*Season 2, Week 13* Analysis Thread - Page 3

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

@ Grace

Bold & Italic - Latha, 100% agree to this statement. I also didn't know anything about cooking, when I got married. And my hubby is a great foody while my MIL's happiness lied in making her sons have food to the fullest. So, just imagine my plight. Slowly I learned everything. But still there are some dishes which I can't match the taste of the same when prepared by my MIL. And so, whenever she is with us, I make sure that she prepares those dishes. It's really a heartwarming sight to see her happiness when her son praises her for it's taste. And the other way round also happens, when she says that she wants some dishes prepared by me only, as it is more tastier. One more thing I would like to share is that, she was a person who never allowed her sons in the kitchen. So, for the first time when she saw my hubby cooking it was like a nightmare to her. (I hadn't forced him to learn cooking; situations like when I had to take bed rest & all, made him enter the kitchen. And once he learned it, being a foody, he became more interested in cooking. Now he is a good cook than me...😛). It took time for her to accept it. Meanwhile, whenever she used to complain of seeing him in the kitchen, my hubby would say, there is no work which is to be segregated that this is men's work or women's work;If you are interested in doing it, you should do. Then dheere dheere she got used to it. Now, if she needs help in cutting onions, she instantly asks my hubby. The only job she still hesitates to see is men washing the dishes. She still can't digest it...😆

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Hi Grace. It is Lakshmi not Latha. Nice to know your experiences. The show really takes us back memory lane and relive our past . It has this connectivity aspect. So we all are here comparing and analysing our own experiences with Sonakshi 's or Dev's situations. Yes. It takes time for men to change and make themselves adaptable to a different scenario in life. Till then they will get used to their mother's tastes and habits but after marriage they have to cope up with wife's preferences. As I said food plays an important part in the life of newly weds.

A little more patience and adaptability will work wonders for both. Hope Sonakshi and Dev could restart their life with new awareness and mutual understanding.

Originally posted by: gt2918

@Itelidevara

Hi Lakshmi.

I'm sorry I couldn't reply to your post in the last thread.Regarding that post pertaining to the 4.5 cr cheque,there is still a slight element of doubt.Vicky/GKB could have encashed that cheque.

You and I firmly believe that Dev won't leave the Boses in trouble but different people can have different perspectives and some might disagree with us.Therefore I didn't post that comment in the main forum.

I hope you understand.I'm pretty sure we'll get confirmation of what happened that night.Till then...let's just wait and watch.

Have a good day.

-Lavanya

Originally posted by: gt2918

Well written.👍🏼

I can empathise with Dev's condition and don't blame him totally because it is really difficult for a man who had been literally programmed to behave like an emotional robot for 28 years to change in the space of 4 months.It just dosen't happen.

However Sona's threshold had been tipped...the hurt she suffered particularly during the infertility track was very difficult to watch.

Originally posted by: jasw

Thanks Lavanya. I too empathised with Dev's condition in the beginning. Actually I started watching the show for Shaheer/Dev. He had a tough role to play. Balancing between wife and mother has never been easy for any man! 😆 I had a hope that when situation gets serious Dev will come into his elements. So had lot of hope during the infertility track. Subsequent episodes crushed his image of gentle, caring, loving, respecting elders.. the qualities for which I fell for. The initial episodes of season2 again raised hope before getting quelled. Now we have an arrogant, tashany, sarcastic, blaming Dev but with the same equation with his mom!

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

I agree with all the other adjectives you've used, but from where I am standing, Dev's equation with his mother is very different. It's not a dramatic change, and I don't think it ever will be with Dev, but it's like their relationship is a box and the bottom has quietly fallen out and rendered it empty of real content. The four walls are still there, represented by Dev's obligation, but they don't contain anything. Due to it's subtle nature, the change in their relationship is only visible to people inside those four walls; Dev and Ishwari themselves. Dev is interested in keeping it that way.