Do I need to be married to understand this? - Page 2

Originally posted by: 4ever4love

First let me comment on the Sultan & Ria comparing. No, for me, there is no comparison. Yes RK was jealous - let's say - insecure. But Madhu never purposely spent time with Sultan. Yes Madhu used Sultan - with Sultan's knowledge - to hurt RK but when Madhu forgave RK she never purposely threw Sultan in RK's face. RK on the other hand has willingly started spending time with Ria knowing how Madhu will feel and he does not care.

I digressed too much from the original post! But SRK and Gauri? Gauri would put her foot down and SRK would do what his wife wanted.

RK & Madhu? I honestly believe Madhu is the only one fighting for her marriage right now. Madhu honestly has to be Superwoman.

Thank you for the bold part !👍🏼

secondly exactly even I feel so RK is not interested in Madhu , okay lets just say even if posing he is hurting her sentiments for ria whom he met what few days back ! he is ignoring his marriage, his wife for a random girl ! who is now his "best friend" so when it comes to enduring I guess Madhu will enter Guinness Book Of World Record . I don't see & I mean literally seeing NO REASON for Madhu to stay back & fight . A clap takes 2 hands , here only Madhu is willing to them a chance when RK is drowning in his insecurity.

Cannot believe cvs are showing such crap !

Originally posted by: sree.gattu

to maintain marriage ,one has to bend and sometimes self respect also.here ,RK said don't want to hear any bad word about ria.but if you clearly heard his talks with Madhu at this stage where Madhu failed to understand him , so he said at this stage of his life he needs a friend not a wife . he also that he doesn't mean ria is more important than his wife or wife's birthday.he wants a person to listen his frustration, ego, pain whatever he wants to say but not interrupt him or ask thousands of questions expecting reply which Madhu is doing.

after talli night eventhough RK stops meeting ria ,ria comes to RK to create misunderstandings between RK and Madhu where Madhu easily falls in the trap. so here again raises problems between Rishbala as Madhu told RK they can solve problems by sharing their pains.when suspect increase RK thinks because of insecurities and jealous feeling [as RK is jealous and insecured with Madhu's friendship with sultan, samething happening now ,just vice versa] and definitely fights happen more between Rishbala end up RK revealing dark secrets with ria. later Madhu accepts ria as RK's friend as RK accepted sultan as Madhu's friend.now next ria's chaal should made maat by RK or Madhu.

Madhu leaving RK is not solution but fight with that ria is most imp now bali ka bakra hai Superstar RK where in tue sense he didn't identified ria as a person,he failed .

Originally posted by: Poluk

4ever4love and Sharoan thanks for liking my reply.😳

some time indian women have to to keep her selfrespect aside to bring your hubby back from wrong path.madhu is doing exactly like that to support her hubby n to stopping him to spoiling his life in the name of ego.i dont know what todays generation think about marrige but some times indian women have to sacrifice many thing for her love her family for her children, for her hubby.but but when time comes she became durga , maa shakti to save n protect her love n hubby .in this serial cv is showing too much negativity n humilation done by hubby to his wife.so relax if you want to marry go ahead n enjoy married n family life . in hubby wife relation there so many things like love, anger, fight, care, pampering ,possesiveness , protectiveness , teasing,roothna manana worring for each other n so many things . N IN SERIAL ALSO MADHU IS DOING RIGHT . ACC TO INDIAN WOMEN NOTHING MATTERS IN FRONT OF HER HUBBY EVEN HER SELF RESPECT.SHE FIGHT TO HER LAST BREATH TO SAVE HER HUBBY N NOT ALLOWING HIM TO GO ON WRONG PATH.ACC TO ME MADHU IS DOING THE SAME. N SHE WILL FIGHT TILL END BUT NEVER ALLOW HER HUBBY TO FELL DOWN. SHE ALWAYS STANDING BISIDES HIS RK TO SUPPORT HIM.

Originally posted by: Poluk

The first problem is it is never easy to break a relationship. Its very painful. If you give up easily then throughout your life you will be hounded with the question: did I do everything I could to save it?

In fact most bad relationships continue because of the fear of this pain- the pain of loss. It is very easy to say dump him/her but very tough to do if you actually love. While their is life there is hope.

