Originally posted by: shiprabiswas92
yes its a fav word cox its d fav thing people r doing dese days gone through all dis my teen days so i knw wt things people hve to listen all i cn say niti bad n good is solely depends on wht she perceives frm her life n wht she learns frm her mistakes ..people will say both good n bad bt at d end d person who is responsible fr dis will hve to think demselves cool...n i never escape a debate wanna debate bring it on
Hi Shipra. Thanks for posting your view. Much appreciated. I will try to summarize your comments and please don't take it as directed to you but the general perception of your question. Neither I am attacking or trying to change your views , i will just present a bit of clarity regarding my views.
You say "Moral policing" based on your teen years and I call this a "discussion" based on my experience. You see what happened there"? Two interpretations of one situation. Now you and I can fight/debate/agree/disagree based on your experiences , yet neither of us can be right or wrong. It is how we want to see. You coming here telling us to "not hate" (which we are not indulging from our POV) is also a brand of Moral Policing, from some perception.
This is a discussion forum. In the past , if you would have noticed - ALL CAST AND THEIR ISSUES were discussed. I would also suggest a trip to Bollywood forum and please go through the nature of discussions that happen there and how that is part of natural social commentary.
Niti is a human. Flawed. With every right to express her emotions, words . I stand for her FOE .While I do so , i also understand that her expressions would be met with varied reactions- good, bad , anger , love etc. Because that is the power of expression for all.
If you would have bothered reading the first thread ,you would have noticed the poster has made sure to say that Niti has full right to stand against haters. But , But here she crossed a line for some of us . We take umbrage to what she said and discussing it. Nobody is asking her to shut it , Nobody is asking her to retract- but we are expressing an opinion on her opinion.
There is a fabulous line ," Don't judge others" . But funnily everyone judges everyone and everything. If I and others are accused of judging Niti then so are the ones who have this opinion because they too are judging us.
I don't care what the sns perception is of this discussion. If anyone had followed us they would have known this is part of our discourse and there is no gender bias. For the same issues and same context, we have also commented on Parth, other co-actors and also the people associated with this show. Words like mob or crowd bashing be interesting, because on sns , the nature is such, people who agree will always cling together against those who disagree. You will be guilty of it as well, when you "like" an opinion which goes with you. That becomes a crowd on sns. So don't take that seriously.
Another word thrown around is "bully". You could go through each and every comment of this thread and let me know where the name-calling or jeering is happening. It's an opinion based discussion. And ironically the word used or thrown around be usually from a group too. You would see 4-5 people coming down on one person on twitter, who expressed their opinion here. That is confronted and bullying in my book.But each to their own. 😆
Again, I will request and welcome all counter views . This is a discussion , lets treat it like one.
Edited by charminggenie - 9 years ago