A request to all members/mods/viewbies - Page 4

Originally posted by: swordfishh

Veena,
As regards Neha... She is getting paid for what she is doing.... I am paying my cable operator... And I have a right to complain if I dont get what I want to see.....
I dont believe in being a philanthropist appreciating the actor's efforts and neglecting their shortcomings.....Because they aint doing anything for charity....

I think that its a matter of people simply getting fed up with the same person constantly bashing Neha and not for reasons that have anything related to her acting. Whether its criticizing Neha or the depth of her her fan following in time ANYONE would get fed up if the same person continues to post hogwash about an actor they like. It gets to be repetitive and tedious. Im not a Neha Fan only nor am I an IQ fan only. I enjoy KYPH and all the actors equally, heck I think Amit does a fabu job as Prithvi! But I do know that if I saw criticisms being posted about Amit on a daily basis that at MANY times had no reflection upon his acting skills I would get fed up. Dinky tends to either express her dislike towards Neha through as someone stated above, "thinly vieled" comments or simply posts quite brazen remarks about the character of Kripa that NO ONE could mistake as her expression of her dislike of Neha. I dont have anything against Dinky at all, but I am quite fed up of the constant spiteful comments about Neha. It doesnt even matter anymore to many (and I can completely understand why) if Dinky states something too overly spiteful because now just ANYTHING does the trick. I commend her for coming to the forumn and publicizing IQ but at the same time she should remember that there are Neha fans here that really dont appreciate her expressing her dislike of Neha and thus riling up everyone on the board.

Anyways I dont think the point of your post was to discuss one person in particular. Im sorry for going off track but i had to vent the above. Anyways I think we should all just not reply when someone puts up a topic to bait others. Appeasing them only eggs them on and bashing them will only rile them up. Just leave them be and enjoy the show.

I AM TELLING YOU GUYS AGAIN...... PLEASE DONT MENTION NAMES......
BY THE WAY..... THIS POST HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH DINKY....
IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH AN ORDINARY MEMBER LIKE ME WHO FINDS IT DIFFICULT TO GET HER MESSAGE ACCROSS BECAUSE OF EXTREME FANDOMISM (Jingoism)

(please pardon my shouting)

Originally posted by: swordfishh

I AM TELLING YOU GUYS AGAIN...... PLEASE DONT MENTION NAMES......
BY THE WAY..... THIS POST HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH DINKY....
IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH AN ORDINARY MEMBER LIKE ME WHO FINDS IT DIFFICULT TO GET HER MESSAGE ACCROSS BECAUSE OF EXTREME FANDOMISM (Jingoism)

(please pardon my shouting)

I think if we all banded together when other members post hurtful remarks, regardless of whose fave was being criticized then it would stop. Instead of all jumping on each other, the mods should see to those who are constantly starting these fights.

Originally posted by: LJC007

Anyways I dont think the point of your post was to discuss one person in particular. Im sorry for going off track but i had to vent the above. Anyways I think we should all just not reply when someone puts up a topic to bait others. Appeasing them only eggs them on and bashing them will only rile them up. Just leave them be and enjoy the show.

I am glad you realised that..... I am talking for myself and not for some xyz forum member..... I would appreciate it if you vent your frustations about some XYZ in PM.... that's the best place to do it......

Hey Guys..

This post has again brought Sneha in here n i even knew somewhere her name will come into this n now her name is already in here so i personally dont think you guys shud go ahead replying to this coz this will not take us anywhere rather than debates, arguments, controversies n in the end some of us again getting hurt.

I love you all very much n dont want anyone of you to debate for these kinda stuff which really is very painful for me n for others to see..😊

Originally posted by: galpal

thats okay,ria! we commoners can criticize any actor on his/her acting---its freedom of speech---i didnt read the one u mentioned---but i dont like star's relatives personally attacking other stars,thats all!

Ditto!

Originally posted by: galpal

thats okay,ria! we commoners can criticize any actor on his/her acting---its freedom of speech---i didnt read the one u mentioned---but i dont like star's relatives personally attacking other stars,thats all!

Well.... Myself and many other forum members are not relatives or friends of stars........ Yet we do get bashed up on criticising......

Originally posted by: buttercup

Hey Guys..

This post has again brought Sneha in here n i even knew somewhere her name will come into this n now her name is already in here so i personally dont think you guys shud go ahead replying to this coz this will not take us anywhere rather than debates, arguments, controversies n in the end some of us again getting hurt.

I love you all very much n dont want anyone of you to debate for these kinda stuff which really is very painful for me n for others to see..😊

I agree BC, but you know what problems should not be shoved under the carpet. They never go away - they are always there. And trust me different people than us will bring it up in the future because many people see what is happening on this forum.

Love

Maya

Butter.....
I know what you are trying to say..... But let me get things clear.... THIS IS NOT ABOUT ONE FORUM MEMBER...
I am surprised(though I had anticipated it) how my post strayed off topic....

Originally posted by: buttercup

Hey Guys..

This post has again brought Sneha in here n i even knew somewhere her name will come into this n now her name is already in here so i personally dont think you guys shud go ahead replying to this coz this will not take us anywhere rather than debates, arguments, controversies n in the end some of us again getting hurt.

I love you all very much n dont want anyone of you to debate for these kinda stuff which really is very painful for me n for others to see..😊

Totally agree with u butter jaan nd plz stop it guys.

Luv U