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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rockerchic


@RED Which doesn't necessarily make it any less disturbing to me.

Should we break out of that system?

Yes it is perspective. And perhaps RC is still wet behind the ears when it comes to marital bliss.

But rest assured Khuhsi is by no means my role modal.



I doubt IPK is trying to sell any role models, be it Khushi or Arnav, lol.

No one is trying to lay down a rule - that's how women (or men) need to be or not be.

Within any norm there are exceptions.

Everyone does what gives them happiness, and as people grow, their circle of happiness grows from what gives them happiness, to what brings happiness to their friends, parents, husbands, children, etc. Their happiness makes them happy. And so Khushi is a girl mature beyond her age, she understand relations in her world, and lives accordingly.

But the pre-marital sex was almost a rush-job to get the scene done while LM was with IPK. Then, luckily they were able to bring him back.

Does the PH feel like fools now, rushing the SR, because they didn't know if LM would be there after the marriage ? Probably.

Just like they turned Anjie's character negative to meet with her demands.

So PH is doing a juggling act trying to keep the audience, the actors, and who knows who-else happy


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Posted: 12 years ago
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RC updated and for once I agree but with different reasoning
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CravingKhana

@ bold am i missing the point...erm love making is sex when love is a big part of it and not just the physical is my understanding...

kissed every where????? what the hell was i watching..my youtube was censored????



Yeah, there was a post by TM Kernal saying it wasn't sex, it was love-making, which, in my lingo, IS sex 😆😆😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: CravingKhana

you do better when you know better...

yes she did as she believed it was imp...to her...as it is to many of us...and then in that moment she saw it differently and thats where the two meet...for even he made allowances to see it like she did...its called a marriage of hearts and minds...
this was the night b4 they cant exactly go and say ok ...we have done the deed now so now need for the wedding...and i think the whole...thing was put in there so when he is confused about garima her full trust of him ..where she gave up her convictions would parade infront of him...
spouting all of the above i still dont believe they have dun it...cos now defo..jushi is a contradiction to all of that...


When you look at it from that angle it is very spur of the moment mating of the hearts, marriage of the souls, kind of thing. But at the same time, i just it just felt shallow on some level. Maybe that's just me. Perhaps it was the timing of it.

Although i do disagree that they had to have sex for Arnav to know that Khuhsi fully trusts in him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes i am glad she has some opinion than no opinion but i don't completely agree with that either. With convictions so strong, she has no problems lying.

She has faults, yes. And i like her for it. What i question is why is she portrayed a being perfect when she isn't?

yeah i still think khushi should have told ASR about shyam. but if she did, we wouldn't have had any drama lol!

remember when nani did the oh la la dance to manofy khushi because she was upset she was lied to? all that went to hell and then CVs made khushi lie to everyone. although her intentions were good and she didnt ever lie for self-gain unlike many others on the show.

who said she is perfect? no human is perfect.

i have to say it is one thing to logically dissect her character - and i respect your views because you are fair to both khushi and ASR. but it irks me when khushi haters have a field day with posts like this.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pmgsk

BTW I reread the topic of discussion and it is the character Khushi ... I am confused as to why is Indian men's preferences being discussed 🤔
I am soon to be married and I too don't live in India but from what I know of my male friends and cousins they generally like girls who are independent , smart , strong , decisive , not too meddling in their decisions and daily life , understanding , who can carry themselves elegantly in public etc etc...



Lol.

Indian men's preferences are being discussed here because ASR was felt sorry for, due to Khushi having a child-woman personality.

Ofcourse, the show depicts values from a traditional extended family in India, so it will not be a true reflection of thought processes of the soon-to-be-married NRIs. My husband's not like that either 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Didikisaut

Khushi is not a well written character I totally agree..I have always stated and will state..my reasoning for it is different here...I have no issues with parampara, preaching and ji thing it is much more than that...


The character was going great till the deal was stuck with the negotiation mata and the tracks were changed..I never had problem with either ASR or Arnav then, I know you are talking about Khushi but one cannot leave the other characters as it has a direct bearing...

Khushi was buthchered for a lack of redemption, she was again butchered for the way contract issue was handled and PH wanted to show ASR as his former self so blackmail tactics used instead of wooing...After the mother of all butchering happened during the Anjali track...starting from the ASR outburst that she was responsible for the miseries of Raizada...

So when the writer has shifted focus overnight from a love story to a brother sister story there are bound to be causalities and Khushi is the major one..though ASR is not far behind..I will not discuss as it is not the theme of the post...


DKS you agreed with RC! I feel like a winner! 😃

Khushi has taken a back seat, yes. And that ruined things, yes.

But i've always felt there were discripencies in Khuhsi's character. Not just now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: CravingKhana


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@ bold am i missing the point...erm love making is sex when love is a big part of it and not just the physical is my understanding...

kissed every where????? what the hell was i watching..my youtube was censored????


watch it again..sum scenes were shoot in dat way..
n whatever..m sticking to TM points..
tht was sex..making luv..!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: BigIPKKNDFan



Lol.

Indian men's preferences are being discussed here because ASR was felt sorry for, due to Khushi having a child-woman personality.

Ofcourse, the show depicts values from a traditional extended family in India, so it will not be a true reflection of thought processes of the soon-to-be-married NRIs. My husband's not like that either 😊


Wait a minute, RC will never feel sorry for ASR. Bas. 😆 No questions on my ASR-hating self pileej.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aashi_82


Yes i am glad she has some opinion than no opinion but i don't completely agree with that either. With convictions so strong, she has no problems lying.

She has faults, yes. And i like her for it. What i question is why is she portrayed a being perfect when she isn't?


yeah i still think khushi should have told ASR about shyam. but if she did, we wouldn't have had any drama lol!

remember when nani did the oh la la dance to manofy khushi because she was upset she was lied to? all that went to hell and then CVs made khushi lie to everyone. although her intentions were good and she didnt ever lie for self-gain unlike many others on the show.

who said she is perfect? no human is perfect.

i have to say it is one thing to logically dissect her character - and i respect your views because you are fair to both khushi and ASR. but it irks me when khushi haters have a field day with posts like this.

Let them at me. I'll eat them alive.

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