Because I deserve a voice too (DT Note pg. 16) - Page 7

ohkay folks i request to all d people over here nt to comment abt d post of niti d long notes she has written stating displeasure to do some scene which she ws nt comfortable n blamed fans dat she did fr dem n many oder obligations sacrifices n all DAT ..GUYS I HVE JUST QUESTIONS FROM ALL D PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO R COMMENTING N SAYING SHE IS WRONG SHE SHOULDNT HVE SAID DAT I AGREE SHE IS WRONG I MYSELF DIDNT LIKE WT SHE WROTE VENTED MY ANGER ON HER TOO BT LATER I REALISED DAT GUYS WE R NORMAL HUMAN BEINGS HW MANY OF U OVER HERE DNT DO THINGS WHICH U R NOT COMFORTABLE ?HW MANY OF U ARE HERE WHO DONT BLAME ODERS FOR WT U HVE DONE IN UR LIFE ?

Originally posted by: shiprabiswas92

ohkay folks i request to all d people over here nt to comment abt d post of niti d long notes she has written stating displeasure to do some scene which she ws nt comfortable n blamed fans dat she did fr dem n many oder obligations sacrifices n all DAT ..GUYS I HVE JUST QUESTIONS FROM ALL D PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO R COMMENTING N SAYING SHE IS WRONG SHE SHOULDNT HVE SAID DAT I AGREE SHE IS WRONG I MYSELF DIDNT LIKE WT SHE WROTE VENTED MY ANGER ON HER TOO BT LATER I REALISED DAT GUYS WE R NORMAL HUMAN BEINGS HW MANY OF U OVER HERE DNT DO THINGS WHICH U R NOT COMFORTABLE ?HW MANY OF U ARE HERE WHO DONT BLAME ODERS FOR WT U HVE DONE IN UR LIFE ?COX AS FAR AS I KNW DERE NO ONE IN DIS WORLD NW WHO DNT COMMIT MISTAKE WHO DNT BLAME ODERS FR DERE FAULTS EVERYONE DOES DAT BT D PROBLEM IS WD PEOPLE OVER HERE IS DAT WE COMMIT SAME MISTAKES LIKE NITI BT WE DONT PUBLICISE IT DATS WHY WE R SAVED FRM SUCH LONG HATE NOTES ..BT D TRUTH U CNT HIDE FRM ANYONE CROSS ON UR HEART N SAY DAT YES I HVE NOT COMMITTED MISTAKE IN MY LIFE EVER I HAVE NOT BLAME ODER PEOPLE FR MY DEEDS EVER I HVE NOT BEEN IMATURE N IMPULSIVE EVER IN MY LIFE ..SAY IT ..ITS VERY EASY TO SAY DAT SHE IS WRONG SHE IS IMMATURE SHE SHOULDNT BLAME US WE DIDNT KNEW ANYTHING WE DONT LIKE TO B BLAMED SHE IS IMMATURE STUPID N WT NOT ..OKAY NW U GUYS TELL ME ARE U GUYS SAINT ENOUGH TO PINPOINT HER MISTAKES ..SHE IS WRONG I AM NT SAYING SHE IS RIGHT BT BEING A FAN OF KYY I HVE ALSO SEEN WT KIND OF BASHING GOES ON OVER HERE N I WOULD HVE BEEN IN NITI PLACE I WOULD LASHED D FANS MORE BADLY WD BAD WORDS I AGREE DAT AN ACTOR IS LOVED BY FANS MADE BY FANS A FAN GIVES A LOT OF TIME TO DEM DEY GET FAME MONEY BT IN RETURN DEY GIVES US LOVELY STORIES GREAT LIFE LESSONS DEY ENTERTAIN US DEY MOULD DEMSELVES INTO D CHARACTER WHICH DEY ARENT FR WHOM FR AUDIENCE ..FANS SAY WE HVE INVESTED TIME IN DEM WE SENT GIFTS TO DEM LOVE TO DEM EVN WEN WE DONT KNW DEM PERSONALLY I ASK IS UR LOVE DAT SELFISH DAT U DEMAND THINGS IN RETURN I THINK LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL IF U LOVE A PERSON U ACCEPT D PERSON WD ALL FLAWS N GOOD THINGS IN DEM ..N YES PEOPLE SAYING NITI IS STAR SHE SHOULD BEHAVE A CERTAIN WAY SHE IS INSPIRING PEOPLE I TOTALLY AGREE BT SHE IS A HUMAN SHE CNT EXPRESS HER DISPLEASURE HER GRIEVES HER PAIN FANS CN DEMNAD RESPECT FR DEM BT SHE CNT DEMAND RESPECT FANS CN ABUSE SHE CNT ABUSE WHY SHE IS CELEBRITY SO SHE HS TO GO THROUGH ABUSES BASHING ITS DERE JOB REALLY WT A LOW THINKING JUST COX SHE IS A CELEB FANS LOVE SO SHE HS TO SWALLOW D WRONG ABUSES BASHING WDOUT SAYING ANYTHING ..I AM ASKING HW MANY OVER HERE WIL NT REACT IF A PERSON ABUSES U WDOUT ANY REASON HW MANY OF U WILL NT BE ANGRY IF SOMEONE KEEPS BASHING FR D DEEDS U HVE NOTHING TO DO WD IT I DNT THINK ANY FAN OF HERE IS DAT SAINT ..I AGAIN REPEAT WT NITI WROTE WS NT CORRECT BT BEFORE PINPOINTING HER MISTAKES JUST GO THORUGH UR OWN LIFE SEE URSELF IN MIRROR N SAY DAT I HVE NT ACTED STUPID N IMMATURE EVER I HVE NEVER BEEN IMPULSIVE I HVE NEVER BLAMED ODER PEOPLE IN MY LIFE IF U HVE NT DONE ALL D ABOVE THINGS DUDE I BOW DOWN TO U PEOPLE ..SO ALL I CN SAY LIVE N LET LIVE U HVE DNT LIKE ANYONE DEN DONT BT DNT ABUSE D PERSON COX GOD KNWS LATER IN LIFE U COMMIT D SAME MISTAKE N PEOPLE ABUSE U TOO...THINK ABT IT WISELY...N ONE MORE I AM NT A NITIAN NT A PARTHIAN NT A SHIPPER I AM JUST A FAN OF MANAN N A HUMAN BEING WHO HS ACCEPTED FAULTS N WEAKNESS OF MYSELF COX I AM NO SAINT WHO CN SAY OH I CNT DO DIS SHE SHOULDNT HVE DONE DIS IF I WOULD HVE BEEN AT HER PLACE I WOULD HVE NT DONE DIS ..AS WHO KNWS HW WOULD I HVE REACTED ITS EASY TO EASY BT DIFFICULT TO DO ..N WTEVER I HVE SAID ITS STRICTLY MY POV PEOPLE WILL AGREE N WILL NOT

