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Posted: 19 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: swordfishh


Reason...?? Someone thinks Neha's expressions are funny....Lo.... We have a bashing session.... Is that reason enough to attack someone personally? Read Indygal's post regarding Qazi's singing....

THE AUDIENCE HAS THE RIGHT TO CRITICISE...... I am paying my cable operator.... Sony is paying Ekta and Ekta is paying her actors.... I have a RIGHT to complain if I feel someone is not good enough and can improve....

AS I SAID.....IT IS THEIR DUTY TO ENTERTAIN US..... WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO CRITICISE.....It is appaling to see the person being called names by the so called fans of the actor/actress just because of some criticism.....



First of all swordfish let me commend you on putting up this post to begin with. I personally have gotten quite tired of the bickering and the baiting. Its fine to post what you feel, but when you know a post is going to ruffle feathers why bother to post it? I think people just have a different view of what pertains to bashing and what doesnt. I completely agree we should be able to criticize someones acting, because THAT is their job. To act. Were watching SONY, paying to watch it and as long as we comment on their job thats fine. But i think it crosses the line to start making remarks about a persons appearance or comment on anything of their personal lives. They are playing a character, that we can comment on because THAT is what we see. We dont know them personally nor do we associate with them personally. Just leave their families and personal lives out of it, comment on it in a nice peaceful nature but dont go criticizing their families for no reason at all. How would you feel if you were in their shoes? We all seem to forget that many actors come to IF and read what we say, criticizing clothes and acting is related to their acting but how do their families and bf/gf affect their jobs in any way? They dont.

I find it to be over the line when one comments on an actors personal life in a rude manner, be it physically or what not. What I have always felt it was okay to criticize about has been the job they do. Its the same as if a boss criticizes their employees typing skills. Thats the employees job. Thats fine. But what if he comments on how ugly they look? That I find to be very hurtful and crass.

Like Nitica, I am getting sick of the appeasing and the bashing being done by various groups. Dont suck up and dont start fights. Just post what you want but remember to keep in mind that if you want to be respected give respect as well. I just simply want all this to be swept under the rug so everyone can start fresh again. Dont get too overly sensitive about something but at the same time expect some people to be overly sensitive about the topics you post. So just be careful about what you say.
Edited by LJC007 - 19 years ago
veena thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
#22
Ria,
Before i address my point of views let me make it very
clear that i am not a IQ/NEHA/AMIT hardcore fan...I
watch this show because of the wonderful chemistry
between the leading costars & also because the other
actor Amit Tandon happens to be from my hometown here
in the US & I have to root for my local boy who has
made us so proud of him.

The word "Jingoism" means extreme nationalism
characterized by hostility to foreign countries & in
this case it is totally irrelevant.This has always
been an equal oppurtunity forum for everyone to come &
post their views....let it be a FAN, STARS ,FAMILY
MEMBERS, FRIENDS, etc. In this case we know that
Sneha/Dinks is the girlfriend of Iqbal Khan & comes on
this forum to publicize his career which is fine with
me....he has a lot of fans who look forward to some
snippets of information about him...but then to also
personally critique Neha on her part is not justified.
If she has a problem with her let her go & deal it in
private why are the forum members being used as guinea
pigs. ...I am not saying that Dinks should not post
anything...she should after all she is a member too,but respect is the basic thing which needs to be followed by everybody on the forum.


Would you want to mention this, lately all the posts related to Neha ends up as a Neha Bashing forum. Who and Why??? I think the mods and viewbies need to do some research on the previous posts and see who triggers that anti-Neha venom…. This needs to be addressed at a higher level than mods as well…



It is but natural for any hard core fan to support their star, especially when the star is treated like a doormat .. and there is nothing wrong it is human psychology.


As for Amit being called all those names or silly
posts being made on him where is the so called
indignation...yes his family members do visit this
forum and are also members on this forum, but have never publicized it to benefit or attack anyone.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: maya123

However, when the forum member is the actor/actress's ma, bahen, bhai, dad, uncle, aunty, gf, bf it does not stay impersonal. -they are making personal comments about the actor/actress in front of their fans. They have an objective/motive in mind when they make these comments.

Not if the comments are restricted to acting/dancing skills or dressing sense of a particular actor...... That is the minimum respect we can give a forum member no matter who he/she is...

But yes.. When the comments get personal..... Its a totally different story...

