A request to all members/mods/viewbies - Page 5

Originally posted by: maya123

I agree BC, but you know what problems should not be shoved under the carpet. They never go away - they are always there. And trust me different people than us will bring it up in the future because many people see what is happening on this forum.

Love

Maya

well zebby i agree wid wat ya say cmon guys lets juzz stop it here..y d hell waste ur time on smething which doesnt make any sense we all come here to njoy n make frnds lets juzz do dat only we shud juzz leave all dose ppl behind nd start a fresh life...juzz like we ppl were before totally mad nd luvly😊

Originally posted by: swordfishh

Butter.....
I know what you are trying to say..... But let me get things clear.... THIS IS NOT ABOUT ONE FORUM MEMBER...
I am surprised(though I had anticipated it) how my posted strayed off topic....

Ria darling.. i understand very well what you trying to tell us..

But whats the point in we discussing this wile we know this creates only debates n arguments here.. nothing else.. so its better if we reply to the posts only politely.. if someone hates NEHA just dont reply on a post related to her..same for AMIT OR IQ ALSO. so in this way atleast we can see the forum in a good way n we all can enjoy the way we want😃😃😃

Originally posted by: maya123

I agree BC, but you know what problems should not be shoved under the carpet. They never go away - they are always there. And trust me different people than us will bring it up in the future because many people see what is happening on this forum.

Love

Maya

i know that wat ever problems we have will be there later also.. but cant we just ignore them and go ahead darling😃

Originally posted by: maya123

Ditto!

Thanks Pallavi & Maya.
Ria,
I read your post very clearly, didn't read the one you mentioned.....i am not bashing any person on the forum....just stating my views as to how i feel as to what is happening around here.

Originally posted by: maya123

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I have personally nothing against dinky posting on this forum - and as Veena said can also sense that there are people related to Amit that post on this forum but I have never seen them use the forum to make persona or indirect attacks on any star.

I am just surprised that dinky has been allowed to make posts that are very cleverly thinly veiled as speaking about the show but are always bashing Neha.

And I agree she, in my opinion, is using people on this forum, as guinea pigs to pursue her own objective of Neha bashing. Once that happens these posts loose all objectivity and it just becomes a matter of the blind leading the blind.

Maya

Ria , a great post. (Hope good healthy discussion takes place here.)

Veena and Maya, nobody would have said it better . Hats off to you guys.

I would like to make a few points as well…. Few of Nehas relatives and her friends are members as well on this forum. (I personally know them) I have never seen them making an anti remark against any stars of KYPH nor supporting Neha…. They are neutral like Amit. And I really admire and respect them from the bottom of my heart.

I thought the IF forum was a public forum and an equal opportunity forum…. Why are certain members being favored always is my question ???😕

Basically the keyword : RESPECT is being misused on this forum by certain members and the sad part is they have godfathers behind them just 'coz they are related to TV stars. 😕 They seem to get away with anything and everything, WHY?

Also personal problems with the actual stars needs to be resolved outside this forum as Veena said…. This forum is not to wash dirty linens in public.

Would you want to mention this, lately all the posts related to Neha ends up as a Neha Bashing forum. Who and Why??? I think the mods and viewbies need to do some research on the previous posts and see who triggers that anti-Neha venom…. This needs to be addressed at a higher level than mods as well… (Veenas post)

Yes, I agree with you Veena, even I would like see who the person is who triggers anti-Neha venom. This has been going on from March, but lately has increased, resulting in me coming to the forum more often . (which is not good for my work 😕)

Character Bashing is okay and fine , (since the characters are fictious) where as a actor bashing (who are real) is going way too much.. even the media are nice and warm when posting….

Thanks

Originally posted by: maya123

I agree BC, but you know what problems should not be shoved under the carpet. They never go away - they are always there. And trust me different people than us will bring it up in the future because many people see what is happening on this forum.

Love

Maya

U r also right maya but it's very hard to handle so many pplz so better y we dont stop to our self nd ignore them, when we starting ignoring them then i think they will realise their selves negativity.

Luv U

Originally posted by: loonytunes

You know what. THis is just sad. Swordfish opened this post so everyone could SORT out problems not AGGRAVATE them.

I haven't seen anyone critizing Neha for her looks. If she is critcizies, it is mostly for her ACTING. And as I said, THAT IS ALLOWED. SO can people please STOP arguing about how that hsouldn't be allowed?

If you don't want to allow criticism anymore, what is the forum here for.

Critcism for ANY actor is allowed as long as it relates to acting, and not their personal life.

And if you guys don't stop arguing righ tnow, I am going to close this topic.

love,
LT

LT, you need to visit other posts where Neha is bashed apart from acting... sorry to say that😕

( I have to rush to offfice, Bye Guys)

Originally posted by: loonytunes

Since no mod or Viewbie has been able to reply to this yet, I'll do the honors.

Bashing in this forum is defined as personally attacking either a member or an actor's LOOKS, personal life. [/quote]

Thanks for that reply LT...... I hope all the Viewbies keep that definition of BASHING in mind before locking topics... Irrespective of their personal opinions about an actor.....
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As for treating all members the same, I don't care how much you all want to argue on that but the bottom line is : YOU HAVE TO TREAT ALL MEMBERS THE SAME. And that's it. Even if it IS Iqbal or Neha's relative/friend, NO badmouthing is allowed and any topic discussing that WILL be closed. Be careful NOT to be rude (watch your tone) as it willl be taken as personally attacking a member.

Thanks for that reply too..... You guys have not let me down.....

Originally posted by: loonytunes

Since no mod or Viewbie has been able to reply to this yet, I'll do the honors.

Bashing in this forum is defined as personally attacking either a member or an actor's LOOKS, personal life.

It is NOT to be mistaken for critcism. Everyone here has full right to crtizie actors and their acting abilities. And everyone here should be respecting other people's opinions when it comes to whoever's favorite actor or actress.

As for treating all members the same, I don't care how much you all want to argue on that but the bottom line is : YOU HAVE TO TREAT ALL MEMBERS THE SAME. And that's it. Even if it IS Iqbal or Neha's relative/friend, NO badmouthing is allowed and any topic discussing that WILL be closed. Be careful NOT to be rude (watch your tone) as it willl be taken as personally attacking a member.

There's no point arguing what I jsut said because it's not for you to debate. These are the RULES of the forum and being a forum member, you either follow them or leave.

love,
LT

Very well said LT...

Again another debate post...I'm not wasting my breathe on this...some people just don't understand...that's all.