Jai's Weakness Won't Be Bani's Fault! - Page 8

One must not feoget that at the end of th day, it is neither jai or bani who gets to make the decision - it is creatives at KS1

Hopefully, since jai walia is shown as a strong character, one hopes he does not fall for Pia's wiles -

I do feel that it is not bani's fault - just because you have a misunderstanding/fight with your spouse does not mean that you go to another person on the rebound.
jai needs to ne stronger adn trust his instincts (and no Jiggs or mausi at this moment)

But I just do not like the way bani's character is going -all graciousness and dignity gone and rudeness taking over - no excuse for that and no excuse for shutting the door - she could have talked to jai for a minute at least - technically she is in his house !!

Hey, MT well said!

Let me just jump into answering your question because I believe you have said it all in your post, so there is no need for me to bang on about the same issues because I would of said the same!

before answering your question::::: I guess all these sexiest issues regarding jai falling in love with pia will be viewed as morally ok and in comparison if bani falls for pushy this would be seen as completely ill rational. I guess all this is created by society and the way it functions; however it's completely unreasonable. And I find it sad to say that, that's the way Asian cultures and society will actually view bani falling in love with pushy immoral where as if jai falls for pia that will be seen in the different light! And straight away fingers will be raised upon bani and her drawbacks!

That's when I guess the feminist come into play, because they really do keep men in their right place. Because it's about time women do what they do best!! And I think bani is doing the right thing, being cold and arrogant, although she's hurting herself but hey! Sometimes this is the only and the best way of getting round to matters. Plus the amount of suffering she has been through from day one of the show, its actually reasonably good to see her act strong.

Now coming to your question, now firstly I very much doubt jai being a strong character will ever scoop that low to actually fall for pia or another third women! It will be completely out of his character if he does so, and too be honest the respect I have for jai walia's image will actually drawn, well at least in my eyes!

I would never blame bani if jai does go astray, coz the girls done her bit and has been through a lot. Jai would be the one to be blamed because no matter what its his own doing so why should bani be blamed!
He should have control over his doings, just because things are not right between bani and him it don't mean he sleeps with another women, especially that women being bani's dumb bum sister pia. He needs to control his hormones if he falls for pia again!! Coz I would bash him!! Big time!


That's simply wrong and it's certainly not how marriages tend to work!

O man MT rigid question you put me into dilemma! Hahaha 😆

Plain and simple I don't think anyone would ever blame Bani but Jai going for Pai I can't see that happening, or at least I don't want to see that happening. It would change the whole show and the chemistry between Jai and Bani they will never be the same. PLus we all want Jai and Bani not Jai and Pai, not even once....

Hi Klue, My post was basically initiated after reading your post! So, well thanks for the inspiration, just look at the stupendous and brilliant response to the Post!

I know that MT .. as soon as i read the opening line to Your thread .. I was Like ..Ok Klue u asked for it .. !But I am Glad .. That u had this post .. i saw it very late was busy cooking then was on my way out and got your PM and i had to postpone my errand to answer ..to your post . i just Hope what i wrote bought/ brought foward my pont of view.
ciao
klue

Thanks Mt, If jai going back to pia then he love is not stronge as bani loves him. i always support bani..

thnx mt, i dun think so he will go back to pia koz he luvz bani bani n bani 😊

Originally posted by: mistletoe

I don't understand why should Love always be a two-sided lane? When Bani was in love with Jai, and he was the least bit bothered about it, we were still singing paens to Jai and saying that Jai has just not realized it and one day he will come around! Why is that now, when supposedly Bani has nothing to do with Jai and he has fallen in love with her, we all desperately want Bani to succumb to his wishes ?

ya so true 😕

Originally posted by: mistletoe

So my question for you guys is;

If Jai does end up going back to Pia (Temporarily or Permanently) Will you blame Jai for the same or will you blame Bani? I am not naming Pia here, because she will get battered any which way!😆

i think i personally feel that it would be only JAI's fault because

Firstly.............it would show jai's week character or maybe he never loved bani as bani he only loves her because she is the mother of his child.

Secondly........ how can jai forget ki bani left him becoz he accidently killed her mother.........and by default pia and bani share the same mother.............so that would mean that he is gonna cheat on pia now by hidding this from her.

Thirdly , how the hell can he go to pia when pia's sister bani is carrying his child .

Guys, I am in Canada and reading all these posts. These discussions are so juicy and spicy that I feel that I'm watching another KS sort of episode.

Well done and Bravo to MT 😉

Originally posted by: Vanessa

Guys, I am in Canada and reading all these posts. These discussions are so juicy and spicy that I feel that I'm watching another KS sort of episode.

Well done and Bravo to MT 😉

Your response on this post has been awesome, I am still waiting for two of the most ardent Jai-supporter and partial Bani-bashers to come and post their views.😉 Though, I must admit after watching the 25 August Episode, I am left in no doubt that Jai loves both his baby and the Mother of his Baby with equal fervour and dedication......Atleast, I have no doubts left on that front! And knowing Jai, he won't slip ever, not after he expressed all that he said to Bani......

Thanks once again for the stupendous response!

Love,

MT

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Your response on this post has been awesome, I am still waiting for two of the most ardent Jai-supporter and partial Bani-bashers to come and post their views.😉 Though, I must admit after watching the 25 August Episode, I am left in no doubt that Jai loves both his baby and the Mother of his Baby with equal fervour and dedication......Atleast, I have no doubts left on that front! And knowing Jai, he won't slip ever, not after he expressed all that he said to Bani......

Thanks once again for the stupendous response!

Love,

MT

yes MT, after yesterday's episode I am convinced that Jai will never stary away, no matter what. If anything like that happens, we will only have Ekta to blame?