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Posted: 19 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: veena

Ria,
Before i address my point of views let me make it very
clear that i am not a IQ/NEHA/AMIT hardcore fan...I
watch this show because of the wonderful chemistry
between the leading costars & also because the other
actor Amit Tandon happens to be from my hometown here
in the US & I have to root for my local boy who has
made us so proud of him.

The word "Jingoism" means extreme nationalism
characterized by hostility to foreign countries & in
this case it is totally irrelevant.This has always
been an equal oppurtunity forum for everyone to come &
post their views....let it be a FAN, STARS ,FAMILY
MEMBERS, FRIENDS, etc. In this case we know that
Sneha/Dinks is the girlfriend of Iqbal Khan & comes on
this forum to publicize his career which is fine with
me....he has a lot of fans who look forward to some
snippets of information about him...but then to also
personally critique Neha on her part is not justified.
If she has a problem with her let her go & deal it in
private why are the forum members being used as guinea
pigs. ...I am not saying that Dinks should not post
anything...she should after all she is a member too,but respect is the basic thing which needs to be followed by everybody on the forum.


Would you want to mention this, lately all the posts related to Neha ends up as a Neha Bashing forum. Who and Why??? I think the mods and viewbies need to do some research on the previous posts and see who triggers that anti-Neha venom…. This needs to be addressed at a higher level than mods as well…



It is but natural for any hard core fan to support their star, especially when the star is treated like a doormat .. and there is nothing wrong it is human psychology.


As for Amit being called all those names or silly
posts being made on him where is the so called
indignation...yes his family members do visit this
forum and are also members on this forum, but have never publicized it to benefit or attack anyone.



👏 I couldnt have said it better myself.
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Posted: 19 years ago
#25

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Originally posted by: veena

Ria,
Before i address my point of views let me make it very
clear that i am not a IQ/NEHA/AMIT hardcore fan...I
watch this show because of the wonderful chemistry
between the leading costars & also because the other
actor Amit Tandon happens to be from my hometown here
in the US & I have to root for my local boy who has
made us so proud of him.

The word "Jingoism" means extreme nationalism
characterized by hostility to foreign countries & in
this case it is totally irrelevant.This has always
been an equal oppurtunity forum for everyone to come &
post their views....let it be a FAN, STARS ,FAMILY
MEMBERS, FRIENDS, etc. In this case we know that
Sneha/Dinks is the girlfriend of Iqbal Khan & comes on
this forum to publicize his career which is fine with
me....he has a lot of fans who look forward to some
snippets of information about him...but then to also
personally critique Neha on her part is not justified.
If she has a problem with her let her go & deal it in
private why are the forum members being used as guinea
pigs. ...I am not saying that Dinks should not post
anything...she should after all she is a member too,but respect is the basic thing which needs to be followed by everybody on the forum.


Would you want to mention this, lately all the posts related to Neha ends up as a Neha Bashing forum. Who and Why??? I think the mods and viewbies need to do some research on the previous posts and see who triggers that anti-Neha venom…. This needs to be addressed at a higher level than mods as well…



It is but natural for any hard core fan to support their star, especially when the star is treated like a doormat .. and there is nothing wrong it is human psychology.


As for Amit being called all those names or silly
posts being made on him where is the so called
indignation...yes his family members do visit this
forum and are also members on this forum, but have never publicized it to benefit or attack anyone.

BINGO!

I have personally nothing against dinky posting on this forum - and as Veena said can also sense that there are people related to Amit that post on this forum but I have never seen them use the forum to make persona or indirect attacks on any star.

I am just surprised that dinky has been allowed to make posts that are very cleverly thinly veiled as speaking about the show but are always bashing Neha.

And I agree she, in my opinion, is using people on this forum, as guinea pigs to pursue her own objective of Neha bashing. Once that happens these posts loose all objectivity and it just becomes a matter of the blind leading the blind.

Maya

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Posted: 19 years ago
#26
Veena,
When I use Jingoism it refers to EXTREME FANDOMISM....
If you read my post carefully... You will get my point..
About actors' relatives coming to this forum and posting stuff and celebrity basing...I am referring to two totally different issues here....
First of all I don't know why you mentioned names coz the names you mentioned were not the ones I had in mind.
I was referring the normal criticism of actors and actresses by the audience......
Read Indygal's post abput Qazi.. You will get what I was trying to say... Coz you have failed to understand what I was trying to say..