Originally posted by: shibz

Notes ka season hai toh DT note kaise peeche rehjaata bhala😆

After reading all the posts from the previous thread and a few in this one, I've hardly anything to add. You'll have said almost everything I wanted to.

Actually😆 the start of her note itself looked like a joke to me, when she said that she generally does not reply. Also when she asked if anybody noticed or questioned her why she stopped using twitter, and if she has ever mentioned about her not getting holidays or not being there with her sister when she wanted to. And if she ever let anyone know how she felt. Coz every other day she's either putting up notes, or replying/fighting with fans individually or giving statements in ivs about her grievances. And ofcourse fans also keep begging her to come back when she goes missing from sns. Also, funny how just a day before, she told off a fan that the fan isn't her family and that she will do what she wants even if that means making fool out of herself, it's her life. And then this note quite contradicting.

She also mentioned about the internal things that go on that we don't know about yet expects fans to understand the unseen.

Now coming to "doing the uncomfortable scenes" - I always thought she went out of her comfort zone to achieve what she has in her professional life, her career, and is proud of it. I sure was, as a fan. Acting is an art where the actors' talent is tested. Where they express what is written in words by the writers. But sadly she reduced it all to a series of uncomfortable scenes that she knew her family wouldn't like yet went ahead for the love of fans. This is not the same Niti who said that it was the demand of the script, who acknowledged that they were showing something realistic to the audience through this show. Also that she enjoyed doing the scenes as an actor. I don't understand where did 'respect' and 'heartless' in this context come from. Why the special mention for these scenes now, and the discomfort, when ppl have applauded her for the same work and continue to do whenever revisited(Noor, Genie and me did till recently in the EDT too😆). Why the cribbing now? Fans don't gain from the actors' experience, actors do. Such a disservice to her own work and herself. Respect - such irony.

And a general view - Of course life is not simple or easy. It's our attitude that makes life simpler. Counting on the positives and working towards making ourselves better(pushing our limits is part of it).

Lastly, since she talked about promoting her shows - along with promoting the current shows, a little consideration(rather than disrespecting and being ignorant) towards the past baby that gave you what you have today wouldn't hurt anyone.

Regarding the pity party and mahaanta saga, it's like a show without any re-watch value but keeps on playing for no good.

@shiprabiswas92------ first of all i want to request you to kindly post in small fonts. its too difficult to read..i just skimmed thru it ..