And then a lonely life is not a very attractive option - a life without the person you love. That is why it is said that love can be your greatest strength as well as greatest weakness.

And in this case Madhu can see that RK still loves her. He is acting like a jerk because he is frustrated. He has literally become unhinged. What he needs is a lot of support and care like a small child. And MB did err in the intial stages by not understanding her husband and letting the problem aggravate. She now needs to pull up her socks and get him out of hole he is digging himself in.

This is also part of love - don't let the person you love harm even himself/herself - even at the cost of your self respect at times.

Ria is just a shoulder for him to cry on, an excuse to massage his ego. She is his pally in his path of deliberate self destruction. MB is trying to stop him from going down that path.

He was dancing with Ria in that cheap bar but could not tolerate the idea of MB being there for even a second. Think Why? Even MB knew this that is why sat in front of him in the bar.

This is his real sub conscious opinion of Ria. His shouting my freind is just an excuse to hide his follies - like a typical male

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Originally posted by: mannu_minnie

i dont know why r u talking about reality and logic especially when it comes to tv serial.

my one friend is facing divorce because she stopped being bullied by her husband and MIL within 2 years of their marriage.

but she is not that sad or crying. she tried her best to save the marriage but to a point. now she is feeling little better.

seeing this in real life i dont take the crap of being in love so much tat u loose ur self respect and let ur partner do anything.

i m hating ST showing the weakest woman.

Originally posted by: Manonids

Its easy to walk off in such state of marriage but difficult to stick on whn ur partner is not making it easy for u at any stage. This is precisely what Madhu is doing. She is fighting for something she values, so i m nt shocked at her consistent efforts evn if she fails to achieve anything. Its her battle bcos Rk is on some other way.

Talking abt married people opinion, in the forum, well u might see some married ones strongly believing that Madhu deserved every single moment of pain and ignorance from RK after she became reason of his insecurity. 😆 sorry state of the show and this forum too.

Originally posted by: BloodDiamond

Thank you for the bold part !👍🏼

secondly exactly even I feel so RK is not interested in Madhu , okay lets just say even if posing he is hurting her sentiments for ria whom he met what few days back ! he is ignoring his marriage, his wife for a random girl ! who is now his "best friend" so when it comes to enduring I guess Madhu will enter Guinness Book Of World Record . I don't see & I mean literally seeing NO REASON for Madhu to stay back & fight . A clap takes 2 hands , here only Madhu is willing to them a chance when RK is drowning in his insecurity.

Cannot believe cvs are showing such crap !

Originally posted by: mannu_minnie

i dont know why r u talking about reality and logic especially when it comes to tv serial.

my one friend is facing divorce because she stopped being bullied by her husband and MIL within 2 years of their marriage.

but she is not that sad or crying. she tried her best to save the marriage but to a point. now she is feeling little better.

seeing this in real life i dont take the crap of being in love so much tat u loose ur self respect and let ur partner do anything.

i m hating ST showing the weakest woman.

Originally posted by: meenji22

some time indian women have to to keep her selfrespect aside to bring your hubby back from wrong path.madhu is doing exactly like that to support her hubby n to stopping him to spoiling his life in the name of ego.i dont know what todays generation think about marrige but some times indian women have to sacrifice many thing for her love her family for her children, for her hubby.but but when time comes she became durga , maa shakti to save n protect her love n hubby .in this serial cv is showing too much negativity n humilation done by hubby to his wife.so relax if you want to marry go ahead n enjoy married n family life . in hubby wife relation there so many things like love, anger, fight, care, pampering ,possesiveness , protectiveness , teasing,roothna manana worring for each other n so many things . N IN SERIAL ALSO MADHU IS DOING RIGHT . ACC TO INDIAN WOMEN NOTHING MATTERS IN FRONT OF HER HUBBY EVEN HER SELF RESPECT.SHE FIGHT TO HER LAST BREATH TO SAVE HER HUBBY N NOT ALLOWING HIM TO GO ON WRONG PATH.ACC TO ME MADHU IS DOING THE SAME. N SHE WILL FIGHT TILL END BUT NEVER ALLOW HER HUBBY TO FELL DOWN. SHE ALWAYS STANDING BISIDES HIS RK TO SUPPORT HIM.