Hello MT, I AM BACK!
Let me make it very clear for onece and for all that The Munna defense front doesn't support such unpardonable na mard behaviour! In Mayi's serials the trend is, 'You hurt me, I go straight in to the arms of the vamp, sleep with her and it is justified.'I so don't agree with that.Marrying sb to avenge him, marrying sb else as a means of great mahatma sacrifice, all this is sheer crap.I so don't subscribe to it and such nonsense will never be supported by our team and me.My contention has always been that amma doesn't need this crap.She deserves better.I still maintain that Amma doesn't need this.
This post is mainly directed to all my Member Friends here who are indicating that Bani's current cold attitude towards Jai will drive him straight in the arms of Pia!
The thought never even crossed me.I have too much faith in my Munna to even dream of a possibility.But I don't trust Mayi.She made Bajaj sleep with his sister-in-law when he was in a drunken state and was under the impression that Prerna was in his arms.But KS has remained sparkingly different therefore I dare hope and believe that my Munna's izzat will remain barkarar.I think my Munna's safe because Pia has an obstinate sautan: Johny Walker! In fact I am expecting some lovely JB moments that will only bring them closer and who knows this pain and suffering might actually get the legendary idiot of KS to say the three magical words to his wife!
Excuse me?
Excused MT! I excuse you for thinking such crap about my Munna.We all have our share of follirs after all! I forgive you unconditionally my love! Zara mera phone ka intezar tho karna!
If this is the case, then so be it. Jai deserves someone as shallow, as empty and as selfish as Pia! Remember the countless instances where Jai was not only cold but downright cruel towards Bani, did that drive her into the arms of Pushkar or to Mohan Khandelwal. Forget that, did she even go crying to her sister's complaining about Jai and his attitude towards her?
You are confusing two different issues and persons here. The munna then and the Munna now are vastly different.Galthi sabse hoti hai.But my Munna has redeemed himself and he has more than proved his fidelity several times.You keep pointing out a person's mistakes time and again and keep holding it against him is so unfair.Give the guy a chance. I am sure he would still not deserve the shallow empty and selfish Pia.Please don't make a comparison between the two and insult his love, our love for JB and Nani's too. Ooops I meant Bani! And Nani like every self respecting Mayi heroine is a Sati Savitri and Mother Teresa rolled in to one! Naturally she will remain as pure as an untouched white Lily and to prove just how mahan she is and what an oppressor, what a dirty worm her lover is, he will be made to do a 360 degree turn around and do the unthinkable by sleeping with the vamp and mouthing nonsense!
Is this some sort of a notion we have here, that a woman has to put up with all her husband's idiosyncracies and bear and wait like a good wife till he comes round the corner, but if a woman decides to stay away from her husband, for reasons of her own, he has all the rights to go astray from the relationship?
Says who dear MT? Heard of the legend of Nazhan and Damyanti? The lady carried her sick husband in a basket to his mistress's house because satisfying your 'Pati Parmeshwar' is supposed to be a wife's foremost duty! I would have rather strangled that waste! Pati Parmeshwar my foot! I believe that a woman must stand up to her rights and right from the beginning of their relationship make it clear what she is about.Here Bani silently endured Munna's atrocities because she thought it was a way of making up for Pia's unpardonable mistake of breaking a man irreparably. It was not subservience but was a proof of her strength of character.Even when she endured all his torture; she never compromised on her dignity and principles. She genuinely felt sorry for her pati and wanted to ease him of his heart break.That was her decision and she stuck to it.And I admire her for it though there were many times I wished she would open her mouth and give it back to him. And no way is an extramarital affair can ever be justified.Maybe I am old fashioned but EM is a strict no no. If you are estranged from your partner and you think you want to get rid of your loneliness by sleeping with sb else, that's your call. But it cannot be justified even if the reason why your partnet left you is not justified.In this case, the reason why Bani left her husband are justified though I am not at all ok with the way she left him.That's not relevant here in this discussion.But that doesn't give Munna a reason to sleep with any other woman, much less Pia.