@saamya firstlyy u dnt hve to clarify i hve asked u question n if u wnt to answer cn answer n yes i hve lot of basic understandings which probably no one in dis forum cn match get it i am nt a harmonal teenager fan u r talking to lemme tell u dis n yes wt parth being trolled i knw dat i said dat i knw wt kind of bashing goes over her be it parth or niti ..n yes leeme state u one thing clearly get dat in ur mind dat i hve no problems wd discussions neither i am hiding niti mistake never will i bt d point over here is while discussing all dis u guys r sounding as if u guys hve nt ever done anything like dat n if u wnt her to grow as an actor den dont comment until u knw wt hardwork she hs put in to get where she is right nw cox we r nt d ones who knw dat wt n hw things roll in dis industry nwadays fans hve lot of interference in an actors life which is nt right let dem tke dere decisions in life if u like dere decisions good if u dnt den buzz of why giving suggestions do dis do dat oh please ..fans hve invested time n dem so dey get right to lecture moral policing dem ..i dont why hve i written all dese stuff to u guys u guys just so u just cnt understand i hve wasted my time wd u guys n i am very sorry fr dat

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Instead of constantly ENCOURAGING her to keep feeling sorry for herself, feeling victimized, praising her for "her sacrifices", ppl should be encouraging her to be a STRONG role model who stands up for herself and her choices...instead of always finding ppl to blame...fans are the last ppl to be making scapegoats in this...yes even in a crazy obsessive fandom where many ppl do stupid things...standing up for yourself at the cost of guilt tripping fans is not the way to go.

THAT is the crucial point that Niti and the ppl encouraging her are missing here.

I will never wish ill for Niti...or anyone...I would only wish that she grows up and looks for positive reinforcement in her life rather than constantly succumbing to this mentality that she is the only victimized person in this world...only she can do that for herself if she is able to look beyond the ppl who skew her perspective on a daily basis by encouraging her to feel victimized.

all this if and only if the fans find the act wrong..if not then its fine but pls dont stop others to express...

u knw what nwadays people hve freedom of speech so dey speak anything n everything my whole point is dat wt u guys r discussing over someone note hve u guys urself done dose things which u r moral policing hern parth anyone in dis world i beleive dat we dnt possess right to state anyone wht is right wt is wrong until or unless we r dat saint to follow n preach wt we say ...n a fan should do telll wt is wrong wt is right to a celeb bt d point jo ap keh rahe h kbhi khud bi kiya h wo sb jo dusron ko keh rahe h my mom says its easy to say wt is right n wrong bt its difficult at times to understand wt is wrong n wht is right ..telling frm my experience in dis world nwadays people loves to give advices free mai do dis do dat shouldnt hve done dis could hve done dis way n blah blah ..bt i think dat mjhe jo moral polocing kiya hve u ever done dose things in ur life i mean seriously it easy to discuss oer someone mistake n guide jb khud pe ati h to ye saari baatein hawa ho jati h

Originally posted by: shiprabiswas92

@saamya firstlyy u dnt hve to clarify i hve asked u question n if u wnt to answer cn answer n yes i hve lot of basic understandings which probably no one in dis forum cn match get it i am nt a harmonal teenager fan u r talking to lemme tell u dis n yes wt parth being trolled i knw dat i said dat i knw wt kind of bashing goes over her be it parth or niti ..n yes leeme state u one thing clearly get dat in ur mind dat i hve no problems wd discussions neither i am hiding niti mistake never will i bt d point over here is while discussing all dis u guys r sounding as if u guys hve nt ever done anything like dat n if u wnt her to grow as an actor den dont comment until u knw wt hardwork she hs put in to get where she is right nw cox we r nt d ones who knw dat wt n hw things roll in dis industry nwadays fans hve lot of interference in an actors life which is nt right let dem tke dere decisions in life if u like dere decisions good if u dnt den buzz of why giving suggestions do dis do dat oh please ..fans hve invested time n dem so dey get right to lecture moral policing dem ..i dont why hve i written all dese stuff to u guys u guys just so u just cnt understand i hve wasted my time wd u guys n i am very sorry fr dat

Originally posted by: -SaaMYa-

i am not clarifying to u..pls understand in a thread any of the participating member can respond to ur comment..its an open disccusion forum..its not a one on one chat happening that others should not comment..

nothing more to add...lets agree to disagree .. pls dont be sorry..LOL..

Originally posted by: shiprabiswas92

u knw what nwadays people hve freedom of speech so dey speak anything n everything my whole point is dat wt u guys r discussing over someone note hve u guys urself done dose things which u r moral policing hern parth anyone in dis world i beleive dat we dnt possess right to state anyone wht is right wt is wrong until or unless we r dat saint to follow n preach wt we say ...n a fan should do telll wt is wrong wt is right to a celeb bt d point jo ap keh rahe h kbhi khud bi kiya h wo sb jo dusron ko keh rahe h my mom says its easy to say wt is right n wrong bt its difficult at times to understand wt is wrong n wht is right ..