The misogynistic dislike for Pallavi - Page 8

This thread has a lot of long posts so whatever I'm about to say might already have been said before 🤪 But I'm still gonna add my two cents here 😆

I love Raghav, have loved him for a long time. No matter what he does, I find it hard to not root for him. I have absolutely no qualms accepting it. But this love is not because he's hot (though he's definitely hot 😆), it's bcz of the way his character has been written. My heart breaks when he cries, and laughs when he does his nautanki 😆 His ruthlessness, selfishness, shrewdness — I love it all 😈❤️ He's a don, and I like that they never let us forget it 😈

But for all my Raghav love, I have always been a staunch supporter of Pallavi. Every time she has taken a stand against him, I have cheered for her. Initially I loved the point you were making in your post — about her having every right to take revenge, to not forgive him no matter what he does. I agree with this 100%.. she does have that right, and this chilli powder prank was nothing compared to what Raghav has made her go through. In fact, I was expecting a much stronger reaction from her, considering this was about her beloved baba and Dfam This felt like a pretty mild retaliation 😆 She could do so much worse and I'd still support her.. cheer her on, even. But you know what? I'd also be one of those people saying 'don't hurt my baby anymore 😭' for Raghav 😆

Are you getting the drift here? 😆 I love both of them 😳 I love Raghav, but I don't expect Pallavi to love him (yet). I'm rooting for him all the way, but I'm also looking forward to seeing him properly suffer. I love Raghvi as a whole, and I wanna see them make this journey together

I do agree with you that Raghav has a much stronger fanbase than Pallavi has, but rather than his hotness, it's because his character is better written. He has all these different shades, but they all merge into one person, and very believably so. But with Pallavi... it gets difficult to equate her behaviour with the Deshmukhs vs her behaviour with Raghav — she feels like two very different people, with two very different sets of principles. It gets confusing and annoying. In fact, a part of me even feels that her post-marriage version is inconsistent with her pre-marriage version... she's melting too easily, too fast. They really need to up her character arc

As for this forum... I'm sorry you felt that way about us, because this is one of the most positive, intelligent, fun-loving forums I've ever been a part of. I can definitely imagine some of them getting upset with Pallavi for doing this to Raghav, but I'm sure these were the same people bashing Raghav when he was humiliating her. We had posts after posts where people were crying on Pallavi's behalf. It's not about hating on a character, it's about having too much love for the other one 🤪 We just don't like seeing either of them hurt 😛 I was one of the people desperate to see a redemption track for Raghav where he suffers, and I'm glad we're getting that 😈 But, I also know that I'm gonna suffer right along with him 😭🥺 Complicated feelings, you see 😆 This forum is a wonderful place... come mingle with us, I'm sure you'll fall in love 😳🤗