I don't understand why should Love always be a two-sided lane? When Bani was in love with Jai, and he was the least bit bothered about it, we were still singing paens to Jai and saying that Jai has just not realized it and one day he will come around! Why is that now, when supposedly Bani has nothing to do with Jai and he has fallen in love with her, we all desperately want Bani to succumb to his wishes?
My dear heart, Bani has 'supposedly' nothing to do with Munna? What are you saying? Is that why she is enacting this current drama at the risk of losing everything?She cares like hell and her life is meaningless without Jai just like Munna's life is barren and a waste without her and she knows it, has acknowledged it too. And she is punishing herself more than anybody else by staying away from him.And all for what? Protecting him from hurt dished out to him by his own.When will she understand that she is his only 'Apna' and by protecting him, she is only destroying him?I repeat she doesn't need this.She so doesn't need this. Munna came around then now Amma will come around soon too, hopefully.She must learn to forget and forgive the past and move on. What ever decision she takes, she must stick to it. I hope she sits down and with a cool head evaluates all the pros and cons and then takes a smart decision, keeping in mind that there is a tiny life inside her and her one decision will either make or break its future.
And what's that you say MT? 'we all desperately want Bani to succumb to his wishes' Are you sure it is 'his' wishes alone?Not theirs?You know it is 'theirs'! And we want 'their' wishes to succeed because they deserve it!
When Bani chose to fall in love with Jai, she chose to do it on her own accord, without any notions of ever getting that love reciprocated...Now if Jai has decided to follow the same path, he has also done this of his own accord, with no notions of Bani ever coming back in his life!
True. But I wanted JB together then and was mad that Munna was such a thick head that the fact just refused to seep in to his moronic head that he loves his wife and that's why we started calling him as duffer, moron etc. Now again I want them together and if Amma after all this drama, still will be adamant about leading an independent life blah blah blah I am not going to spare her like I didn't spare him!
Jai has to put up with Bani, her coldness, her taciturn nature, her aloofness, her detachment, her rudeness, even her tantrums! If Jai has truly loved Bani, he has to love her under what ever circumstances...He has to love her when she is even at her worst, he has to love her even when she is apparently breaking his heart into a hundred pieces everyday.....Simply because she has also loved him despite his innumerous faults and failings...and loved without expecting a single thing in return!
He does. It's obvious he does. There were so many times when he could have got carried away by what his so called 'apne' kept brainwashing him against her.But nobody has been able to shake his faith and hopes in Bani.I am proud of my Munna and I am sure he will never go astray.
As you guys say, following Bani's coldness, if Jai does indeed go straight into Pia's arms, it would only show what a shallow and weak man he is....Somone who is not even sure of his feelings for the woman he loves, someone who cannot wait for her to come around, someone who has to salvage his ego by running to another woman!
We'll talk about that when and if it happens.Don't want to spoil my mood thinking about something that may never happen, for all you know. I think Mayi is too smart to mess with the USP of her show.
But Jai is not like that....He is too strong a character, too principled a man and too firmly entrenched in his moral values and beliefs to ever fall for the traps of a girl like Pia....and most important, he is deeply in love with Bani and hence, even if the whole family turns against her and try and emotionally manipulate him into letting go of Bani, he won't! Jai has ultimately always done what his heart has told him and here also he will follow the same path! I believe in Jai and all that he has stood for till date and if the Creatives show him going against all that he has believed in, then it would be their fault and not Jai Walia's!
You said it dearest! Nothing more to add. My Munna rocks!
As Sangeeta's Poem so beautifully quotes, "Love only comes to those who believe in it..." If Jai believes in his love, it will come back to him one day, nothing would be able to stop that! Its really upto him to keep the faith.....and he will for sure!
Well said!
Coming back to Bani, I won't blame Bani for anything, I still think that her not being able to forgive Jai and move on is trivial compared to what she had to go through when she got to know that her husband and the man she loves had actually being responsible for her Mother's death. I think its rather remarkable that despite this truth being known to her, Bani is still doing all that she can, in her own strange ways to help Jai....and acutally confessing that she loves him and will do anything and everything in her power to protect him. Just goes to show that she might be a small towner with a lower-middle class upbringing, but when it comes to character and beliefs, she is the Tops! On the same level, if not higher than Jai!
