*Season 2, Week 13* Analysis Thread - Page 2

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

Congrats on the new thread! 😳

Just caught up on last week's episodes. Felt like Dev really got to know the Bose family, and vice versa, without the pressures of keeping appearances to either sides.

Dev is trying really hard to fit in, actually took up the role of Son-in-Law, and did jobs around the house just any normal one would. Bijoy hated it, didn't feel like putting a smiling mask on for Soha's sake.

Asha lost her temper and locked the Big Bickering Boys in a room to sort their nonsense out. It was harsh, but it was necessary for them to get their issues sorted, because it was spoiling Sourabh's wedding prep. I like how Asha tells Sonakshi to keep her nose out and toe the line. It is hard to mediate peace between these two.

I wonder who will be the mediator is Dixit House? Elena ? (*snorts*) Baldev ? (probably)

Here, Dev has one and a half persons to deal with who hate him. Bijoy and Sona. But Sonakshi will have Ishwari, ExGKB and Vicky, all out to be rid of her, and the last two have no inclinations to be nice for the sake of Suhana.

Dev speaks like he will have his rules and his way in his house. But when did he ever have his way in his house? Everything was by Ishwari's rules. Will he be able to disagree with his mother when it comes to what Suhana needs or wants?

Sonakshi has least to worry going there. She knows each member in that house for what they are and what motivates them (Perhaps Dev does now too, I want to see that shrewd Dev again!!) .

They will see a Sonakshi who doesn't give a sh*t who they are or what they want, or what respect should be afforded to them. The way I see it, she has issues with Dev , because he was her husband. But she doesn't have any such hungovers about Dev's family.

ExGKB and Vicky are planning to kick Suhana and her mother out, and this will open Dev and Ishwari's eyes to what kind of parasites they really are. I am seriously looking forward to the tables turning next week.

Dev isn't that bad a guy, honestly. But he is a little blind when it comes to his family. Most men are like that with their family, whatever their flaws they don't like it being discussed. But he must know women are the same, even if they are quiet about it.

I just hope Sonakshi keeps her dignity, and doesn't become oversensitive in asserting her rights over Suhana when she is there in Dixit house. I'd hate to see her become traumatized again over there. If I were her, I'd hate to be living in that house again, where i was made to feel so awful. But ExGKB cannot hurt her now, I hope she keeps her shields up and strong.

I liked Bijoy and Dev's drunken conversation. Bijoy got to express his disappointment in seeing his daughter's sadness and failed marriage. Dev too, with newfound fatherly feelings could empathize with his sentiment. That moment when they both cursed the scotch bottle for making them feel something they didn't want, was funny and sad at the same time.

But Bijoy falling ill, and Sona turning on Dev, is a mirror of their first breakup, when Dev blamed Sonakshi for Ishwari's overdose of sleeping tabs.

all in all, I'm looking forward to this week's episodes..

Originally posted by: jasw

@Shaavi, the analogy of Suhana getting hurt by furniture while playing blindfold can't be applied to Sona. Yes, it is true Sona did not understand the true nature of Ishwari, so she was indeed blindfolded, but Ishwari and GKB are not harmless furniture. They are like sword yielding guards who are protecting their owner(Dev) and his wealth. Sona is blindfold, so she is not able to save herself from the lashes (verbal n mental) of the guards and receiving all the injuries. Sona was strong to start with so she withstood the lashes but even the strongest has a threshold level. The owner who could have helped her had a blindfold too! Gradually she became weak and on one day when she was brutally hurt, her blindfold got removed. She understood the true nature of the guards. She rushed to owner and tried to remove his blindfold but the owner refused and told her to get out. That day the girl in love, the loving wife who was too weak to support herself accepted defeat and went out of the Dixit home.

Regarding the self inflicted hurt, I think most of the hurt was because of Dev's action or rather non action.

As I perceive Sonakshi, she has always been strong, straight forward, hard working, sincere, honest and truthful person. Yes, she wanted a fairy tale romance with his Prince Charming. Ideal life with everything rosy and full of love. But she was not a mere day dreamer, she wanted to work towards this perfect wedding bliss. The only problem was she was not geared up for the extent of negativity in Dixit house. She was never geared up for all the lies, deceit, manipulation, emotional blackmail and insecurities.

