raghav literally has given her no reason to trust him and has fallen to such low levels before.

Also any child would get revenge for their parents after what Raghav pulled with her in laws, now I'm no fan of physical abuse, neither of those two men (or the mother in law) are mature and seem to bring out the worst in each other.

I'm pretty sure Pallavi only heard half of the story and honestly it's in character for Raghav to pull such a stunt so why shouldn't she get revenge. If someone hit or tried to hit my parents, I would have hit them back or sent them to jail.

Ofcourse her in-laws don't deserve being called parents, that's a different matter and hopefully a part of Pallavi's growth as a character (if we're lucky), but at the end of the days Pallavi has always seen them as her own parents and because of her not having any other parental figures until Amma, she's unfortunately willing to overlook their conditional love for her because she's starved for a parents love.

Just because we all know Raghav is slowly trying to redeem himself doesn't mean he won't make countless of mistakes on the way and that doesn't mean Pallavi should have to overlook them instead of pointing it out just because he's trying.

Raghav initially was wrong in this whole debacle with the loan, he has no right to interfere in someone else's life. Let them make their mistake in their bullheadedness, he tried to stop them and when they refused to listen, he should have walked away instead of escalating it.

I love to see the slow development of these two flawed characters into becoming more understanding and less foolhardy but it's funny how much people rip into Pallavi for her flaws and for not seeing the good side of Raghav and how much people turn a blind eye to or easily forgive Raghav reckless and often rotten if not full on disgusting behaviour, and all this because he's very very hot.

Peak misogyny!

Ofcourse the more rational thing for Pallavi to do was ask for Raghav's side of the story and then talk it out instead of such petty revenge but he's lucky all he got was mirchi tbh.

I love both characters to be honest but I'm just tired of the blind worship for male leads.

Male leads ki pitai huri hai Fl knghat walu se..

Male leads ko mirchei khilaye jari hain..

Male leads ko crores ka loss hurha hai..

Male leads FL ka ghar bacah rha hai..

No acknowledgment. Nothing.

Ml is on redemption track and it has been shown since few episodes...

So i think ML has been traumatized..

Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

I'm actually surprised at how everyone is crying for Raghav here and the extreme dislike I'm seeing for Pallavi from som

Peak misogyny!

Ofcourse the more rational thing for Pallavi to do was ask for Raghav's side of the story and then talk it out instead of such petty revenge but he's lucky all he got was mirchi tbh.

I love both characters to be honest but I'm just tired of the blind worship for male leads.

I think you are highly mistaken this forum never known as blind pankhi of any character be Raghav or Pallavi

One two members might show their displeasure but what I see from two three months most sane fandom of IF

No fan war no off-screen gossip nothing

Most rational fans of characters and show. I never saw any biased views

Originally posted by: Doc

Male leads ki pitai huri hai Fl knghat walu se..

Male leads ko mirchei khilaye jari hain..

Male leads ko crores ka loss hurha hai..

Male leads FL ka ghar bacah rha hai..

No acknowledgment. Nothing.

Ml is on redemption track and it has been shown since few episodes...

So i think ML has been traumatized..

ML lead has been traumatised? What about the FL that has been beyond traumatised when he came to her house and accused her of having a sexual relationship with him and got her thrown out of the house and then had the audacity to bully and blackmail her into a forced wedding for his own selfish needs.

Personally I would never ever forgive that had someone done that to me...it would take years and years before I even thought of acknowledging them.

So why should Pallavi acknowledge it within two days, the things he did to her were not light things, he ruined her izzat in society and more.

We all know Pallavi will forgive him because it's ITV but no-one should ever have forgive or acknowledge someone like that.

ML brought the pitai on himself from his own actions since day one, sooner or later someone was going to raise hands.

What is a tablespoon of Mirchi infront of izzat?(even the mirchi was supposed to a light punishment, unfortunately Pallavi didn't know he was allergic and that it would be so deadly or she would have never done it)

Again what is some loss of money infront of Izzat and blackmail? He brought that on himself and he is choosing to sacrifice those crores, the FL didn't steal it from him.

He's going about the wrong way to save that house to be honest, forcing someone not sign it and then ripping the paper infront of them and then nearly escalating it to a physical fight and the threatening them to bring them on the streets.

Why not go to the uncle or the mom who are more willing to listen than straight up forcing the one person who will never listen to sign it. (Yes it's part of his flaw and something that he'll be working on but this is to show he went about it the wrong way)

Yes he's on redemption but he will make many mistakes along the way and he needs to be aware of it.

Compared to the trauma Pallavi went through his hands, Raghav is really not that traumatised.

I'm not a fan of the physical abuse but Raghav has without a doubt brought it on himself, especially the ones from Pallavi. The ones from her in-laws, not so much though.

I have never seen any one disliking Pallavi here. In fact most of us are very happy that we are getting a ML redemption track and we are waiting next for Pallavi’s. Both need their own growth before they accept each other. I for one, love both the leads and support them equally depending on the episodes. I think most of the people in this forum do the same. Now the equation is different that Sai has got more fans. That’s a personal decision.

