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Posted: 11 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: _charu_

[Quote]Who are you to tell me or anybody on this forum to refrain from commenting? It's a public forum on the internet open to anybody, Get that straight first of all, and never say that to me or anybody else on this forum. If you liked or disliked my previous reply is not the issue you highlighted part of my reply and you disagreed with what I said as if my whole post did not mention and conclude that if calm the right words come to mind to say to each other in a relationship and couples need not resort to physical or verbal abuse, that is what I said.

@nafisa, she can tell you this bec it was you who called our comments ludicrous . We were only commenting on rk and madhu , not on anybody else's pov and when someone else cross their limit, we have to tell them in a calm way to follow a better method of commenting by saying that you didnt like or disagreed .before correcting Shruti, read your own posts..
nyhow, I dun want this thread to be spoilt bec it was a,nice topic for discussion..thanks tm.

I disagree that she has the right to tell me not to comment and also disagree with you that it's physical abuse on RK by Madhu, and I also disagree with her that a fat woman slapping a small man...and also I disagree with you telling me that I crossed a limit also. Whenever I say anything that is different from your opinion just replace the word with I disagree. finished and no need for all of this in the future.

Talk of the slapping is over.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: .Nafisa.

@nafisa, she can tell you this bec it was you who called our comments ludicrous . We were only commenting on rk and madhu , not on anybody else's pov and when someone else cross their limit, we have to tell them in a calm way to follow a better method of commenting by saying that you didnt like or disagreed .before correcting Shruti, read your own posts..
nyhow, I dun want this thread to be spoilt bec it was a,nice topic for discussion..thanks tm.


I disagree that she has the right to tell me not to comment and also disagree with you that it's physical abuse on RK by Madhu, and I also disagree with her that a fat woman slapping a small man...and also I disagree with you telling me that I crossed a limit also. Whenever I say anything that is different from your opinion just replace the word with I disagree. finished and no need for all of this in the future.

Talk of the slapping is over.

But Nafisa, I had only quoted you when I made that comment. Remember you said once (as Nafs Sweetheart) when I had put in a reply on one of your posts ,that you would not reply to my argument as I had not pressed the like button for your post. During the 'Sultan' era remember?

How was I to know that you have changed your view point since then? That is why yesterday I simply said that you can continue your old policy , I wouldn't mind.

@4ever4love - This was my last reply on this topic. Shall not reply again whatever provocation may be given. Yours is a beautiful post and I shall not spoil it further.

Just wanted to make a point which I have. Sorry again.😊


Edited by Poluk - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: Poluk


I disagree that she has the right to tell me not to comment and also disagree with you that it's physical abuse on RK by Madhu, and I also disagree with her that a fat woman slapping a small man...and also I disagree with you telling me that I crossed a limit also. Whenever I say anything that is different from your opinion just replace the word with I disagree. finished and no need for all of this in the future.

Talk of the slapping is over.


But Nafisa, I had only quoted you when I made that comment. Remember you said once (as Nafs Sweetheart) when I had put in a reply on one of your posts ,that you would not reply to my argument as I had not pressed the like button for your post. During the 'Sultan' era remember?

How was I to know that you have changed your view point since then? That is why yesterday I simply said that you can continue your old policy , I wouldn't mind.

@4ever4love - This was my last reply on this topic. Shall not reply again whatever provocation may be given. Yours is a beautiful post and I shall not spoil it further.

Just wanted to make a point which I have. Sorry again.😊



Your replies when you quote me are absurd, "are you a hindu what do you know about Ganpati bappa" "fat woman hitting a weak man is that physical abuse" "Sultan is touching Madhu with a view to molest her" so I know you are trying to get my attention to be read by me, so now and again I throw you a bone. Can't blame me for being charitable, it's Christmas after all.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Nafisa.

@nafisa, she can tell you this bec it was you who called our comments ludicrous . We were only commenting on rk and madhu , not on anybody else's pov and when someone else cross their limit, we have to tell them in a calm way to follow a better method of commenting by saying that you didnt like or disagreed .before correcting Shruti, read your own posts..
nyhow, I dun want this thread to be spoilt bec it was a,nice topic for discussion..thanks tm.


I disagree that she has the right to tell me not to comment and also disagree with you that it's physical abuse on RK by Madhu, and I also disagree with her that a fat woman slapping a small man...and also I disagree with you telling me that I crossed a limit also. Whenever I say anything that is different from your opinion just replace the word with I disagree. Nevefinished and no need for all of this in the future.