Like a simple girl in love she thought she will have a happy married life with her hubby and his family. She had good intentions for everyone at her in-laws and always wanted to extend a helping hand. She had her own dreams of visiting places ex Paris. Sadly Honeymoon plan was brutally crushed by her hubby on instigation from MIL without even discussing with her. She longed to go out for romantic date/dinner out but her hubby did not plan any. In fact they had a farmhouse which was never put to any constructive use! She herself had to plan one with Riya's help! She understood that her hubby was a total family man, so she started taking interest in her hubby's family and office matters, Neha and Vicky are such examples. Her in-laws took it as interference and her hubby gave her blunt answer that she will not understand and also showed her who is the ultimate decision maker in the family. I won't even get into other sacrifices like changing food habits etc. She had to forego non-veg in Dixit house. She learned cooking. Her trust on her husband was shaken in infertility track. Her own condition was withheld from her. It is traumatic to learn, for any girl that there is infertility issue but here she could not even afford to become sad for herself. When she expected the maximum support from her husband she got none. There was no compassion for her from her in-laws side on the contrary she was forced to agree for the treatment. She was sent to a resort where every Tom Dick and Harry knew about her condition and were advising her. One can just imagine what kind of hurt and embarrassment the girl went through. From a strong girl she was reduced to a nerve wreck. Her ordeal was not over yet as now her parents went thru the lashing(verbal, mental and physical) which broke her back. She made a last ditch effort but that aggravated the situation and final get out from the man for whom she was bearing all the pain, all the hurt all the insult.

Originally posted by: IFfreak

Ani.. so nice to see you.

But Asha has really really low tolerance level and takes too harsh steps .

I'd blame her and Sona for Bijoy's condition. Dev is not the SIL anymore. So what he did not do as actual SIL, he should not try doing as ex -SIL. Just keep to your daughter.

liked Bijoy-Dev conversation. But honestly I like Bijoy so much that anyone hurting him makes for a very disturbed viewing for me.

Asha should not have locked them up without food and water for the evening and all through the night. Maybe she forgot that Bijoy takes some BP medications at night? Does BP get aggravated with no food and high alchohol intake?

But to lock up a 60+ man in such hostile condition is a grave mistake on Asha's part. Why does Asha not show a little bit of tolerance that she continues to preach to Sona about??

I agree it is not Dev's fault at all. If he was really empathetic and caring he'd make sure Bijoy does not consume so much alchohol on empty stomach. But Dev is no body to Bijoy . so why would he advice Bijoy or try to restrict his alchohol intake.

High BP is a result of all that tension, alchohol intake, that silly jumping/dancing and the tension of Dev's presence for the past few days

Honestly, Bijoy does enjoy his occasional drinks and I assume he hides them and drinks them without his family's knowledge😆 but in moderation. Don't we all know at least one cranky diabetic senior in our family who loves sweets and would indulge when no one's watching😉

Originally posted by: IFfreak

@gt2918- But Sona is resourceful and could save herself on time.

and honestly being a younger healthier person Dev was not affected as bad, but we can see what happened to Bijoy.

Bijoy's indulgence with alchohol(that way he hid the bottle in a cupboard-away from his family's prying eyes) reminded me of my mom. She has a high BP condition and stores salty snacks in her jewellery box(away from my prying eyes😡)

I wouldn't even dream of locking her up with my neighbourhood aunt(with whom she can't get along coz that lady steals her newspaper😆 before she can read)

Asha is mild-mannered, but she really is not anymore tolerant than Sona when surrounded with hostility of any form.

Originally posted by: IFfreak

@gt2918- But Sona is resourceful and could save herself on time.

and honestly being a younger healthier person Dev was not affected as bad, but we can see what happened to Bijoy.

Bijoy's indulgence with alchohol(that way he hid the bottle in a cupboard-away from his family's prying eyes) reminded me of my mom. She has a high BP condition and stores salty snacks in her jewellery box(away from my prying eyes😡)

I wouldn't even dream of locking her up with my neighbourhood aunt(with whom she can't get along coz that lady steals her newspaper😆 before she can read)

Asha is mild-mannered, but she really is not anymore tolerant than Sona when surrounded with hostility of any form.