Whatever Bani is doing is of her own sound reasoning, however stupid and silly it might be and most important, she is doing this out of love and nothing else, for the man whom she cares for the most in the World......
Yeah what she's doing is absolutely the heights of moronness!
She is expecting and what she needs most in this stage is rest and a stress free life. I wish she will trust her husband's capability in handling his enemies and will spill the beans to him.This pain is unnecessary. Both deserve better.I'll say nothing here or I'll be charged with being a blind amma basher which I am not!What say you MT?You've never seen me writing even one word in favor of Amma?I am shocked! I have supported her many times especially when the whole of IF was holding it against her for she said she hated her husband!Anyway doesn't matter. No point raking that issue up here.Coming back to Amma, nevertheless, the intention behind what ever she is doing is commendable. I said this in my Obs I say this again, my Munna is in safe hands and what ever I do I will never be able to reach such a plane of supreme selflessness and nihsawarth prem.Kudos Amma!This the reason I fell in love with you. This the reason why you make me fall in love with you again and again.But I wish you and your hot husband will shed some of your moronness.That will be a great favor!
Even if Jai doesn't understand the thought behind Bani's actions, he has to understand his own emotions and trust his instict that his faith in Bani is not unfounded and he has to follow the path he has chosen, that of being faithful to the woman he loves.....and no amount of roadside distraction should lead him astray!
He has understood this and his soliloquy when he was loading himself up and going toon is enough proof. God knows he has had so many distractions but like Christian from 'Pilgrim's progress' he has been steadfastly following the path destiny put him on and which he has now embraced as his own and at the end he will receive his prize because he will have earned it! His snubbing Cobra is proof enough to show what my Munan is about!And during that time, there was nothing between him and bani that bound him to her.He could have easily gone astray.Therefore my firm belief that Munna will never make me ashamed of having loved him and having trusted him implicitly. Unless of course Mayi becomes the Rahu and Kethu in his and my Kundli!
Basically, this was a Pia battering Post, but really, sometimes I feel that we support Jai way too blindly and always are ready to disown and batter Bani, even at the slightest provocation......
I'm not too sure about that. But then Amma doesn't inspire in us the thoughts Munna does, does she?
So, I thought why not chip in today and then get brickbats on her behalf from you guys!
Masochism! Your wish has been fulfilled I hope? Nahin tho give me a buzz.
So my question for you guys is;
If Jai does end up going back to Pia (Temporarily or Permanently) Will you blame Jai for the same or will you blame Bani? I am not naming Pia here, because she will get battered any which way!
I will blame nobody but Mayi! And you can rest assured that Mayi will be taught the lesson of her life! That will also mean the end of KS for me of course. I hope we never get to see that day. Munna and Amma with anybody else means Cheerio KS!
Sangeeta, Sara, Tisha and all the Other Bani Brigadiers, need your support here, cause we are badly, badly outnumbered by the Jai Defence Front!
Doesn't look like it? 😕
Wow MT! Thanks.Really enjoyed it.I am yet to read the replies properly but from what I have gathered after skimming through them, I think we are a fair pricncipled lot. Our love is not blind. IF MP happens, then I am sure most of us will be disgusted and we will call it quits. And Mayi will so not want that. Therefore I am positive that MP will not happen, now or ever. And JB it will be, always forever!
BUT MT Mata, aapki khabhar tho leni hai. Bahut sare issues clear karni hai!!! 😉
Amma Munna-Morons forever!
-Raaga
BTW I havnt yet watched yesterday's episode.The vid refuses to get downloaded.I guess aapke fab update se hi kaam chalana padega. 😭 I'll read the update phir comment karungi but from what San Di said Munna ha smade me very proud!Aww I so love him!My Golu! 😳 😳 😳
Edited by Raaga_om - 19 years ago
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