Talk of the slapping is over.
using the word ludicrous for anybody's comment is wrong.
Shruti never asked anyone to stop commenting but use better words if you disagree..its plain simple English..there is no room for misinterpretation
I never asked your opinion on the slaps, I asked the tm. Since you called my comment ludicrous , I had to reply otherwise i'm not interested in arguing.
you disagree on something is entirely your opinion. However, the comments and replies are there for everyone to read, everyone is their best judge. I'm not here to prove a point.
@4everlove , i'm sorry, this will be my last post in this topic, apologies for interruption..
Edited by _charu_ - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_


I disagree that she has the right to tell me not to comment and also disagree with you that it's physical abuse on RK by Madhu, and I also disagree with her that a fat woman slapping a small man...and also I disagree with you telling me that I crossed a limit also. Whenever I say anything that is different from your opinion just replace the word with I disagree. Nevefinished and no need for all of this in the future.

Talk of the slapping is over.

using the word ludicrous for anybody's comment is wrong.
Shruti never asked anyone to stop commenting but use better words if you disagree..its plain simple English..there is no room for misinterpretation
I never asked your opinion on the slaps, I asked the tm. Since you called my comment ludicrous , I had to reply otherwise i'm not interested in arguing.
you disagree on something is entirely your opinion. However, the comments and replies are there for everyone to read, everyone is their best judge. I'm not here to prove a point.
@4everlove , i'm sorry, this will be my last post in this topic, apologies for interruption..

When I posted first in this thread I was talking to the TM, when I agreed that the limit for me too is physical abuse (RK hitting Madhu) and adultery. I did explain why I thought it was ludicrous that comparison is made when Madhu slapped RK as I explained that his a man if he actually hits her it would leave bruises and has a knock on effect later on how she views herself, loss of confidence, feeling intimidated etc.So if you go back in this thread you will see I replied to the TM. If what I said made you feel that your opinion was being belittled and now you are protesting about it, it's a problem of yours don't make it everyone elses problem because you are the one that read between the lines of someones else's views and make it fit with what you say. Who I'm I to stop you, how will I stop you, I can't so I let you carry on in the same vein, It's not my fault I wash my hands of the whole matter.

With regards to Poluk she quoted me, and I've dealt with her, attention seeking for a while now quoting me again and again, when I reply she is telling me why did you comment (page 7 her PS...I've made it bold), so I told her why I commented.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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very good post n constructive comments
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Posted: 11 years ago
#67
Well wen we get married to someone we accept that person wid all his flaws
N moreover wen u r in so much love wid ur partner nothing matters to u other than being wid him
Rk wants madhu to be wid only him n him he doesn't want that her fans or stardom shd come between their private life n this is reason which madhu fails to understand or probably she is ignoring it so its just rk feels wen madhu has now got whole world wid her he is no more important in her life n so he is being wid ria bcoz he is feeling she is right now only person who will hear him widout any questions n widout any demands he just wanted to say his heart n mind to someone he is taking ria as bittuji only before he used to say everything to bittuji but now he is also not able to understand his chief thats y he thinks ria is only person wid whom he cld share his frustation at this point of time he dnt want to insult madhu but as she is not able to understand his situation his frustation is coming out in harsh words
N for sulbala frndship then madhu shared her whole life wid sultan whereas rk haven't shared his whole life wid ria he just spoke abt his insecurities n its quite natural for males to get frustrated on these things
Rk has managed to save his marriage wen he broked it but now he is feeling that its all over that is y he has just given up on it
P.s i hope i haven't hurt someone n plss bashers stay away frm my comment
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post completely agree, all people who compare SulBala and Rk Ria friendship, doesnt remember that both situation were different, That time Rk broke the marriage so he had no right to interfere in her life, that time she was free to have friendship with who ever she wanted..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Nafisa.


Your replies when you quote me are absurd, "are you a hindu what do you know about Ganpati bappa" "fat woman hitting a weak man is that physical abuse" "Sultan is touching Madhu with a view to molest her" so I know you are trying to get my attention to be read by me, so now and again I throw you a bone. Can't blame me for being charitable, it's Christmas after all.



@ lines in bold. 🤣

I suggest you try to understand the difference between someone finding your ideas and responses funny and therefore always enjoying himself/herself at your expense and someone wanting your attention (as if he/she idolises you - But what for?🤣)

I had no intention of replying again here but your joke made my day. It was too funny to be ignored.🤣

Edited by Poluk - 11 years ago

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