Actually we criticised raghav 's wrongdoing and pals wrongdoing both yar. Our fandom is not what you think we are. I think you don't know how everyone bashed at raghav when he did wrong to pallavi. We r not side of raghav or pallavi we are toh side with raghvi. We know both characters have flaws as well as virtues too. Our fandom is the only fandom which accepts k leads bhi galat hote hai or hum unko criticise bhi karte h otherwise i saw a lots of shows where leads r wrong and if we comment something their fans even abused us.

Originally posted by: Muktchand

I think you are highly mistaken this forum never known as blind pankhi of any character be Raghav or Pallavi

One two members might show their displeasure but what I see from two three months most sane fandom of IF

No fan war no off-screen gossip nothing

Most rational fans of characters and show. I never saw any biased views

Agree with you Mukt... Here nobody supports anyone blindly.. some may have a little bias to ML that too because Pallavi character is shown ignoring her brother who raised her and favouring Deshmukhs... Infact everyone here were waiting for strong redemption track of ML and I personally like the ML to try hard to win the FL.. for the mess ML created he not only deserves chilli but more than that... I guess nobody is opposing the things done by FL to Raghav till now.. everyone is opposing only the D gang not trusting Pallavi that too because when everyone in their house know how sulu is and what sins she committed and still trusting her. Double standards if D gang is what despised here..

Thank you for voicing it out. I have just decided to selectively read the comments and skip on those which bash any character instead of trying to read into their perspectives and enjoy the story. And all this just because they are not behaving the way they would prefer them to.

Along with the fact that the ML got good looks, what adds more to it that we have witnessed a better character development in case of Raghav, so people empathise with Raghav more.

But in no way I am justifying bashing Pallavi’s character because of above reason. It’s absolutely unbearable. Quite literally, the girl lost everything because of him, most important being her self respect in front of the family. Raghav will have to go through a lot of trouble to make up for it. I would personally never be able to forgive such a person in my own life. So obviously he will need to go to that extra edge to earn respect/forgiveness from her.

Plus everyone should keep in mind that she didn’t know that he’s intolerant to chilli. She would never have done it otherwise. (Like she refused to do the same to raghav’s family, what Raghav did to hers). And obviously is going to be very guilty when she knows and make up to him/apologise wholeheartedly).

People please, try to read into the characters. Looks are not everything!

I love Raghvi and will always be wanting to see them grow together. Also loving the quality episodes we are getting nowadays. ❤️👏

P.S. - I also dislike all the slapping and feel that violence should have no space, irrespective of genders. But for that CVs’ are to be blamed, not Pallavi.

Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

ML lead has been traumatised? What about the FL that has been beyond traumatised when he came to her house and accused her of having a sexual relationship with him and got her thrown out of the house and then had the audacity to bully and blackmail her into a forced wedding for his own selfish needs.

Personally I would never ever forgive that had someone done that to me...it would take years and years before I even thought of acknowledging them.

So why should Pallavi acknowledge it within two days, the things he did to her were not light things, he ruined her izzat in society and more.

We all know Pallavi will forgive him because it's ITV but no-one should ever have forgive or acknowledge someone like that.

ML brought the pitai on himself from his own actions since day one, sooner or later someone was going to raise hands.

What is a tablespoon of Mirchi infront of izzat?(even the mirchi was supposed to a light punishment, unfortunately Pallavi didn't know he was allergic and that it would be so deadly or she would have never done it)

Again what is some loss of money infront of Izzat and blackmail? He brought that on himself and he is choosing to sacrifice those crores, the FL didn't steal it from him.

He's going about the wrong way to save that house to be honest, forcing someone not sign it and then ripping the paper infront of them and then nearly escalating it to a physical fight and the threatening them to bring them on the streets.

Why not go to the uncle or the mom who are more willing to listen than straight up forcing the one person who will never listen to sign it. (Yes it's part of his flaw and something that he'll be working on but this is to show he went about it the wrong way)

Yes he's on redemption but he will make many mistakes along the way and he needs to be aware of it.

Compared to the trauma Pallavi went through his hands, Raghav is really not that traumatised.

I'm not a fan of the physical abuse but Raghav has without a doubt brought it on himself, especially the ones from Pallavi. The ones from her in-laws, not so much though.

exactly ! Bang on. 👏

Originally posted by: Muktchand

I think you are highly mistaken this forum never known as blind pankhi of any character be Raghav or Pallavi

One two members might show their displeasure but what I see from two three months most sane fandom of IF

No fan war no off-screen gossip nothing

Most rational fans of characters and show. I never saw any biased views

I haven't seen any fan wars or off screen gossip and I have never been happier. I hope it always stays like that. That kind of stuff leads to a toxic forum

This post is not to start one either. As I said, I like both characters very much.

It's just recently (especially this week) that I'm seeing a misogynistic dislike for Pallavi most especially after yesterday and todays episode and I'm baffled as to why Pallavi shouldn't be allowed to retribute one for his act without people wishing ill on her.

Also I keep seeing posts like 'my baby Raghav doesn't deserve this' when he actually does. Raghav is not a small innocent baby.