*Season 2, Week 29* Analysis Thread - Page 6

This is such an imteresrting topic that I couldn't help but jump in

Originally posted by: Narshi21

I am not judging your intelligence, I just told that , I don't agree with your reasons since we both see from different light.

I am also being respectful and have just expressed my opinion.

Mods,

If me calling reel characters immature is out of line,I am ready to edit my post.

You called me immature by saying I am acting like Dev and Sonakshi and then saying that they are immature. You also mentioned that the reasons I am giving is "irrelevant". What did I say that you are judging me that way. On what basis did you judge what i said as relevant or irrelevant. If what I said is irrelevant then from my pov what you say is irrelevant. Judge others as you want to be judged. Give respect to take respect. One needs to first look at themselves before labeling other people as immature or mature or even intelligent or not intelligent.

Originally posted by: Shaavi

I guess we watched/watch different series. In the episode where Dev doesn't get Vickky out of jail and RR comes and makes a scene, Sonakshi advises him to listen to his mother and says that she was right. When he tells her who asked her for her opinion, she retorts saying that he wouldn't dare to fire her.

When she muted his phone because he was having fun with Nikki, I didn't hear anyone asking her to do so. Yet she didn't feel that what she did was wrong or that Dev lost chores of Rs worth of business because of her. Dev didn't point to his shopping bags and talk about the clothes in the car when he takes her home. She herself finds the shopping bags and laughs at him when he tells that they have shirts in them shopped for him by his secretary.

Even during their courtship period makes fun of him saying that he doesn't know anything about shampoos because Tina was shopping for him.

These are some of the examples where she gave unsolicited advise when she had no right to do so. It is very impolite to invite the guy whom you are supposed to marry to your workplace which is somebody's home without informing them first. Yet Sonakshi did that too. Even during Neha Ranveer time, when he apologizes to Ranveer for something Neha says, she comments that he did a noble thing. And no one asked her opinion at that time too. When she sees sleeping pills on his night stand questions him and tries to throw them away saying it is bad for health. That time too it was not like Dev asked her if sleeping pills was good for his health or not.

He hires her to be his mother's nutritionist, yet she decides to become the nutritionist for the family and control not just Ishwari's, but Neha, Riya and Nikki's diet too finally including Dev too in that list. No one had asked her to do that.

As DD himself had said she is as flawed as Dev is and there is very little difference between her and Dev in terms of interfering in each other's personal life.

Originally posted by: supercool3

I'm usually not a fan of watching my favourites fight, but I got to admit I'm hooked to watching these two fight. 😆 I'm not even going to bother taking sides because honestly, these two just fight for the sake of fighting 😆 That being said, I'm definitely excited to see how they reach a middle ground on this issue or establish some sort of equilibrium here.

It's quite obvious that the Soha-Golu track running on a parallel is going to be at crossroads with what's happening between Dev and Sonakshi now. On top of that, Ishwari's sort of being a witness in both issues. So it will be interesting to see what the writers have in mind with everything building up all at once. It actually makes the episode quite gripping along with my usual anxiousness to see what's going to happen next. 😃

Originally posted by: asha2012[/QUOTE

Shaavi

I never said that Sona is not as flawed - they are both stubborn and pig headed

What I was trying to say is that I personally probably would freak out if my husband suddenly started behaving this obsessive, I have realised that when tempers fly it's probably better for everyone to step back s little bit and interospect quietly. In this scenario Dev should step back and think why Sona is getting so angry at his gestures and sons should get back and think as to why Dev is getting so paranoid. That would help them arrive at a middle path.

We should agree to disagree as our views don't seem to match...

Have s wonderful day ahead.

Actually there is not much difference in what we are saying. I completely agree with what you are saying here. The only difference is that Dev had 7 years to think about their marriage phase and admits to his mistakes. And what he is trying to do is correct them in his own way. Like the Kushal Roy and the Jodi.com tracks. Since she shouts on him that he broke her marriage proposal with Kushal, he decides to find the right groom. That is exactly what he is doing here. Since she doesn't tell anyone about her whereabouts, he is working around that and trying to ensure her safety and well being and what he thinks she deserves. Cause from his pov, she is priceless and nothing is good enough for her. And he wants to give her the moon. Compensate for the last 7 years. But it doesn't really work that way. I mean a person cannot eat three times the food cause he is eating only once a day is not practical.

But for that as you said. Sonakshi needs to introspect. She needs to slow down and think what is driving Dev towards what he is doing. Since that is not visible, I just highlighted that fact and made a post on that. My original post in no way talked about Dev at all. It was highlighting only one of the aspects of the episode, that's all.

Also, on another note. I watched the show from the beginning again this week.

Originally posted by: Shaavi

You called me immature by saying I am acting like Dev and Sonakshi and then saying that they are immature. You also mentioned that the reasons I am giving is "irrelevant". What did I say that you are judging me that way. On what basis did you judge what i said as relevant or irrelevant. If what I said is irrelevant then from my pov what you say is irrelevant. Judge others as you want to be judged. Give respect to take respect. One needs to first look at themselves before labeling other people as immature or mature or even intelligent or not intelligent.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

You know that dress scene... play the cute season 1 krpkab theme song in your head. And then watch it... both dev and sona will look just fine.

That eriee music is making it look like she feels suffocated

@Narshi21. Your words "Sorry I meant to write how I feel your reasons seems irrelevant to the the current behavior of Sona and Dev" is disrespectful and pointed towards me, a real person and not reel characters. And you have no right to judge my understanding by labeling this way. By doing so you are saying I am smarter than you, so you don't write anything as you don't understand anything. And that from my pov is unwarranted.

Next time please refrain from attacking me just because I wrote iabout Sonakshi and her flaws.

Originally posted by: Shaavi

Actually there is not much difference in what we are saying. I completely agree with what you are saying here. The only difference is that Dev had 7 years to think about their marriage phase and admits to his mistakes. And what he is trying to do is correct them in his own way. Like the Kushal Roy and the Jodi.com tracks. Since she shouts on him that he broke her marriage proposal with Kushal, he decides to find the right groom. That is exactly what he is doing here. Since she doesn't tell anyone about her whereabouts, he is working around that and trying to ensure her safety and well being and what he thinks she deserves. Cause from his pov, she is priceless and nothing is good enough for her. And he wants to give her the moon. Compensate for the last 7 years. But it doesn't really work that way. I mean a person cannot eat three times the food cause he is eating only once a day is not practical.

But for that as you said. Sonakshi needs to introspect. She needs to slow down and think what is driving Dev towards what he is doing. Since that is not visible, I just highlighted that fact and made a post on that. My original post in no way talked about Dev at all. It was highlighting only one of the aspects of the episode, that's all.