Originally posted by: napstermonster
Im going to go out on a limb here and say ASR's love for his sister ISNT infallible and unconditional. In its own way, its also selfish, and misguided, and allows him to make choices that demean Anjali.
He is the YOUNGER brother who has taken life altering decisions about his older sister. Without her knowledge and consent-there are many older sisters on the forum right now-how many of you would be okay with your kid sister/brother deciding to keep the small detail about your spouse being a psychotic cheating asshole to himself/herself? To "spare" you the shock of knowing something that is relevant to your marriage?
To decide for you that you get to keep a child born into a marriage you'll find out in oh, six months time, was a lie since your spouse never loved you all this while? To let you become a single parent?
I dont think he values Anjali's intelligence, or her rights as a goddamn adult, to make her own choices, or even allows her to make her own decisions. As long as she wears pretty saris and makes random decisions about pujas and rasams, you know, girly crap, she should be fine. The men should do the heavy lifting of dealing with things like infidelities and attempted bigamy. Why trouble Anjali's pretty little head with such details?
Her pain will cause HIM pain, so hey, lets just make happy happy with the lusting red eyed monster in the bedroom next door.
And in the meantime...hello, brand new bride / punching bag!
I could not agree with you more! Anjali is being treated like a child, who cant take the truth! First Khushi made the collosal mistake of not disclosing the truth to Anjali or to Arnav RE Shyam! (NOW she is paying for that!)...
THEN just coz his sister is pregnant, ASR decides to keep the truth from his sister, only to see after 6 months IF he can reveal it to her, while giving his preverted Jija 1 more chance to "Change"!! Like THAT is possible! Didnt he hear with his own ears him telling Khushi his wife meant NOTHING to him and he himself admitted to ASR that he NEVER loved Anjali! So what is he hoping to gain by keeping this man in his sister's life? EVEN if she is pregnant with his child, does that change the sort of person HE is? Once a cheater always a cheater! He is a pervert! He will never change!
Did he once stop to think if his sister will want to have a child with a pevert like Shyam? If she will want to keep him in her life after knowing what he is? NO! Did he ONCE give Khushi a chance to explain HER side of things? Did he even have the decencey to tell Khushi that he knows about her and his Jija? NO!This shows that ASR has a basic lack of respect for females!
The SP channel does not have "Nayi Soch" at all! They just show abuse and degeneration of females for entertainment!
I think Nissar Parvez, Gul Khan and even LM should be ASHAMED for giving into the SP formula of showing "brow-beaten" females who get ill treated by husbands or other authority figures in their life...JUST so they can make money! They have SOLD OUT for the big bucks of SP!
DIGUSTING!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 13 years ago