As regards Neha... She is getting paid for what she is doing.... I am paying my cable operator... And I have a right to complain if I dont get what I want to see.....
I dont believe in being a philanthropist appreciating the actor's efforts and neglecting their shortcomings.....Because they aint doing anything for charity....
swordfishh thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
#27
Veena and Maya...... I would appreciate it if you refrain from mentioning names.....
When I talk of member bashing... I am referring to ordinary forum members whose views differ from those of other HARD CORE FANS....
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Posted: 19 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: swordfishh

Reason...?? Someone thinks Neha's expressions are funny....Lo.... We have a bashing session.... Is that reason enough to attack someone personally? Read Indygal's post regarding Qazi's singing....

THE AUDIENCE HAS THE RIGHT TO CRITICISE...... I am paying my cable operator.... Sony is paying Ekta and Ekta is paying her actors.... I have a RIGHT to complain if I feel someone is not good enough and can improve....

AS I SAID.....IT IS THEIR DUTY TO ENTERTAIN US..... WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO CRITICISE.....It is appaling to see the person being called names by the so called fans of the actor/actress just because of some criticism.....



I prefer not to go ahead with this post by commenting on anything😃

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Posted: 19 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: veena

Ria,
Before i address my point of views let me make it very
clear that i am not a IQ/NEHA/AMIT hardcore fan...I
watch this show because of the wonderful chemistry
between the leading costars & also because the other
actor Amit Tandon happens to be from my hometown here
in the US & I have to root for my local boy who has
made us so proud of him.

The word "Jingoism" means extreme nationalism
characterized by hostility to foreign countries & in
this case it is totally irrelevant.This has always
been an equal oppurtunity forum for everyone to come &
post their views....let it be a FAN, STARS ,FAMILY
MEMBERS, FRIENDS, etc. In this case we know that
Sneha/Dinks is the girlfriend of Iqbal Khan & comes on
this forum to publicize his career which is fine with
me....he has a lot of fans who look forward to some
snippets of information about him...but then to also
personally critique Neha on her part is not justified.
If she has a problem with her let her go & deal it in
private why are the forum members being used as guinea
pigs. ...I am not saying that Dinks should not post
anything...she should after all she is a member too,but respect is the basic thing which needs to be followed by everybody on the forum.


Would you want to mention this, lately all the posts related to Neha ends up as a Neha Bashing forum. Who and Why??? I think the mods and viewbies need to do some research on the previous posts and see who triggers that anti-Neha venom…. This needs to be addressed at a higher level than mods as well…



It is but natural for any hard core fan to support their star, especially when the star is treated like a doormat .. and there is nothing wrong it is human psychology.


As for Amit being called all those names or silly
posts being made on him where is the so called
indignation...yes his family members do visit this
forum and are also members on this forum, but have never publicized it to benefit or attack anyone.

👏very well said di👏

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Posted: 19 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: veena

Ria,
Before i address my point of views let me make it very
clear that i am not a IQ/NEHA/AMIT hardcore fan...I
watch this show because of the wonderful chemistry
between the leading costars & also because the other
actor Amit Tandon happens to be from my hometown here
in the US & I have to root for my local boy who has
made us so proud of him.

The word "Jingoism" means extreme nationalism
characterized by hostility to foreign countries & in
this case it is totally irrelevant.This has always
been an equal oppurtunity forum for everyone to come &
post their views....let it be a FAN, STARS ,FAMILY
MEMBERS, FRIENDS, etc. In this case we know that
Sneha/Dinks is the girlfriend of Iqbal Khan & comes on
this forum to publicize his career which is fine with
me....he has a lot of fans who look forward to some
snippets of information about him...but then to also
personally critique Neha on her part is not justified.
If she has a problem with her let her go & deal it in
private why are the forum members being used as guinea
pigs. ...I am not saying that Dinks should not post
anything...she should after all she is a member too,but respect is the basic thing which needs to be followed by everybody on the forum.


Would you want to mention this, lately all the posts related to Neha ends up as a Neha Bashing forum. Who and Why??? I think the mods and viewbies need to do some research on the previous posts and see who triggers that anti-Neha venom…. This needs to be addressed at a higher level than mods as well…



It is but natural for any hard core fan to support their star, especially when the star is treated like a doormat .. and there is nothing wrong it is human psychology.


As for Amit being called all those names or silly
posts being made on him where is the so called
indignation...yes his family members do visit this
forum and are also members on this forum, but have never publicized it to benefit or attack anyone.

👏👏👏 Very well said di nd i m totally agree with u, we all luv each other alot nd respect of each other nd we also want to say that to everyone but i think we dont have good words to describe our point.

Nice post Ria neways 😊.

Luv U

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